WW what do you think of all the topics on BW?

It is what it is, because this site is for white women and black men. So, of course the black men here are to going cater to and coddle up to white women.

I bet some of the same fellas here would slam white women on a black men for black women site. Or slam both WW and BW on an black men for Asian women site.

A crass way of putting it is, "You run the race your in." And the race here is for white women only. [no pun intended]

 

The "attitude" thing that's very much a part of the culture of young black women is a perfectly valid subject in my opinion. Some of the guys go overboard, with statements that black women are ugly, etc. -- stuff that's obviously spiteful and counterproductive, but --

...If you're specifically exposing the attitude thing, and shedding light on the attitude thing, I'm all for it. Black women and their blatant, abiding disrespect for black male strangers, and disregard for the dignity of black male strangers who "catch their eye", are factors that are pertinent to the discussion here, imho, because they harden many a bm's heart against bw and make them determined to find love & happiness elsewhere.

And that's just ONE negative effect it has on black people's prospects...

And guess what? ONLY bm are GOING to talk about it, because no one else gives a shit. So fuck it. It's a perfectly valid, and often very interesting subject of conversation. Books have been written about it. Songs have been sung about it. Talk shows have been aired about it. So it's okay to discuss it, imho.

Regarding what ww think of it: WW know (and care) about as much about the attitude thing as they know (and care) about any other of the obstacles bm face. (Very little.) So their comments in this thread are pretty much par for the course, and predictable...

And I've read this board long enough to know that ww DO say negative things about white men here. Not so much, but they do. Not so much -- perhaps because there are so few ww here? Perhaps because the negatives that influence ww's gravitating to bm are different from the negatives that influence bm's choices (such as the attitude thing)? But they do...

The negatives that go into ww's choices are stuff like the ugly duckling syndrome, etc. , ie. stuff they're loathe to talk about and find difficult to be honest with themselves about. I think bm here are just more honest about what brings them to wanting a ww over a bw -- both the positive and negative aspects.

And that's... ok. :mrgreen: imho.

 

I like the fact Sunstorm speaks from the heart. I really understand where he's coming from he posts. I think, for some people, they like to sugar coat a topic or personal opinion. I'm not really sure why since this is a discussion board and no one is talking face to face.
I think it's best that people speak exactly what they think. As for myself, I always say what I feel. Speak on Sunstorm, Mosiah, Sardonic, Cris, Chosen one(I get a sense of straight-from-the-heart non sugar coated realness from them) or any one else for that matter. I mean look at Pey, he admitted his g/f was 14. Not saying I admire a guy who dates 14 year olds, but he did man up and admit it.

I would like the women on this thread to really speak their minds. Ms. B seems to do it quite well. Anyways, I'm off topic; back to discussion.

 

I find this interesting...

I can just imagine it now myself. But, what's up with black women slamming us in same color sites? They don't do it in IR sites for black women/white men. (as far as I know)

 

You are one funny homosexual sapiens male, Sardonic. :lol:

 

I had a curious experience last night. I went out with a close friend who is African American, and we went to a bar close to her job in Newark. Little did we know, they were having a lesbian night, and we ended up sitting at the bar with all these black lesbians. My friend and I were in a good mood, catching up and laughing, and enjoying our Amaretto Sour and White Russian. I kind of noticed the girls giving us sideways looks, but didn't pay it much mind. We didn't stay there long, and as soon as we walked out my friend turned to me half-shocked and half-laughing and said: Oh my God did you notice how these dykes were giving me all these dirty looks? Like, what are you doing bringing this white b. up in here?

So, as a mixed lesbian couple, we got our share of prejudice last night!

 

There is definitely a lot of negativity aimed at the female black race on this site, no doubt about it. But I've also seen some BW/WM sites in which the sistas are hating on the brothas. I think it's pitiful.

 

Where?? Ive never seen a site the other way around.

 

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Where?? Ive never seen a site the other way around.[/quote]

I like to know where he sees a lot of negativity aimed at black women anywhere in here.

 

I like to know where he sees a lot of negativity aimed at black women anywhere in here.[/quote]

I agree with you, but actually I mean where has he seen a bw/wm site. I have not seen the reverse of this site for any race and would like to see them.

 

I d on't think anyone should feel compelled to excuse their preferences.

Maybe people feel that they are going for the opposite race because they are so disappointed/hurt/angry with females of their own race?

But if this site is for black men who dont' hate black women at all but just like white women, then it doesnt make sense there would be so much chatter about black women....unless...

guys feel that the only reason it is acceptable to like white women is if you hate black women. So you say they are unsatisfactory in order to expain why you like white women.

Why can't it be simple? Different is interesting, maybe its not about not liking black women, it's just about being attracted to the differences in white women.

Same for the reverse in white women. Very simple, no offences to anyone.

 

\thats what I am talking about. I dont see where anyone is telling white women they are better than black women. this site is for black men and white women who have mutual physical, spiritual and emotional attraction to one another, not at the detriment of black women, but rather just as white men have for black women in an IR relationship

 

which women are you referring to Brownie? I am sorry I misread you. Which ones are you speaking of?

 

Because I do not know any white women that you know like that, I can not comment. I have never heard such assinine, pathetic and childish mess. who talks about someones hair and whether it is real or not, that just sounds like a bunch of ignorant, non educated people. who talks like that to other people anyway?

 

what the heck???!! Now come on sistah, why would you, an educated, intelligent, beautiful black woman have to go out with someone so ignorant in the first place? I have 3 sisters and I used to screen dates when I lived at home, as did my father. They dated and married real black men who behaved like they have common sense, educated, moral people.

can you tell me, as a black woman, how do you accept a date from someone that ignorant? how did you meet him and what did he say to get you to go out? I am a preppy guy so most of the black women would not go out with me when I was coming up because they said I spoke like a white boy and acted white--i liked going on real dates, church dates, meeting her family, courting her. Not trying to sleep with her or putting her down.

so i never put black women down, and now I see that if I had been a buffoon, I could have had a date with a nice sister like you

 

i mean, what kind of professional(lawyer, doctor, businessman, etc.) talks like that? he sounds more street to me. middle class black women have straight hair, as well as short hair. some have little afros and some straigten their hair. what black person hasnt seen the diversity of black women in the world? He doesnt sound like a man an educated woman of any color should be dating.

 

what part of the buffoon statement offended you? I didnt call you a buffoon, are you even reading what I wrote?

 

the buffoon statement was about the guy not you?

 

you are angry with me because I called the guy who made that stupid comment a buffoon? you called him a degenerate, so why are you angry with me?

 

no Brownie, thats not what i was saying at all.

I was saying that I dont understand how a guy like that can have a smart, intelligent, nice looking black girl. I was disgusted at his treatment of you. I was saying, "would I have to act like that guy in order to get a nice black girl" If it is then I know why I wasnt able to date many black women. It was a bit of a tongue in cheek but I was just saying, I dont think a guy like that deserves a nice sistah.