shyandsweet
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You're not playing nice Karma-have you been hanging out with black master jay-our forum smart ass?
karmacoma.
Well-Known Member
shyandsweet said:
I keed, I keed. I keed because I love.
shyandsweet
New Member
Okay karma- if you were just kidding then it's okay. Just don't be insulting like black master jay!! :wink: !
karmacoma.
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shyandsweet said:
For you, anything. :smt060
BlackMasterJay
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joliemarie said:
If you cant lie, then maybe you should pick up your phone and set him straight??....seriously.
BlackMasterJay
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Bookworm616 said:KSP said:Juli3113 said:Be yourself! If it goes anywhere at all, we will find out who you really are anyway. I like a nice, down to earth, genuine guy who doesn't come off like a player.
Perhaps you would be good enough to let us know where all the down to earth gals are who are looking for these down to earth guys?
They are all over the place. You just have to make yourself known. Down-to-earth women will flock to you then.
Nah
there are 4 things i usually do.
1. I criticize a womans dress code or make up. This course of action will succeed only if you got a solid plan to back it up, and DONT BACK DOWN. For example, lets assume its a saturday night and you KNOW that the majority of women spend atleast 3 hours masquerading their faces. well, you diss her make up and make her feel as if she wasted all that time for nothing. But like i said, have something HOT to say in the backburner.
2. Diss her diet. I was on the subway the other day, and saw this HOT chick devouring a double cheese burger. You could see that she was an avid runner/trainer, but i did it only to be a smart ass. I said somethng like "stop eating so much, youre gonna gain weight"....and without missing a beat she replied, "well thats why i run twice a day"....but i had to be smart and said "well, you should double it"....lol...
3. ASSUME the deal. Dont be a dumbass asking for numbers. I just flip open my cell phone and start dialing digits, while asking her,,when can i call you??..
4.Ignore her COMPLETELY. Pretty girls have it set in their lil heads that every man will STARE at them, well, why should i??...I actually make it a habit to look "THE OTHER DIRECTION" when a pretty girl strolls by. And then to insult her looks even more, you should start paying attention to a less attractive girl....haha,,,watch the jealousy erupt. And once you got her jealous, you GOT her...
thats all folks
J
joliemarie
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BMJ, you never got fake-numbered when you did that thing with the phone?
J
joliemarie
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BlackMasterJay said:
There are many possible outcomes to that. If you try to tell them delicately that they should cool off, you have the guys that try to prove you mathematically that you would be good together, or the guys that play Dr Phil ("I think you have been hurt in the past and now you are afraid."), or the guys that show their true colors and tell you to go to hell, or the guys that play the victim and accuse you of leading them on (even if you didn't even kiss them)... putting the phone on "mute" seems a lot easier. Or better yet, being very selective when you give your phone number - a lesson I have learned hard.
BlackMasterJay said:
I always think this is the best way to go.
I mean think about it...wouldn't you rather a guy is straight with you about things? Often I hear women saying things like they wish guys would just be honest and tell them instead of wussing out about things or avoiding or whatever. So if we want them to be straight with us, maybe we need to be straight with them.
J
joliemarie
Guest
Well, I guess so. It doesn't matter now anyway, very few people know my new number and email, and I hope to keep it that way.
Nah
there are 4 things i usually do.
1. I criticize a womans dress code or make up. This course of action will succeed only if you got a solid plan to back it up, and DONT BACK DOWN. For example, lets assume its a saturday night and you KNOW that the majority of women spend atleast 3 hours masquerading their faces. well, you diss her make up and make her feel as if she wasted all that time for nothing. But like i said, have something HOT to say in the backburner.
2. Diss her diet. I was on the subway the other day, and saw this HOT chick devouring a double cheese burger. You could see that she was an avid runner/trainer, but i did it only to be a smart ass. I said somethng like "stop eating so much, youre gonna gain weight"....and without missing a beat she replied, "well thats why i run twice a day"....but i had to be smart and said "well, you should double it"....lol...
3. ASSUME the deal. Dont be a dumbass asking for numbers. I just flip open my cell phone and start dialing digits, while asking her,,when can i call you??..
4.Ignore her COMPLETELY. Pretty girls have it set in their lil heads that every man will STARE at them, well, why should i??...I actually make it a habit to look "THE OTHER DIRECTION" when a pretty girl strolls by. And then to insult her looks even more, you should start paying attention to a less attractive girl....haha,,,watch the jealousy erupt. And once you got her jealous, you GOT her...
thats all folks
Above makes it sound like you think we are dogs that can be trained, haha.
Who is that stupid goth guy sometimes on TV who goes with this philosophy? Sounds like you bought his book anyway. Wouldn't hook me that's for sure, because I don't need to justify myself to a stranger.
If you had done the above to me, I would have just said, burger tastes good, and turned my back.
When can I call you, I get the point, but if I didn't want you to call me, I would just say, never sorry.
I don't know if I'm really fine, but on the purposely looking the other way, I would be thinking "that guy just turned his head all of a sudden, i wonder if he's got a neck problem"
Don't get me wrong, I'm friendly and open (sometimes too much and a guy thinks I'm leading him on, but I just love meeting new peeps whether to get down with them or not), but I'll respond to someone at the same level they start at with me.
If someone is nice but I'm just not interested, I'll say thanks but no thanks with a smile. If they start a whole bunch of silly crap, I'll be silly back.
Any guy who thinks he "got game" and shows it with a swagger can stay really far away from me. Some arrogance is funny and ok, too much and my interest is gone.
Treating me like I might be dumb is also a really bad move.
If a guy tells a white lie to up his game, and you pull him up on it in a fun and flirty way, and he laughs, or it's this situation where you both know he's talking **** but it becomes a game, then that can be a bit of fun.
Sometimes I wonder though if they know I know they are talking **** or if I'm really believing their story.
A guy yesterday was ok, he just came up to me and said I was the most beautiful thing he'd seen that day. I don't really like lines though, I'd prefer someone to stare me down and smile or just talk to me with a sense of humour.
I asked him how old he was and he said 30, so I said, well you have had thousands of days in your life so being the best out of one day isn't much of a compliment. I said it with a smile though.
I'm not single anyway so need to sort of cut it before they sit down and it becomes this whole thing.
I'm in Australia and guys do things differently to in other places, sometimes really badly as well. But whats up mami and all that is usually pretty fake here, so I just am laughing at you and not with you. Lots of guys, black men included, like to lie about where they are from. This one bores me becase I think being proud of your heritage should be number one, and I don't respect someone who isn't.
I think they do it though because they think you will be ignorant about the place, so it's just easier, or not interested when they tell the truth. I usually pull them up on their bad fake accents though and maybe throw a line back of whatever language I know they might speak other than English.
Just be