Who promotes stereotypes most?

Many black men have no problem being known as stallions and bulls with no emphasis placed on their intellect.



Diya’s son paints Dublin red
Sunday, April 09, 2006 - By Kayode Fayemi, just back from Ireland
Nigerian guys in hot demand as sex machines

Republic of Ireland based Folarin and son of General Oladipupo Diya, is savouring his fun in Dublin, the Irish capital.

Sunday Sun ran into the carbon-copy son of the former No.2 man in the General Sani Abacha regime at Spirit Night Club on Abbey Street, City Centre, Dublin, while he was on a roller coaster ride with his Irish girlfriend.

The Spirit nightclub, an exclusive hangout for the privileged and fun loving Dubliners, was practically aglow on March 25, when Folarin and his sister Bola, popped in to catch their fun.

Most Irish people work real hard from Monday through Friday, reserving the weekend beginning from Friday evening to Saturday for partying and drinking to let off steam. They are not alone in this pastime.

Nigerians, particularly the party freaks, have practically merged passion with their Irish hosts in doing what they are masters, partying like they have no troubles in another man’s country.

Hours of surveillance at the upscale club yielded a handful of surprises-each one very pleasant.

One of such is that most of the nubile Irish ladies instead of dating the Irish guy, however, seem to be physically attracted to the army of black males-especially Nigerians.

Sunday Sun observed on 10 different occasions as the fashion-conscious Nigerian dudes approached the flock of Irish " chicks" and on each occasion the result was always the same.

As the Nigerian hunk approaches with his face wreathed in a winning smile, the Irish babe would match the smile with a beatific one of her own-before holding on to his outstretched hand-and regardless of how tired she is, agrees to a round of close contact dance.

And the kind of dance they engage in, is like nothing compared to what our young folks are into, back home in Nigeria.

The Irish ladies seem to share the same appeal. They turn their attractive backsides to their Nigerian dance mates, and erotically, grind their intimidating "backyards" on the crotch of their dance partner.

Masters of the game, the "Naija boys" then grab them around the waist while glued together like magnet on iron.

Mistress has finally met the master.

Sunday Sun gathered that it is an open secret in the compact country that the young, adventurous and well…occasionally tipsy Irish babes are one soul in several bodies; unified in the belief that an average Nigerian guy is not only loaded but is as strong as a stallion.

This seems to be the basis for the sometime fatal attraction that has turned most Nigerian dudes into sex machines, coveted by the Irish beauties.

It was also observed that unlike their male couterparts, Nigerian babes do not fare as well as they are forced to share the attention of their men-albeit good naturedly-with the teeming horde of white ladies. Of course, most of them hardly get a look in from the Irish boys.

That Diya’s son is in hot demand was only evident the moment he arrived at the Club’s gate.

While everybody-white and black alike-queued up to purchase tickets for 15 Euros to enter the club, our own general’s son was not asked a dime as gate fee. This underscores his popularity in Dublin.

The younger Diya was simply waved in by the menacing Irish bouncers who gave him a respectful pat on the back and a Hi-Five sign before ushering him respectfully into the club.

Inside, Folarin was all motion. Like a shark among mackerels, he waltzed his way around the bevy of white Irish damsels before settling for a tall and leggy Irish beauty with a stunning model’s figure.

Of course, our camera man could not hold back, as he clicked on and on and on.

Snuggled tightly to the leggy lady’s "backyard", the younger Diya, with a glass of champagne in his right hand, was still able to engage his left hand which caressed the Irish lady’s midriff and flat tummy at will.

Like the Yoruba community are wont to say in Ireland, "gbogbo aye l’en je" (All enjoyment is yours). That Folarin is having undiluted fun was never in doubt.

He was in Nirvana!

It was also glaring that the bliss was a two-way affair as the gyrating couple danced, glued together for hours on end until the wee hours of the morning when they both dissapeard to…where, nobody really could say.

Folarin’s sibling, Bola is, however, a well mannered young lady who kept to herself and also made sure the guys-whether black or white-kept his hand to himself as she danced alone on most occasion. Not that her brother is such a bad guy himself.

Far from it. The fact is that the younger Diya is too much his father’s son.
Handsome, tall and well stacked like a stallion; he merely represents the inversely proportional prototype of the much sought after Nigerian male-model-sex-machine by the Irish beauties.

And do you blame him for having himself a ball?[/QUOTE]

 

:evil:

Dammit!
Busted!




Kayode Fayemi is Playa Hatin' just a wee bit.




