"you look like the type that dates white girls"

I don't find that nonblacks who date outside their race display hatred or encourage it from their mates towards any member of their race. They also say it loud and clear that they still have love for the opposite gender of their race and continue to leave the door open. It's not the same where bm are concerned and many use their hatred of bw as a means to flatter ww and some enjoy it and come to expect it as a way to feel special. These men have no qualms about repeating how low they place bw on any totem pole and that's what make them unique.

 

Who knows what actually burns in your heart, but you've said plenty on this board that would make one think otherwise. Even that snide comment about bw going to college of student loans which I don't see anything wrong with. I told you once before, I think you go out of your way to treat and respect women differently according to color, but when a ww here started dating a nonblack man it gave you pause to think about how corrosive it is to hate women from your own culture when the objects of your affection will never do so. Trust me, plenty of us know how you guys feel.

 

Somehow I believe any incidents of random bw saying anything to IR couples is grossly exaggerated. Although we might talk about it amongst ourselves I don't know any bw who behaves like this. On another note, consider yourselves lucky if bw only use words because the real enemy of IR takes action...like burning crosses on your lawn, becoming beligerent and physcially abusive. You love to put it all on bw because it would displease ww to focus on what wm are capable of doing. Some bm do not like taking ww certainly locales because of fear of wm...not bw. Many bm who date IR are automatically rude to bw, and when we respond in kind that's used against us as well. Thank goodness we have little reason to think of you as an ally.

 

I read comments from a bm saying he and his white wife were training their son to dislike bw...which I think could blow up in their face. A ww on another board said her biracial son made his feelings known against bw and traced them back to his father. The worst I heard about was of a bm speaking pleasantly and making small talk with a bw in a department store only to have his ww say "Why are you speaking with her...you said you hated bw." He said "I do" and walked on off. I must say a few bm aren't like this and have had problems with their ww because they weren't and it was expected. When I first came to this site there was a thread on this topic, and some ww said they'd be upset if their bm even looked at bw since they said they hate them. People have no idea and don't care about the damage they do attempting to spread hate against one-half of their race. It's gonna backfire in ways they can't imagine right now.

Some ww are trying to put an end to this hatred of bw because of their biracial daughters. Many of them are almost indistinguishable from blacks. I've known some to leave IR sites upon learning how bm felt when all the men called themselves doing was honoring ww.

 

I agree. Seems like self-hate at its highest level.

 

If I had a dollar for every time someone has said that to me...I'd buy you all a Happy Meal...

 

a steak dinner.

 

:lol:

Like I said earlier, when someone actually said it to me, it was another black man. I've never had any sistas say it to date, and so far, plenty of them would still find and see me as someone who 'doesn't date white girls.'

 

black men and black women have said it to me, i guess it shows on my face, the way I act, dress, and things i like to do, i dont know

 

dating

It has been my experience (unfortunate in some instances HA HA) that BM have little problem with inviting the attention and affection of ANY woman! Seriously though, I find most men won't racially discriminate in terms of having sex with women of other races but seriously date a white woman- well that's another issue.

 

yeah, i am talking about dating them and marrying them. which i would do before I would have sex with anyone.

 

That's complete and utter bullshit. You can approach/speak to a sista the same exact way you would a white woman with no difference and she'd come back with some attitude or some shit. I know, I've tried it. But then again, I don't look like Tupac, maybe that's where I went wrong.

 

Okay, so evil BM who date WW are hostile to BW, that's fact, not to be disputed, right?

Yet instances of BW saying anything to IR couples is "grossly exaggerated."

Gotcha.

:roll:

 

Think about this for a minute, karma. Lexington has been trolling this since for over 2 years and has been saying the exact same things repeatedly about black men vs. black women again and again, only to be proven wrong and have her arguments picked apart by some of the black men and white women in here. Also, she uses the first name of a famous black male pornstar as her moniker.

 

:lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:

 

Wow, that's deep thinking. And yeah, I have been seeing her posts on here for quite awhile. They have become more and more passive/aggressive as time has gone by. She probably fancies herself the lone defender of BW on this board.

 

She does, and many psychologists would confirm that the true definition of insanity is doing/saying the exact same things over and over and over again, expecting a different outcome or result.

If ya keep doin' what you've always done, you'll keep gettin' what you've always got.