How does a white woman meet a sane black man in murfreesboro, TN?

[stiletoes]

Ah well that makes sense! 3 years will go by quickly.

And yes the whole job interview way of dating doesn't seem to work to well LOL. Actually though I was talking with a friend of mine and she gave a different perspective on that. She said she knows people for whom that method worked well. Some people really want/need their life to be very structured and they seem to do well with it all boxed in. Sortof like the viewing dating/relationships as a business deal.

I think there is something to be said for being logical even regarding relationships, but passion and all doesn't fit neatly on a balance sheet.

Who knows, you met someone there before. Maybe you will meet someone again...someone who's planning to move too!

I agree with the business partnership thing, but I had that for 20 years,,,clicking with something is a way better experience in my opinion, evne if it doesnt work

 

[K]

I agree with the business partnership thing, but I had that for 20 years,,,clicking with something is a way better experience in my opinion, evne if it doesnt work

Yep. I've been there myself. Thought that was the way to go and that all the feeling stuff was over rated. I wouldn't do it again.

It can be really hard to get over the passionate relationship if it ends, but it's still better overall!

 

[TheAnomaly03]

Well i'm fairly sane, but I live in 20 minutes away in Antioch.