Note to self: I MUST activate my latent Nigerian sex machine genes so that I may do the "doty grind" on some pale Irish beauties in a posh Dublin nightclub.

 

I don't know about latent.....

 

:roll:

 

I don't know... I've noticed the same phonomenon in NY and NJ clubs back in my clubbing days, and for some reason it just made me embarassed. I was thinking about how these girls may be perpetuating the stereotype that white girls are easy... Because having been around a lot of Africans, guys and girls alike and hearing what they sometimes say about white girls... I remember sitting at the campus cafeteria with a bunch of girls I knew, and a Nigerian girl (who was a total sweetheart by the way) was saying something about how the most excited fan at a hip-hop concert would be a white girl... and they all cracked up... and then she turned to me and said "i'm sorry!" and she was still laughing. All of those things popped up in my mind when I saw white girls dirty-dance in clubs without any embarassment... Don't get me wrong I have nothing against dancing or enjoying the sensuality of dancing, in fact Saturday night I was at China club getting down with my date... but when it's a total stranger, you don't know his doggone name and you're rubbing your ass on his privates...

another reason it made me embarassed is because there are white girls who would be in a relationship with a black man and marry him and do everything for him, despite family pressures and what not - or there are those who will screw a black guy but will not make him a part of their "real" life. I was thinking, if you don't think a black man is good enough for you to bring home and put his picture on your bedroom wall, then don't be acting like a whore with him at the club... I think it's a shame that sleeping around with whoever is a phase for some girls, and later they settle down with the poster boy that daddy approves of...

 

Some European women love african men and some don't. Had you read the ones who go to Africa to be with them like in the Gambia or some other African state? Most go for sexual satisfaction or sometimes for love.

 

This shit is so ridiculous i don't know where to start. :lol:

 

I can say from experience that these Nigerian guys are very popular with Irish girls. I have been to a few these Dublin clubs with Irish girlfriends, and I must say that we always went back to a house party with some very attractive Nigerian guys. Yes the Irish girls suprised me with their lack of inhibitions -in large part due to the availibility of alcohol. But I dont think it perpetuates the idea of white girls being easy. I was pleasantly suprised to see so many young ww with bm.

 

False perceptions are rampant and hurting many males and females alike. Four black football players were expelled from the Univ of Minnesota at the conclusion of an investigation began last April. Three of them had sex with an 18 year old earlier in the day and later Dominic Jones had her even though she was unconscious from binge drinking. A black basketball player was convicted of rape in Australia for molesting a woman on two occasions while she was actually in bed having sex with his friend. His defense was he thought she approved. These perceptions are definitely giving the wrong idea to some people.

 

Sarah it seems their good look and charm plus the alcohol has made Nigerian men a good catch.

 

Alcohol makes us lose our inhibitions but we go for the black bulls out of choice.

 

"black bull" Is that what you call your man!?!?!?!

I got this picture in my head of this big behind black male cow!

black bull indeed...... :roll:

 

Lighten up please.
Its a description used by many young ww to describe their black men.

 

sarah...really? i have only heard that reference as a stereotype...and it goes hand in hand with the myth that ALL black men are hung...which is just not true...if your man is okay with it then that is great for you...i thought i read in another thread that he is muslim though...i would think that his religion would frown on you refering to him as a black bull...

 

He has no problem with this description. He actually uses these words himself. But its used in a lighthearted way, thats all. He and his friends use similar stereotype expressions about white girls.

 

It really does not matter whether it is "light-hearted" or not, stereotypes like that are wrong? Many people found lynching black males light-hearted, it still did/does not make it right.

 

I dont think we should be so hung up on these words. I just laugh when my black friends make stereotyped comments about white girls. I know they are not racist or meant in a bad way. But i res[pect your views.

 

We forget that Ireland was until recently an all white society where blacks would be a curiosity. Now with immigration there are large communities of Africans in Irelands cities - primarily from Nigeria. Irish women are discovering these BM for the first time and they seem very open to dating Bm. As the numbers of BM are small, it seems that they have their pick of irish talent. The fact that some of these BM can have free access to a nite club indicated the popularity and positive image in which they are seen. I dont see any harm if this is considered stereotyping - as long as it is positive.

 

the author of that article is biased. Clearly getting aroused by the BS he/she is telling.

 

Sarah it reminds me of the Irish women who had dated BM in the past especially in America and other places. Unlike the Irish women in their homeland they had a lot of hardship from the Irish who were Americanized.