Do you prefer your man to be tall or short?

meowkittenmeow said:
To be fair, I see many women with exorbitant amounts of entitlement. The whole “can’t find a man”, “can’t find a husband”, “where are all the good men”, wreaks of entitlement. The reality is that no one is entitled to a man/woman, a husband/wife, and if a person can’t find a decent person of the opposite sex, it normally has more to do with them than the entire gender.

So, in the case of this man, I agree, he’s an asshole and that is why he is alone. In regards to women of your generation not feeling worthy, I am inclined to agree. But, TDK and beasty are talking about women of our generation. And they are terribly entitled. Granted, that generally refers to American women, not all, but many.

The points TDK made by reiterating the mantras used by today’s women, tell an interesting story. In this current wave of feminism, many women of all races take various cues from black women. Doing so creates a level of entitlement that a lot of black men have experienced from black women. It is a huge turn off for intelligent black men that realize that entitlement is predatory behavior. This is what I believe TDK and beasty are referring to.

The reality is, some places will like you or appreciate you, others won’t. Some places are full of entitled people, others aren’t. Having traveled a lot in my time, I’ve noticed that certain people feel entitled to their own, but don’t feel entitled to others. So, they will work hard and be on their best behavior for others.

For example, I’ve known white men who were complete assholes to white women, but would be tender and loving to Asian women. I’ve also known plenty of black women who treat black men like shit, but are tender and loving with white men. I’ve also seen it with foreigners of a given country. In Korea the women can get belligerent with their Korean or white boyfriends (it’s called the princess disease). Meanwhile, if they have a black boyfriend they don’t act that way because we tend to be upfront about not liking that shit.

The reality is, with all of the information at our fingertips, everything being so accessible now, and the influence of predatory black women, the world is full of people who feel entitled. If you aren’t one of those people, it becomes very difficult to find like minded people to date.
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Incredibly well stated agree 100 percent.
If you're an intelligent man with options there's no way you'd entertain the nonsense for long. Life is too short and too many good things to enjoy out there
 
Reverie said:
This is not mantras I hear daily and it can be because I do not live in the US.



They have taken after men.



I would say many women have taken various cues from men to be able to survive.



This is just bad behavior.



A lot of people are just ugly and that goes for both men and women.



I don't think black women have anything to do with it. Because every white women I know of doesn't think about black or asian women at all. And are certainly not influenced by them.
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Come on that's totally unfair. Own your shitty behavior. If you do bad own it
 
GAmomlisa said:
Lol maybe this is a female thing where we just dont have sympathy for short unattractive white guys haha. But I bet you anything this bagel guy is in fact a racist. You can tell by the way he talks about the "indian lady" and the pakistani guy. Sorry, no sympathy for white males that are too short and unattractive to get women. You are not owed a woman!
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We empathize because we deal with the exact same shit.

I'm average height, but I've been curbed multiple times by short women who only wanted dudes tall enough to be in the NBA.

I've seen my overweight cousin get rejected by several "BBWs" who only wanna fuck bodybuilder looking dudes.

Why the fuck do women play dumb about this shit? "Body positivity" is only for women.

Don't give me anecdotal shit about "I have girlfriends who are totally open to dating so and so." We're living in the internet era. There's scientific proof of what kind of people are the most/least desirable in the sexual marketplace.
 
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Frederick said:
We empathize because we deal with the exact same shit.

I'm average height, but I've been curbed multiple times by short women who only wanted dudes tall enough to be in the NBA.

I've seen my overweight cousin get rejected by several "BBWs" who only wanna fuck bodybuilder looking dudes.

Why the fuck do women play dumb about this shit? "Body positivity" is only for women.

Don't give me anecdotal shit about "I have girlfriends who are totally open to dating so and so." We're living in the internet era. There's scientific proof that of what kind of people are the most/least desirable in the sexual marketplace.
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Its easy to play dumb when you don't have to deal with it. Its like when people still question a police brutality case even with video proof and a history of bad behavior if its not your problem its easy to dismiss it. Also like how a lot of men don't seem to believe sexual assault isn't rampant.
 
Frederick said:
We empathize because we deal with the exact same shit.

I'm average height, but I've been curbed multiple times by short women who only wanted dudes tall enough to be in the NBA.

I've seen my overweight cousin get rejected by several "BBWs" who only wanna fuck bodybuilder looking dudes.

Why the fuck do women play dumb about this shit? "Body positivity" is only for women.

Don't give me anecdotal shit about "I have girlfriends who are totally open to dating so and so." We're living in the internet era. There's scientific proof that of what kind of people are the most/least desirable in the sexual marketplace.
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I’m only 5’11.5”. So, since I am just at the cusp of 6 foot, I tend to slip through the cracks. But, I’ve been bodybuilding since I was a teenager, and I can attest to the many times very very large women approached me as if they were entitled to me. The “BBW” aiming for bodybuilders thing is real.

Statistically, women aim for men that are better than them or equal to them (with the caveat of higher future potential earnings... google hypergamy). Men aim for women that have a lot less than them, or are equal to them (with little thought of future earnings). So, a lot of people are looking for people that are the opposite of themselves.
 
meowkittenmeow said:
I’m only 5’11.5”. So, since I am just at the cusp of 6 foot, I tend to slip through the cracks. But, I’ve been bodybuilding since I was a teenager, and I can attest to the many times very very large women approached me as if they were entitled to me. The “BBW” aiming for bodybuilders thing is real.

