JamalSpunky
Well-Known Member
Sorry, but it just doesn't work out like that in our real world. If you refer to women having multiple white boyfriends who cheat on them and yet still date white boys you are for the most part talking about WHITE women. Mathematically speaking it is natural for white women to more on from one white man to the next despite dealing with betrayal just as it is common for black women doing the same with black men, Hispanic ladies doing the same with Hispanic men, etc. Its a numbers game and for the most part people date/marry within their own racial group/community. When members of either sex is cheated upon they don't normally move on to someone of a different race, they just find a new partner within their race. Granted African Americans are routinely shouting on twitter shit about "I'm gonna get a white girl' or "I need to try a white man" after they are betrayed but by and large African Americans still move on to someone else of their race/ethnicity too.
However if you are a person of one race who has been repeatedly cheated on by partners who were all of a same different race, then you may start to form somewhat prejudicial opinions about men/women from that different race. Yeah, it may not be fair but it is a sort of natural reflex. Its a very human coping mechanism. This can especially be true if that different race has been subjected to so much unwarranted racism and prejudice over time that negative stereotypes have formed against them to begin with. Black people get tagged a lot with negative, racial baggage. Plus in this case if you are a white woman continually being screwed over by black boyfriends/husbands, why not stop and go back to the presumed, society-dictated "default" male companion for white women: white men? Chances are at the very least a white woman can find a greater pool of eligible men who have better jobs, make more money and come from stable two-parent homes if they look towards the white pool. That may sound controversial but its just plain facts. It doesn't matter to individuals how it got to that point that white men have such a leg up; all that concerns individuals in the dating game is that white men have those advantages.
Now some would say that its about sexual attraction and if a woman has bee loving, say, black dudes all along why change? Well, people evolve. And if you are a woman who from teen years to your late twenties have been drawn to types of guys you found cool, after enough years of disappointments with such dudes you may grow to a point in which you start finding other qualities attractive. Qualities such as reliability, maturity, groundedness, financially security, faithfulness. Such things may be boring when you are very young and in your lust stages but they can become powerfully attractive and even sexy traits as you get older, particularly for ladies who want to settled down and have kids.
Anyway the point is this Pennant guy is an idiot who didn't appreciate enough what he already had.
No, they don't do something that stupid. They ain't African American women. They just stop dating black men and move on to white guys, Arabic men, Asian males, etc.
