Do you prefer your man to be tall or short?

[K]

I apologize for the the X-Rated descriptiveness of this post so don't scan down if you're a church girl:smt018

Big One - Penis size. Women have lots of assumptions about what feature of a man allows them to assume the guy has a big dick. Shoe size, hand size, length of fingers...I'm sure that many assume that height is also proportional to penis size. Hell, a whale has a bigger dick than a humming bird, right?

If a tall guy feels more dominant having sex with a smaller woman, he would obviously prefer shorter women. I've never looked at "men for women" ads, but I doubt very much that tall men are specifically requesting women of a short stature....well, unless they are seeking a midget (my fishing buddy is 6-4, 270lb and all he talks about is midget porn).

I have slept with 3 women who were over 6-2. It was definitely different, but doable. Simple things like kissing were "an effort" in missionary position...or even doggystyle required frequent adjustments (or was better if I was standing and the bed furniture "helped" the act. To be honest, putting them in "the buck" (ask a black male lover if you don't know because google will not be your friend this time:smt024) was even weird because instead of having an ankle or foot as a handle/lever point...I was working with the back of the knee. Leverage and contact points are completely different. Mind you, these women were slim (130-145lbs). I can't imagine trying to "handle" a 6'-4 BBW (230-275lb). Even a smaller one. I'm pretty comfortable with my skillset, but I do hesitate when I'm changing positions with a larger women and I have had to change my game plan when dealing with or overcoming some obstacles. I can throw the kama sutra book at a 120/130lb woman...scoop her straight from missionary to flying in the air thighs above my shoulders for oral and back to the bed for more stick game. Big girl?...I'm really tackling her like an advanced math problem. We could be stuck in 3 or 4 positions the whole night....and I"m probably not going to be talking shit :smt042

My little cuz gets off on "brutalizing women" - lol. That's the best way I can describe it. He was a college football player and Ho. He told me that he never kissed women, but they lined up for him and still do. I would describe his sex style as grudge fucking - only...oh, and skull fucking (I've seen him in action). Women sometimes bleed during sex with him - no bullshit...and he chuckles about it. I guess it feeds his ego so that's why I say that perhaps tall dudes choose shorter women. It's easy for a 6', 220lb guy to manhandle a 5-4, 140lb woman. There definitely has to be a feeling of superiority in it. However, dealing with a woman his height and proportional weight might not affect him as much as it does me, but I'm sure that he's not handlin' a 260lb woman like I handle one who's 130lbs.

I have looked at lots of woman's ads and the majority of them ask for a guy taller than her (with an exaggerated height listed for her); tall, dark and handsome; at least 5-10; or over 6'. Most of those ads are from short women. I've seen ads by women who are 5-10 to 6-4 and they specifically ask for men that are taller than they are. So is it about simply having a taller guy they feel protected by; a competitive issue among females (like having a guy that spoils her vs her friends guy who rarely has extra money); a taller male as some subliminal genetic preference for birthing taller children per hunter-survivor instinct; or is it simply an assumption that a taller guy equals a bigger dick and more aggressive sex? Only a woman can answer that question.

That was quite a tangent! I was simply asking regarding the one sentence I bolded to see if you meant a big dick.

You may not be aware that just because a man is tall doesn't mean he has a big dick. I think most women are very aware of this.

In regards to your response:

Many tall men approach short women. They don't usually specify short women on their dating profiles. But at 5'4 and a fair amount of experience with dating (on and off dating sites) over the years, I can tell you that I've dated many more tall/very tall men than not. I don't have a height thing. It's just been the way it goes. Men usually think I'm taller than I am when out and about because I have longer legs and I'm short wasted, but that wouldn't really factor in online where I clearly put my height.

As far as if tall men are going for short women to dominate...some probably are. That really hasn't been my experience overall, or for most of the women I know who have been with tall men, but we aren't into the aggressive brute types. Maybe more the gentle giant, protective, teddy bears.

 

[darkwawyer]

Have you ever taken a shower with 80 other men, under 3 shower heads in less than 5 minutes? I'm a life time jock (wrestling, track, football, etc) and 10 year military veteran, who's been around strippers and porn almost as long. If I haven't seen one penis I haven't seen 1000 and the bodies they're attached to.
A very fucked up, but true statement :smt042 I've seen some real freakish shit in regards to men, height and dick ratio.

Sorry for the long explanation/info share. I type fast, my brain rambles.

If you know how a tall, black man feels about not being able to play basketball and the criticism he might get about not being able to do so (by other men who assume he should naturally be able to) then one can only imagine how a tall guy feels when his dick is under 5" erect.

As a matter of fact, :smt115 I would almost bet that the majority of male BDSM practitioners have small to medium size (and one's who are "hung" have a certain degree of sexual dysfunction).

Ok, I'm rambling again.

 

[FromUKNHereToPlay]

Women don't care what men look like that much. You see short men with hot women everyday. Your looks don't matter to women that much. Now they are a bonus, to women, the same way having a biscuit with your tea is bonus or slice of cake, but they are not essential if all you want is a cup of tea.

