Black women who interracial date?

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flaminghetero said:
I think they are more willing than you could ever know.

WM/BW do most of their hooking up at work and on campus.
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Seldom,do i hear sisters expressing their interests in white men.

Then you have the ones who do admit to being attracted to white men,but wouldnt even go there
You're right about sisters meeting white men at work though.I saw a report on the news about black women dating interracially.It was actually funny,because the reason why they had said that they started to date interracially,because there were no black men around them or they couldnt find a black man with the same educational attainments.They dont like dating dudes who arent as successful as they are.
 
hellspawn72 said:
I think in some of those African countries, race is perceived quite differently than it would be here in the states. I think over there the white guy would be just another guy who has an interest in african culture and people. That would gain him some respect and would get him in with the women. A perfect example was a story from one of the "Taxicab Confessions" in New York where a white guy got in the cab and started talking about a trip he took to africa where in lived pretty much amongst the people in villages in the country side. He stated that the people were very receptive to him and when he needed "companionship," one of the black female villagers would oblige. So I don't think it would necessarily be racism over there.

On the other hand, in America here, it's generally known how bad blacks have had it throughout history. Let's not think things have been good for blacks for a while. Black women have been taken advantage of by white men for years. So alot of these families have been keeping the black women away from white men for fear of racial retaliation much less fearing how the black family structure would change. Even nowadays, you generally don't see as many white guys with black women with how liberal this country is now. It's still a cultural stigma, but it is changing. Just look at the daytime court show. And of course, some black women in Hollywood. A good number are dating or marrying white men. It's just at a slower pace.
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Ive noticed that alot of the "black women" that date hwite men are biracial

why is this?
 
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malikom said:
They dont like dating dudes who arent as successful as they are.
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That's a fair criticism, black women shouldn't have to downgrade their standards just because they prefer to date a successful man. If they want a well-educated man, for example, and there aren't any black men around who match that expectation, then they should feel free to pursue men of other hues.

And dude, you need to learn how to space between punctuations. It's fucking ridiculous.
 
satyricon said:
That's a fair criticism, black women shouldn't have to downgrade their standards just because they prefer to date a successful man. If they want a well-educated man, for example, and there aren't any black men around who match that expectation, then they should feel free to pursue men of other hues.

And dude, you need to learn how to space between punctuations. It's fucking ridiculous.
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sue me.
 
malikom said:
Seldom,do i hear sisters expressing their interests in white men.

Then you have the ones who do admit to being attracted to white men,but wouldnt even go there
You're right about sisters meeting white men at work though.I saw a report on the news about black women dating interracially.It was actually funny,because the reason why they had said that they started to date interracially,because there were no black men around them or they couldnt find a black man with the same educational attainments.They dont like dating dudes who arent as successful as they are.
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It's not about what YOU hear...

Listen to them when think you aren't around.

BW would LOVE the attention asian women get from WM.

You...like Chris Rock..are in full-blown denial to think BW aren't interested in WM...the feelings aren't reciprocated..hence their jealousy of BM/WW.

Hell..if racist pigs like justin Wolpe(racist NYPD rogue cop) and mark furhman can pull em' that should tell you something.

Damn near every racist on trial has a BW to bring to the stand to testifiy on his behalf.
 
Hey im all for it. If I can date who I want why cant they date who they want. Expanding your horizions and learning about what else is out there in the world is part of growing up... If they find men of other races attract thema dn amke them happy them Im all for it.

Just dont ahte on the black guys dating "outside" the race thats all 8)
 
satyricon said:
And dude, you need to learn how to space between punctuations. It's fucking ridiculous.
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On the topic:

I think availability has a ton to do with attraction. The more diverse your environment, the more diverse your options. However, if you are in a predominately white or black or other town (workplace, school); chances are you will be attracted to someone there, regardless of your ethnicity.
The divergence seems to be with how folks behave and how they "say" they behave. That probably has to do with family, cultural identity and fear of friend's opinions. Denial ain't just a river in Egypt.

Of course, for those of us who have embraced the fact that we are attracted to other ethnicities, availability is not the issue, we have the internet and we are free to seek out those to whom we are attracted to our hearts content. Freedom is in the mind.
 
flaminghetero said:
It's not about what YOU hear...

