I agree to a point. The most the girl did was have sex with the guy and hang around an already popular potential draft pick... not really anything to do there, so she is still just another bum after a black man’s greatness. The only thing she “put in” was his dick in her mouth. No prizes for that shit. Brothas need to stop exalting people for doing the most basic, quid pro quo, shit. They had mutual sex, that’s it. Unless she paid for his education, housing, transportation, and was his training coach that took his skills to the next level, she ain’t done a damn thing.
As far as the mother goes, covert-incest is a huge problem in the black community. The term is in reference to treating the offspring as though they are meant to pick up the slack for whatever they feel their spouses shortcomings are (real or just perceived/imaginary). I remember when Kobe’s mother sold his stuff because she wanted a new house as if she didn’t already have a successful husband. And through indoctrination, they teach you to “always take care of mama” in spite of the statistically prevalent abuse associated with those same mothers. So, I will agree with you there. I think it was Chris Rock who said niggas always want praise for shit they are supposed to do. Mama probably did the most basic shit, but will want all the praise.