The more I read these posts I begin to see there is no shortage of hatred for black men and I honestly don't get it.
Especially with black women, don't they have brothers fathers sons and cousins? They are on this separation tour where everything is about supporting black women and condemning black men unless they bend the knee and worship them or they're gay. Suddenly its all about black women and not black people, can you imagine if any black man said this? I wonder where does that leave us.
I got into it with some women on Facebook recently, Black Couple Revolution, because they posted some nonsense where some shitty white mom said some racist shit to her biracial daughter. Now I support the page because I do believe black couples don't get enough exposure and I come from black couples as do most of my nieces and nephews so I fully support it. However I don't get what place that post had on a page about black couples, until the comments started rolling in and it was basically a bunch of black women saying this is what happens when we don't teach our black boys to stay away from white women. Actually:
OP: A white mother of a "biracial" girl tells her daughter exactly how she feels about her in a text message.
When will Black people stop having sex and children by white supremacists?
Me: I thought this page was about celebrating black couples not bashing interracial couples and non blacks. That's some sad backwards thinking.
And if you think black parents aren't equally as abusive think again. The vast majority of parental abuse black people experience is from shitty black parents. Dating and marrying monracially will not save you from the unhealed scars of others.
Black woman: OK, thanks for to yessa messa long ass essay nigga coon smh... Clearly your ass love yo white women. U probably wouldn't give a fuck what this nutty broad said to the child huh.. See negro like u are dangerous for the black community. In due time coons will have their time
Me: Lol ahhh nothing like hate in the morning
I'm sure whatever man you have in your life must adore your bubbling personality
Another bw: Why are you here anyway, aren't you with Becky?
Me: No I'm not. I don't need to be with a white woman to see this horseshit as straight up wrong
Another bw: So loving and choosing your own people is wrong? WTF
Me: Who said that it was wrong? Like I said I came here to support black couples not spend time bashing interracial couples and white people. It's unnecessary and makes no sense
Another bw: You can't have black children with a white woman anyway
Me: This is ALWAYS a burden thrown at the feet of black men never black women. I'm still waiting for the video where black women give the same message to other black women.
And the reality is that any child I have will be black no matter who their mother is so this entire thing is moot
Bw: A) Statistically, black women have been less likely to date outside their race than black men.
B) It's moot to you - but, obviously not the other people who know that black children cannot come from between the legs of a non-black woman.
Me: A) so what they still do it. Doing it less doesn't absolve them or at least it shouldn't which makes the whole argument ridiculous to begin with.
B) If that nonsense is true that why do these same people praise Obama as our first black president and Malcom X as a great black man or Halle Berry as a beautiful black woman. That argument is a complete moving target.
Bw: Don't think that black women don't catch hell for that. I can only assume you don't see it because if the range of people in your orbit. I know I see it all the time and more than half the time - I see it from other black females such as myself.
Secondly, again, none of the people I have in my orbit consider Obama black. And they also realize that Malcolm X wasn't biracial in that he had a direct white parent. His mother was the product of RAPE and so there was no love lost between him and his raping grandaddy. I'm that instance, I really wish people would get the story straight.
Me: Catch hell how? No one stops a black woman's mobility or threatens their lives the way they do black men. Or maybe it's not reported but as far as our community is concerned we either celebrate it or it isn't mentioned but it never gets the backlash when the genders are reversed.
Secondly if you don't consider Obama black then you weren't paying attention to how he moves in this world and more importantly how he was treated in this world. So if Malcom X doesn't take how about Frederick Douglas or Bob Marley or maybe Jesse Williams? I notice how you glossed over the Halle example though
Conversations like this make me realize for the most part we're on our own.
