White Women...Free Yourself!

If you spend even a little amount of time here, you notice that the black men here dont hesitate to voice their opinions or start a thread. But what's up with the white women?

Its usually the same white women who start threads: disposable, bookworm, knca, and life.

Yeah, the white women here post quite a bit, but i dont just want you to react to old threads and BM posts. I want to hear about the part of your lives that maybe black men are not aware of. Things that black men wouldnt understand "because we're men or because we are black." (Ive seen bookworm and maybe one or two more women posts thoughts on sarah palin.)

So to all the white women here...what's up?

 

Hmmmm some white women are quiet, they just need some loving!

 

What's up? Way too much to post here. Mostly not good stuff. Dealing with major family issues regarding my life. Also, dealling with major daughter issues. Debating on whether or not to bring her to counseling. She was seemingly well-adjusted at the beginning of my separation from her dad. But now, not so much. :smt009

I'm very reluctant to send her to counseling, because I went to 3 sessions with a therapist a couple of years ago and it was in no way a good experience. I know that many, many people are helped by them, but she's going to be 6 years old very soon, and I don't want to pick another bad counselor and potentially screw her up.

I wish the right answer could fall out of the sky into my lap sometimes. :cry:

 

white women say it best, when they say nothing at all....

i should turn that into a song

 

as Dr Phil would say...

"...She'll never recover- unless she creates a defense mechanism for whatever it is thats killing her inside. Counselling is too fucking expensive, its up to her to simply block certain memories from her mind that will manifest themselves through the employment of something i invented called "tragedy denial". That is, if she can deny(psychologically) that you guys are separated (ofcourse you should help by lying to her, daily ,that you are still together), she might be able to cope for a few years, until shes old enough to realize that interracial romance hardly ever last(ofcourse after youve told her you havent been together for X amount of years)...And that you lied only to make her happy....which will make her cry, ofcourse.."

Love Dr Phil

 

Ah...BMJ, you never cease to amaze me with your wit and charm. Truly insightful. Thanks for the advice. :lol:

 

My observation as to what may be the problem:

"TROLL!!! TROLL! OMG KILL IT!!!"
"WTF you're just a size queen"
"You're an idiot, stop being so stupid and you might understand life"
"Who the fuck cares about you and your problems?"
"Why the hell are you here anyway?"

etc, ad nauseum. Too much negativity seems to exist on this board towards the very ladies that are supposed to be getting love here. Not to mention a lot of women on here are real, not pieces of plastic, and look more like your normal, every day girl than supermodels, and seeing as how we all seem to want to make damn sure no one believes stereotypes about black men and ugly white women to the point where it's discussed and picked apart and beaten to death constantly on here ...do you really blame the ladies for wanting to keep quiet?

That'd be my theory, at least.

 

I feel you on that.That's why I sometimes need little time-outs from online cos when it gets too much I may just burst out and say things that I later regret.

 

I think that some come to the boards to read and relate not to speak and be related with. Some women can't express themselves in ways that others can. Some women choose to be seen and not heard.

Then there are some that really don't give 2 shits what the fuck anyone thinks or can relate to. They express themselves and move the fuck on.

Some like to come here and run a muck causing devistation like the latest hurricanes.

While others sometimes really have legit reasons to ask questions in hopes to settle a thought or mind set of actions takin by others.

Some motha fuckers come here to get wet and masterbate or find a big dicked brother to talk to cuz they too chicken shit to do it in person.

Some find true love......find another that relates to them .....is special

trolls get washed out.....

To take time off from here is a good thing.....but one thing i do know is that we are our own family here and fight like brothers and sisters. We express within ourselves and some actually really do care about the well being of others here. :smt109