Bliss
Well-Known Member
Lets clear up my position on rape. Which is not the issue with Trump, try as you might.Dont be so sure about that, according to her, she reached out in that email to reconnect, in hopes of getting Trump to admit what he had done. As to why criminal charges have not been filed, look at Weinstein, Cosby, Affleck, and numerous others, in many cases criminal charges have not been filed at all, or took a long time to file. As you have stated many times here, there are numerous reasons why women do not persue criminal sexual assault charges against powerful men who can damage their career. Not to mention such charges are VERY hard to prove in a court of law because often times it comes down to a "he said - she said" scenario, without much hard evidence.
Lastly, from a legal standpoint mere allegations are usually not enough to get someone arrested. You or I could make allegations about someone famous tomorrow if we like, it does not mean they will be arrested.
I have said that women, in the past often did not come forward.
At the time when rape was not believed by women claiming it, when rape kits didn't exist, and yes when women are drugged and cannot prove they were raped, then l understand women not coming forward. Especially against powerful men.
However today, women can come forward,. And should. Even though it's still tough to prove.
But this woman wan not raped, Loki. And you know it. She said she was harrassed and when you read her allegations, they are not criminal.
To quote Shan Wu, a former sex crimes prosecutor for the Department of Justice and current criminal defense attorney in Washington;
"I think one thing that people are not doing a good job of distinguishing between, is criminal sexual assault versus, perhaps, sexual harassment, or just pure crass behavior."
Loki, as a woman, men have tried to kiss me many times throughout my life. I have had my ass pinched, my breasts pinched and squeezed, my ass slapped, I was at work and I had a co-worker come up and kiss my bare shoulder as a greeting. I had a friend's male friend masturbate while sitting at a bar, during our conversation (l asked him in disbelief, "was he masturbating"?? His response - he blamed it on "my sexiness".) I let it go. Like l do for most times l'm harrassed.
Men do a LOT of creepy things sexual in nature without asking. However, this lawsuit is not rape, and It's disingenuous and disrespectful to victims of sexual assault to imply it is.
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