Which Type of White Girl Is For You?

LOL! Thanks for pointing this out, xoxo. Make that "open-minded".

Right. Especially once she got to Miami and had a lot more of her compatriots around. When we first married and were in the midwest, it was all gravy. LOL

 

Truthfully I'm not surprised, most people fold when the pressure is on.

 

Tell me about it. But they have no problem expecting you to carry the weight for them.

 

Equality at its best my friend.

 

LOL! I don't think all women are like that, but it's amazing that the ones who most expect you to do it for them are the same ones who will do almost nothing for you.

 

Aw, no nerdy white chicks?

Anyway, I’m into white women who allow me to be myself (not as in let me be awful though).

 

My top 5 types would be (in no particular order)

1. The spiritual type: the ones that meditate or just naturally have a very balanced and serene nature overall about themselves, not very religious but could and would usually be affiliated with a particular belief system that influences them to be drawn to humanitarian causes or activism, sometimes they have very gifted artistic abilities or hobbies that could make them stand out in a very positive manner but they shy away from mass attention

2. The underdog athlete type: the ones that are usually not the team captain because they aren't pretty enough but usually have the strongest character, due to being overlooked for leadership positions, their competitive nature makes them experts in management positions but they might have a tendency to scare men away but the those lucky enough to challenge her to confront her past hurts and soften up a bit get a complete ride-or-die that will keep it 100 with you at all times and offer eternal loyalty

3. The street wise type: the ones who relate to working class everyday struggles and can see value in all people, regardless of color, but they very much so are aware (the correct usage of the term "woke") of injustices usually due to direct positively shared experiences with different cultures, their main goal is just to work a job and make money to live a stable life and tend to appreciate a man that offers help and leadership towards the goal of the better life they always dreamed of

4. The gamer girl: the ones that might have had a bunch of brothers or found themselves drawn to spaces where the guys hung out, usually are very intelligent even if their grades might not have shown it in school, have a natural knack for coding, being a moderator, or general IT support, and would be more content with nights in than nights out, and most importantly... tech geeks usually have a wonderful and adorable freaky side

5. The "not so plain" plain jane type: the ones that had 2 working and loving parents that encouraged them all of the time, are well loved by their siblings and family with full support from everyone around, do fairly well for themselves overall but still feel like something is missing to find that what it is that was missing all along was their personal identity to be the person they truly want to be and not what everyone else holds them or expects them to be so they drift over to face their fears by getting themselves out of their comfort zone and into the arms of a BM because it shatters the construct of everything once held and allows them to be liberated, some might say she just does it for attention and that it's a "phase" or "experiment" but her and her BM know that it is her being "really seen as the woman she wishes to be given attention to" and that her happiness is found when she is allowed, kept safe and protected in a nurturing environment

 

That’s pretty well thought out.

 

I think it's best when you can see and identify what you like. The more honest you are, the more focused you become. Preferences begin to take shape and manifest, though it might take some time.