 

[Peach State Scholar]

Women don't care what men look like that much. You see short men with hot women everyday. Your looks don't matter to women that much. Now they are a bonus, to women, the same way having a biscuit with your tea is bonus or slice of cake, but they are not essential if all you want is a cup of tea.

Well, that's not true. Women definitely care about looks. Everyone does. That's just human nature. No woman's going date a man that she isn't attracted to.

 

[GFunk]

Well, that's not true. Women definitely care about looks. Everyone does. That's just human nature. No woman's going date a man that she isn't attracted to.

This. I get more looks now that I'm in shape and i get better feedback from women. Women are generally just as shallow as men. A scrawny, short poorly dressed guy will have a lot harder time getting a hot girl. Not saying it doesn't happen but those are exceptions. Hot girls know they are hot and won't settle for someone who they think isn't on their level in some way.

 

[MilkandCoffee]

Short men of any race tend to get short ended (pun intended) by women. I do think it's even more obvious in IR relationships due to some of the stereotypes that attract WW to BM.

A lot of WW are attracted to BM because of the masculinity stereotype and how we're viewed as athletic, in shape, ruggedly handsome, confident, etc. being tall usually coincides with those stereotypes so when they find out a BM isn't tall it might completely ruin their fantasy.

Just my theory.

 

[FromUKNHereToPlay]

Well, that's not true. Women definitely care about looks. Everyone does. That's just human nature. No woman's going date a man that she isn't attracted to.

But woman can think a man is good looking but not be attracted to him and be attracted to him with her thinking he's good looking.

That's why you see average looking or even ugly dudes with nice looking women everyday

 

[Peach State Scholar]

But woman can think a man is good looking but not be attracted to him and be attracted to him with her thinking he's good looking.

That's why you see average looking or even ugly dudes with nice looking women everyday

Even then, that woman still finds the man that's she's with to be attractive even if he wouldn't be considered attractive by anyone else.

If you're trying to say that a woman will date a man that she doesn't find physically attractive then that's not true. They can be friends maybe but if she doesn't want to fuck him, she's not going to date him.

It wouldn't matter if he thought that she was the most beautiful woman to walk the earth. If that attraction isn't mutual then nothing romantic is ever going to happen between them.

 

[Peach State Scholar]

This. I get more looks now that I'm in shape and i get better feedback from women. Women are generally just as shallow as men. A scrawny, short poorly dressed guy will have a lot harder time getting a hot girl. Not saying it doesn't happen but those are exceptions. Hot girls know they are hot and won't settle for someone who they think isn't on their level in some way.

Short men of any race tend to get short ended (pun intended) by women.

True on both counts.

 

[FromUKNHereToPlay]

Even then, that woman still finds the man that's she's with to be attractive even if he wouldn't be considered attractive by anyone else.

If you're trying to say that a woman will date a man that she doesn't find physically attractive then that's not true. They can be friends maybe but if she doesn't want to fuck him, she's not going to date him.

It wouldn't matter if he thought that she was the most beautiful woman to walk the earth. If that attraction isn't mutual then nothing romantic is ever going to happen between them.

Looks and attraction are different.

Yes - A handsome man may create a surface attraction in women, but surface attraction means nothing to women. That's why women in clubs or even on dates can find the man attractive on the surface and the guy may even make out with her, but when the women get's home, she flakes on him, and forgets him.

Women can do this with EASE.

Women can meet one guy and never care if she ever sees the guy again in her life and that's even with men she's attracted to. Because surface attraction (Good looks) is not enough to seal the deal and this on top of the fact that women are STATE BASED HUMAN BEINGS.

That is, in a club or bar, in that moment they may be in a state of attraction but when they get home, they are not in that state, so they flake on the guy and don't return his calls or text.

This is confusing to men. Because men's attraction to woman is binary. An OFF/ON switch. If we want to F**K a woman today, we want to F**K a woman tomorrow and the next day.

Woman are not like that.

Women's attraction to a man is like a volume knob; up and down, because women are state based human beings. This is why I say (And I've learned the hard way) that you have to at least try to F**K a woman as soon as poss.

Because if you do that gentleman thing of not pushing for sex, most of the time, the women will backward rationalize it, as "It never happened because it was not meant to happen"

This is how the ladies think Fellas.

That why all your nice guy Clark Kent sh*t

Gets you friend zoned. It's get you the women saying "No spark" "No chemistry" it get's you her ignoring your texts and calls.

Remember if being nice to women was the key to f*cking them, then men would be lining up to save the world. Women don't think "I just met this guy. He's so kind and nice and that really turns me on !!"

Men have to go in for the kill quickly other wise another more dominant lion will swallow her up and bang the sh*t out of her. Remember that b*tch who is stalling on you has sucked a dick in the toilet from the moment she met a guy.

Don't let an undercover ho flex to you on some nun sh*t.

Back to the looks thing and why I think it does not matter. Well, it's only been in the last 100 years since Hollywood that what man looked like, even mattered, not enough time to affect evolution.

Do you think women cared what men looked like a thousand years ago ?

It's because of this that women often seem picky to men because they’re selective in who they’re attracted to and this isn’t something they choose.

Men can be attracted to a woman by merely seeing her; they often feel physical attraction first.

