At the end of the day, I’m a man. A woman is a woman is a woman, but there is no woman like a white woman. Over the years, they have slowly gained my top spot on the preference list, and I can’t even explain why. The attraction is just there.

 

For me it’s always been Asian, White, Spanish women I attract the most . I like them so far

 

So as I see, white men but also a lot of Arab and Turkish men are attracted to me.

And over the time I got more and more attracted to black men. I haven't dated a white man in a while...

 

I think that the characteristics that attract one ethnic group of women should be universal and attract all women, but that hasn't been my experience. The interests, humor and quirks that make me attractive to one group of women often make me less attractive to other groups of women in an inversely proportionate manner. It often correlates with ethnicity/race, but also with education, cultural tastes and political inclinations as well.

 

Typically, I attract Asian, White, Spanish women the most. I’m comfortable with that.

 

I've always attracted white women. I can be in a room with a hundred black women and one white woman. And, that one white woman will find her way over to me. ... lol

 

Of those that I've noticed... they're largely BW and WW. I love it when I make eye contact with a WW and it seems we both like what we're seeing. Once about two years ago I unintentionally made eye contact with a WW walking with her family. She silently mouthed "hi" to me.

 

Women from Spain and Argentina are attracted to me more than most women. African-American and Puerto Rican urban women are usually the least attracted to me. That could be because, being from both groups, they look at me like a nerdy cousin or something. And then in the squishy middle is nerdy women, regardless of race, and women who don't have set notions of how any given ethnic group should behave.

 

I generally attract brown and white men, but I like black men. lol

 

Brown Black men or Arabic/Latino men?

 

Arabic men mostly

 

So in general it seems to be mainly black guys who I attract, it feels like since being with black guys I’ve got more attention from them so I’m not sure if I just wasn’t noticing it before or somehow they can sense my tastes have changed haha

 

Same here
I guess once you are seen with a BM, you will always be seen as a "candidate".

 

HAHAHAHA @ #TheCandidate. Is the change in who notices you that sudden?

 

It was with me, again maybe I just didn’t notice it but before but since I starting getting with BM I definitely noticed I was getting more attention from other black men, I am open in my preference so maybe word travels fast

 

You started having "that look". LOL

 

Funny you say that cause I’m actually convinced there is a certain look WW have who are into BM, it’s the only way I can’t explain things haha

 

i think that WW who are attracted to BM may start to subtly adjust their style in clothing, hair and accessories in a way that, while not imitating minority women, may highlight their features and incorporate some small elements of the styles of minority women. That being said, I don't want to date a WW who is doing some sort of caricature of presumed ethnicity, but I think that the small details might be enticing.

 

I suppose it’s only natural to slightly change your appearance in order to attract who your into, but your right you still have to be authentic to yourself and not go over the top!

 

I agree. I've seen some WW with their hair styled like Salt n Pepa, with exaggeratedly large earrings, really bright lipstick and skin tight clothing, but that doesn't really float my boat. If that was what I was attracted to, I would be dating an African-American woman or a Latina.