Statistically, women aim for men that are better than them or equal to them (with the caveat of higher future potential earnings... google hypergamy). Men aim for women that have a lot less than them, or are equal to them (with little thought of future earnings). So, a lot of people are looking for people that are the opposite of themselves.
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Same boat as you height wise but not a bodybuilder maybe that's what I was missing lol. In my karate running days it was much easier then got even easier once certain career and financial stuff took off. Honestly I wouldn't mind if women were open about it and said they wanted someone who was financially set and physically able to protect them from the world but that's not what we hear instead we're fed lies while also being told to overlook a woman's short comings because that's what love is about supposedly. Its funny I know what's expected of men but can't begin to tell you what men expect from women
 
The Dark King said:
Same boat as you height wise but not a bodybuilder maybe that's what I was missing lol. In my karate running days it was much easier then got even easier once certain career and financial stuff took off. Honestly I wouldn't mind if women were open about it and said they wanted someone who was financially set and physically able to protect them from the world but that's not what we hear instead we're fed lies while also being told to overlook a woman's short comings because that's what love is about supposedly. Its funny I know what's expected of men but can't begin to tell you what men expect from women
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If you want some lifting advice, feel free to ask. Men, in general, want a partner/teammate. Just someone that we can take on the world with... and have sex with, lol (women want that too, but many want much more as well, as it’s often compounded with hypergamy). It never ceases to amaze me how much a man is willing to do for a woman who treats him kindly half of the time. We don’t require as much, the older and more mature women get, the less they require. I think that is one of many reasons why people who get married in their mid 40s tend to stay married. That and the fact that the looks are starting to fade for many people, so you tend to look for more substance.

In regards to certain women saying one thing and wanting another... tale as old as time. When asked, women often mention the emotional and supportive things they want in a man. But, they leave out the stuff that is considered sexy and so on. It’s been studied over and over, but there is often (not always), a drastic difference between the man a woman wants to marry and a man a woman wants to fuck. The same can be said for men.
 
meowkittenmeow said:
If you want some lifting advice, feel free to ask. Men, in general, want a partner/teammate. Just someone that we can take on the world with... and have sex with, lol (women want that too, but many want much more as well, as it’s often compounded with hypergamy). It never ceases to amaze me how much a man is willing to do for a woman who treats him kindly half of the time. We don’t require as much, the older and more mature women get, the less they require. I think that is one of many reasons why people who get married in their mid 40s tend to stay married. That and the fact that the looks are starting to fade for many people, so you tend to look for more substance.

In regards to certain women saying one thing and wanting another... tale as old as time. When asked, women often mention the emotional and supportive things they want in a man. But, they leave out the stuff that is considered sexy and so on. It’s been studied over and over, but there is often (not always), a drastic difference between the man a woman wants to marry and a man a woman wants to fuck. The same can be said for men.
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Yeah but at least with men there are no false pretenses they know exactly what's up. There's no fierce denial of the obvious. Women will tell you over and over how little the superficial matters while dismissing "boring men" for more exciting less stable men until they prove to be exactly what they showed they were then they go for boring men
 
The Dark King said:
Yeah but at least with men there are no false pretenses they know exactly what's up. There's no fierce denial of the obvious. Women will tell you over and over how little the superficial matters while dismissing "boring men" for more exciting less stable men until they prove to be exactly what they showed they were then they go for boring men
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Hmmm... I don’t concern myself with such types these days. It is a shame that it still happens. But, man or woman, it’s a person’s right to live in denial.
 
meowkittenmeow said:
I’ve been bodybuilding since I was a teenager, and I can attest to the many times very very large women approached me as if they were entitled to me. The “BBW” aiming for bodybuilders thing is real.
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RicardoCooper said:
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Lol, that’s how it is these days. Some guys get their blood boiling over this. I just find it funny. There are always women and men who aim far too high. Body positivity creates a large amount of confidence in super sized women. I think it’s a good thing. The problem with it, is there is what they want and then there is reality. The fact that she isn’t into fat guys while having 35 inch arms of blood bones and fat, kind of acts as “stud-repellant”. But, who knows, there are a lot of simps these days, so maybe she is cleaning up the dating scene? She’s sure as hell cleaning up those plates. I think she is the female version of the short weirdo with the mini bat, lol.
 
I will say that the guy could definitely change is attitude, not that it would help much. He looks like a thumb with eyes, a nose, and a mouth. He looks like Mr. Peanut’s baby brother, lol. It’s still so funny to me.

Hey, do you think you could find a video of him hitting a tree with the mini bat? I just want to see... for science, lol.
 
Frederick said:
We empathize because we deal with the exact same shit.

I'm average height, but I've been curbed multiple times by short women who only wanted dudes tall enough to be in the NBA.

I've seen my overweight cousin get rejected by several "BBWs" who only wanna fuck bodybuilder looking dudes.

Why the fuck do women play dumb about this shit? "Body positivity" is only for women.

Don't give me anecdotal shit about "I have girlfriends who are totally open to dating so and so." We're living in the internet era. There's scientific proof of what kind of people are the most/least desirable in the sexual marketplace.
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And average women struggle with the same thing as you guys. Just think about that.
 
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