Women, on the other hand, often don’t feel physical attraction for a man until they develop emotional or intellectual attraction for him, which requires getting to know him a little.

So if you take a woman to a place filled with men, she often won’t be interested in any of them until she talks to and connects with one of them.[/FONT][/SIZE]

 

[Peach State Scholar]

I'm not going to quote your entire post because that would be too long but to answer a few of your questions, I'm willing to bet that women hundreds of years ag very much cared what men looked like. You don't think that physical attraction on started in the 20th century, do you? Women, like men, have always been human. And women, like men, are always going to notice physical attraction. That's been universally true as long as pussies have been getting wet and dicks have been getting hard.

As for women not being interested in men until she gets to know one of them personally, I have to ask: do you know any women personally? Have you ever met one before? Have you ever talked to any? Because if you have, you'd know that women notice a man's physical appearance in the same way that men notice womens' physical appearance. I know plenty of women who can look at a man and find him physically attractive without knowing too much else about him.

It won't matter how nice he is, how much of a provider he can be, or any of those other things that may seem important. It all starts with physical attraction. Some women may hold out for a man that they consider a 10 while other women might be okay with a man they'd consider a 7 or 8 but physical attraction is always going to be a factor.

 

[FromUKNHereToPlay]

I'm not going to quote your entire post because that would be too long but to answer a few of your questions, I'm willing to bet that women hundreds of years ag very much cared what men looked like. You don't think that physical attraction on started in the 20th century, do you? Women, like men, have always been human. And women, like men, are always going to notice physical attraction. That's been universally true as long as pussies have been getting wet and dicks have been getting hard.

As for women not being interested in men until she gets to know one of them personally, I have to ask: do you know any women personally? Have you ever met one before? Have you ever talked to any? Because if you have, you'd know that women notice a man's physical appearance in the same way that men notice womens' physical appearance. I know plenty of women who can look at a man and find him physically attractive without knowing too much else about him.

It won't matter how nice he is, how much of a provider he can be, or any of those other things that may seem important. It all starts with physical attraction. Some women may hold out for a man that they consider a 10 while other women might be okay with a man they'd consider a 7 or 8 but physical attraction is always going to be a factor.

Yes and physical attraction has little to do with looks. That's why you see average looking men with attractive women. Now I agree that what's attractive to one, is not attractive to another.

And women may notice what a man looks like, but there is still a long way to go before she allows him to smash her.

 

[Peach State Scholar]

Yes and physical attraction has little to do with looks. That's why you see average looking men with attractive women. Now I agree that what's attractive to one, is not attractive to another.

Lol well, we're just going to have to agree to disagree on this one. Looks definitely matter when it comes to physical attraction. That's why we call it physical attraction and not emotional attraction. It can be his skin color, his height, his six pack abs, his biceps, his hair, etc. But all those things fall under the category of physical attraction.

And women may notice what a man looks like, but there is still a long way to go before she allows him to smash her.

Yeah, now this I agree with. At least for most women, anyway. I think that women in general are much pickier about who they'd consider sleeping with than men are. Not to say that every man would necessarily jump in the bed with every woman he finds attractive but if a man and a woman of equal physical attractiveness to the opposite sex were to go out in public and find someone for a one-night stand, the woman would find a lot more sexual partners than the man would.

 

[K]

Well, that's not true. Women definitely care about looks. Everyone does. That's just human nature. No woman's going date a man that she isn't attracted to.

You'd be surprised. Many of us have married men we weren't physically attracted to.

 

[K]

Hot girls know they are hot and won't settle for someone who they think isn't on their level in some way

but you have to remember that there are many other things other than looks that people find of value. Especially in previous generations, we were raised that the looks fade and you want the qualities that are more solid

 

[K]

UK is actually pretty much on with this.

And you have to remember too there is a big difference between what a woman will mess with and what she wants to be with.

 

[goodlove8]

Guys .. long and short of it is...there are somethings you can't change and some things you can, so get your game together.

Dress properly and get your mouth piece right.

You aren't going to pull every woman you see but you will have a better chance if you start with gpod grooming , wardrobe and your Convo is right.

Too many damn excuses

 

[Peach State Scholar]

You'd be surprised. Many of us have married men we weren't physically attracted to.

In all honesty how long do those marriages last, though? And how does that affect the man going forward? Personally, if I'm dating someone then the physical attraction has to be mutual. It wouldn't matter how beautiful I think she is if she doesn't feel the same way about me. That sounds like a recipe for disaster.

 

[goodlove8]

In all honesty how long do those marriages last, though? And how does that affect the man going forward? Personally, if I'm dating someone then the physical attraction has to be mutual. It wouldn't matter how beautiful I think she is if she doesn't feel the same way about me. That sounds like a recipe for disaster.

Yeah to a point but women respond to mindgasms moreso than anything else.

Not saying you are wrong though

 

[GFunk]

but you have to remember that there are many other things other than looks that people find of value. Especially in previous generations, we were raised that the looks fade and you want the qualities that are more solid

In previous generations yeah. A lot less for my generation. If you don't look good, your status may have to cover for that. Your social life may have to cover for that.