I certainly won't say this site is dead but it has been sleeping for a while. Just curious, where else do you go to discuss whiteF/blackM related issues?

 

To date it's the only game in town.

 

Yeah this is really the only place where you can discuss BMWF relationships and issue, I have been to other forums and the problem with all the other forums is that they concentrate on the fetish side of the bmwf dynamic with the occasional serious discussion thrown in. These forums are often filled with white male cuckold or gay white men, the women on these sites are often not interested in black men per se but more so what is between his legs. The interracial subreddits are more for general interracial discussions not specifically bmwf in fact they are often the least discussed coupling in the ir subbreddit.

 

Try Facebook. They're are plenty of IRRs-related Facebook groups. Posters on this forum, have pointed out multiple times in the past the reason this site is sorta "dead" because Facebook & dating apps already fills the void.

 

FB and dating apps? Is there a quality in those places? So far it takes a lot of work to find them.

 

It's a drought at FB. Mostly it's WM/BW not the other way around.

 

Real life friends.

 

Wait.....what??? You got some of those too? Damn I thought I was the only one. Guess I'm not a weirdo after all.....

 

Totally depends on where you live. Set Tinder or Bumble for a certain radius around your town, set preferences to white women, and boom. My girl made me delete my apps but I'm speaking from past experience lol

 

Are those apps actually for „discussing issues“?

 

Well, you have to talk about SOMETHING during a date

 

Lol would love to hear what your lady thinks you using bumble and tinder to discuss bm/ww issues.

 

He said she made him delete them though.

 

Lol which is good if he wants to keep his relationship.

 

Lol
Right, which is also why my knowledge of those apps is only hear-say.

 

True! LOL

But for the record I don't "discuss" BM/WW issues. If I am dating a WW, we're two adults dating with no special "issues" it would be the same no matter what ethnicity she may be

 

Also a quick way to turn someone off.

 

https://whitewomenblackmen.com/forum/

 

I try to frame any issues in a general way that any couple could face, rather than as some specific issues that are problematized. I hate it when our type of interracial relationship is treated as if it’s so alien that it has some unique niche interest. Too much of that and it sounds like we have begun to essentialize each other as if we’re different species or something. I’m not sure if I am expressing myself clearly on this point. My apologies.

 

In spite of some commercials and flicks it's still alien always have and always will.