I'm confused? I'm speaking for myself. For example, if I was negligent in showing my girl attention, affection, and love for a lengthy time and she cheats, I can't be mad at that. It may even be my wake up call realizing what I got and working hard to keep it. For her, she might just enjoyed the new found attention from some other guy but her hearts still with me so we can work it out.
well if youre neglecting her and she feels neglected..where is the communication between you to air that out and get things back to where theyre supposed to be? why should it take her fucking someone else to snap you back to attention? why should she be easily swayed by the attention of someone else if she's truly down with you? what youre talking about is a recipe for drama but I find that deep down its human nature to want to drama in peoples life.
Smh. When a man cheats , he's a dog....when a woman cheats its because HE did something wrong.. Please give me a break
Facts are facts. That statement you mad is bs. Making excuses for a someone cheating ....please. Its my fault she cheated.... Fool please. Its her fault she cheated. Your woman put that Jedi mind trick on your ass. "You right honey. Its my fault that dude got his dick in your mouth"- north Get that woman off that pedestal.
Interesting turnabout. It used to be men would cheat and it was their wife's fault because she must not be giving him enough sex (or being freaky enough, etc)
I do feel the same way as North on this. People don't cheat for the fun of it people cheat for the lack of satisfaction within their relationship. Which does come down to the attention you pay your signifcant other. If I wasn't showing the man I was with affection and he cheated how could I purely blame him. You're both at fault.
People will tell you anything to make it your fault. People will cheat no matter what. You cant make someone a cheat .... They cheat cause they want to cheat. U fuck him everyday like a pornstar.... He cheats cause you don't bring in enuff money U fuck him everyday like a pornstar and make millions. He cheats cause you aren't a good cook. U fuck him everyday like a pornstar, make millions and cook like Betty crocker . he cheats cause you don't know physics. U fuck him everyday like a pornstar , make millions, cook like Betty crocker, smart like Einstein and he cheats cause you are too perfect
It's a choice. No one makes anyone else cheat. That's something within them and their character. There are always other options, other ways of dealing with things. They chose to cheat. We always have a part in things that happen in our relationships and I think there is some value to looking at that and addressing things. However, to say it's someone else's fault that someone cheats is just bullshit.
Sometimes women break up with guys to get attention, they don't bang someone else to get attention. lol. If she feels she is not getting attention she should speak up or leave the relationship.
I'm not one who needs an explanation. I just think there's no (legit) reason for cheating, and if it happens to me... I don't see how I could trust that person again which is why I'd have to move on.
