White supremacy benefits most white women in the long term, and it has been doing so for quite some time. It doesn’t benefit women who are open to different things, or that buck against tradition, but for the vast majority, it is and always has been beneficial. More specifically white women who know how to use the system to their benefit.
I do agree that it is mostly a “white guy thing”, but it is only a “white guy thing” to white women, who are in a position to oppress black men and always have been. As I have stated previously, we generally endure under the oppression of the white male patriarchy, white female matriarchy, and the black female matriarchy. Essentially a trifecta of oppression.
I do, however, understand that if you are against that sort of thing, personally, it can be quite difficult to see the many avenues in which you benefit from said systems. It’s been discussed ad nauseam, so, I will leave it at that.
In regards to representation, we are probably a solid 100 plus years away from things being halfway decent.