stiletoes
Well-Known Member
Hey guys,
Weird that I logged on and saw this post and my name LOL. Been off the grid for a while due to various factors. Boston is okay for IR dating, but is a very divided community in terms of neighborhoods. I tend to go out in the Dorcester section on dates because it is predominately black and nobody really cares. I live 10 miles out of the city and it is okay here. However, I did have a bad incident last summer in the next town over. The music stopped playing once me and my date walked into this resturant and EVERYONE(all white folks) just STARED. I felt like I was teleported back to the 50s or something. I think that IR dating is what you make of it, Yep some places are better or worse than others, but just do you and response appropriately to the ignorance.
Weird that I logged on and saw this post and my name LOL. Been off the grid for a while due to various factors. Boston is okay for IR dating, but is a very divided community in terms of neighborhoods. I tend to go out in the Dorcester section on dates because it is predominately black and nobody really cares. I live 10 miles out of the city and it is okay here. However, I did have a bad incident last summer in the next town over. The music stopped playing once me and my date walked into this resturant and EVERYONE(all white folks) just STARED. I felt like I was teleported back to the 50s or something. I think that IR dating is what you make of it, Yep some places are better or worse than others, but just do you and response appropriately to the ignorance.
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