THIS. This is why representation is so crucial. When there aren't many representations of a people/situation, each representation takes on increased meaning. That's (part of) why tokenism is so bad: one person unfairly represents the entire group.Well...
The Mountain Between Us is kind of the same way...
And there are still not that many bm/ww IR couples on screen so when you create one and have it be disastrous it's not a good look....
But you can't do this with a IR couple... At all! Because it's marginalizing.
We're not there yet to not see race in that, because the business they are in still have a PROBLEM with race and interracial between black men and white women.
It simply means more when representations of minorities and interracial relationships go bad (which they do in many many ways). It's like back in the 90s and earlier, when most black men you saw represented were entertainers or athletes, servants or criminals. We STILL deal with dumb stereotypes (Uncle Toms, magical negroes, thugs, don't-care fathers, can't-help-it lazy losers, etc.), and we've made HUGE progress.
I think IRs, particularly bmww IRs, are in that pre/early-2000s place right now.
Better examples are s l o w l y starting to appear with (some) regularity (Midnight, Texas; The Good Place; the upcoming show Fam; more and more ads/commercials). Hopefully in another five years this will be a stale complaint.
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