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RicardoCooper said:
I move under the assumption I have no "allies," only limited partners in self-interest. I do not expect white people male or female to act against their own self-interests to benefit me i.e. dismantle white supremacy. I provide value where ever I go, therefore, I'm always included. If you have to cry about representation and inclusion, chances are you don't provide value.
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I happen to agree. Complainers are normally the loud matriarchal groups that raise money and make organizations that fail or that they make fail (see BLM or the BPP).

The people that actually create representation are normally black men. Black women just want movies with bw and wm in them.
 
meowkittenmeow said:
A few, but even then it is hard to tell, as some may seem on your side, but the stereotypes, backhanded compliments, and so on.

Just like with any friendship, or relationship, you can’t always tell someone’s real motives.
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If that is true, why would BM want to be with WW ?
And WW could equally question the motives of BM.
Especially if they see WW as being under the control of WM.
 
sarah23 said:
If that is true, why would BM want to be with WW ?
And WW could equally question the motives of BM.
Especially if they see WW as being under the control of WM.
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Well I think we can all recognize when a woman is an individual versus upholding racist ideals. White women literally have nothing to fear from black men the system protects you from us even when we've done nothing at all.
 
sarah23 said:
If that is true, why would BM want to be with WW ?
And WW could equally question the motives of BM.
Especially if they see WW as being under the control of WM.
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A WW could question the motives of anyone, any woman or man can. But the word “equally” doesn’t apply here as WW have oppressive power.

And as TDK pointed out, the key is finding an individual as oppose to someone who is a member of the herd. Which is much harder to find these days.
 
meowkittenmeow said:
It goes both ways actually. WM manipulate WW, and WW manipulate WM. Both parties oppress us either way.

But, keep in mind, we are talking about The U.S. and not France.
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You know, so many times I have been told that European women are being manipulated by our men. That we would be better with non European men. Though these remarks come from muslim men.
Its a refrain from them.
I do not see much manipulation of WM.
 
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sarah23 said:
You know, so many times I have been told that European women are being manipulated by our men. That we would be better with non European men. Though these remarks come from muslim men.
Its a refrain from them.
I do not see much manipulation of WM.
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I tend to agree i think. How do you usually respond to these remarks?
 
GAmomlisa said:
I tend to agree i think. How do you usually respond to these remarks?
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It is often this refrain about being manipulated by white men.
But I am not anti WM or anti anybody.
But some of these guys see themselves are being superior to everyone else.
 
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sarah23 said:
It is often this refrain about being manipulated by white men.
But I am not anti WM or anti anybody.
But some of these guys see themselves are being superior to everyone else.
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This ignores media, advertising, as well as being raised with a white father (and a multitude of other variables). But, yeah, if you ignore all of those variables and many others, I can definitely see your point.

The problem with the argument beyond just the individual variables is the overall affect the majority mindset has over the minority mindset. I can’t speak for these middle eastern men, but I can say that study after study has shown the affects of a multitude of variables in dating preferences, consumer preferences, and so on. If the majority/people in power are white, it most certainly has an affect on your choices.

Even if you think outside of the box, as many members in this forum do, you may still second guess yourself at various points in life, or have to remind yourself of who you are to not allow the influence of the majority to affect you. So, although you may not personally be “as affected” by the majority mindset, there are many (statistically most), that are.
 
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GAmomlisa said:
Yeah, just her group of friends includes pretty much everyone except white males. Lots of white females, black females, black males, hispanic, asian etc. A very diverse group. We've talked about it a few times, and its a combination of them sharing similar values and stuff, along with the more shallow sorts of things that teenagers form cliques around
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I always say that those of us who may be dating BM are probably open to other races too.
Its a question of being open minded.
I also have some good Black female friends.
 
sarah23 said:
It is often this refrain about being manipulated by white men.
But I am not anti WM or anti anybody.
But some of these guys see themselves are being superior to everyone else.
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Yeah, I agree to some extent, but i dont necessarily thinks its "anti WM" to see a general cultural trend of them manipulating WW. But yeah, it def depends on the individuals
 
GAmomlisa said:
Yeah, I agree to some extent, but i dont necessarily thinks its "anti WM" to see a general cultural trend of them manipulating WW. But yeah, it def depends on the individuals
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Given your own past relationship and subsequent divorce, I can understand your comments about being manipulated by WM.
This is what I have also heard non WM say about white couples..
 
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