Listen to them when think you aren't around.

BW would LOVE the attention asian women get from WM.

You...like Chris Rock..are in full-blown denial to think BW aren't interested in WM...the feelings aren't reciprocated..hence their jealousy of BM/WW.

Hell..if racist pigs like justin Wolpe(racist NYPD rogue cop) and mark furhman can pull em' that should tell you something.

Damn near every racist on trial has a BW to bring to the stand to testifiy on his behalf.
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When the man is right he's right.
 
i see alot more bw dating white men especially in the larger cities...i will say that the majority of those couples appear to be middle class+ in reference to education and earning potential...on the flipside of dating relationships it would appear that many wm look to bw for the fantasy sexual experience...for those of you that find craigslist entertaining wm troll this site in almost every major city in the us looking for sex with bw...i doubt that these men are finding the bw we are talking about that seeks a relationship with wm
 
madscientist said:
I really don't know why there seems to be some natural attraction between white women and black men.

My opinion is that black women and white men are the cornerstones of their respective "races". For white men, they hold political power, while black women pretty much own what we call "black culture". I think that black women are much more into "blackness" than black men as a whole. Most "black" movies are geared towards black women, as are black books. When going to a book store, the "African American lit" section (and maybe because of white racism too) is full of "How Stella Got Her Groove Back" romances.

Under this sort of cultural mindset, black men (particularly the "successful" ones) become trophies. And they hate to see white women with "their" trophies. Remember that lady who temporarily posted here and released the book "Black Women Need Love Too"? This is emblematic of that mindset of black men as trophies for "deserving" black women. They invent (or steal from white men) notions of racial purity, rebuilding the black family and community (nothing wrong with building the black family and community per se, but using it as an excuse to keep black men from dating outside their race is wrong as there are far greater reasons for the strife in the black community, but that is for a different post), and "black pride", and stuff as dumb as "So you think your mother is ugly?" to prevent it.

And because black women own "blackness" and revel in it much more, they close themselves off to white men because to them, it is a contradiction to be pro-black and to date/marry a white man at the same time. White men are much the same way as white men seemingly own "whiteness". When black women finally let go with their obsession with "blackness" (and white men "whiteness"), relationships will go up even more.
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Awesome post.
 
flaminghetero said:
Complete horseshit.

If BW were so busy revelling in Blackness THEY'D BE EQUALLY CRITICAL OF BW THAT DATE WM as they are BM/WW.

C'mon now.

We ALL heard BW near and dear to us all the way to the complete stranger say:

"Chile imma' get me a white man so I can have purdy babies"

That's hardly revelling in black pride.

WM and BW are fucking like never before..you just don't see it because WM don't have to take them out in public in order to fuck them ..they can just screw them at work or on Campus.

At least WW don't sex men that are ashamed to be seen with them.

Park down the street and honk your horn at your white girlfriend and see if she runs behind your car like a dog.

I doubt it.
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Even tho these two post are contradictory, they both add something to think about.

I think there's a combination in there. I do think black women clearly dominate the voice of black culture, but Flaming's right that this does not mean this is not a hypocritical voice.


Really damned interesting thread, altogether.
 
For my own part, I see many kinds of interracial couples, but that's because most of my friends of all races date & marry interracially.

I think that black women & white men who seriously date and marry are great allies to white women & black men who do the same. The ones who brag about the concept are the ones to look out for.
 
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rinnaye said:
This is because white women, and black men are both the sexiest individuals of our respective races, and when paired together, there is a certain unique chemistry, and magnetism there. White women are soft, insatiable, and very receptive to affection, with few inhibitions, and black men are strong, virile, and very affectionate, sexually, and in general. Opposites really do attract, and we are polar opposites. So by Putting these two together, the attraction becomes a very intoxicating sexual experience for the WW & the BM. While, on the other hand, many/most black women can not always find white men to be up to the standards of black men, (hence, most do not desire WM), as they lack in virility, stamina, sexual prowess, and affectionate emotion, and many/most WM can not find the all too required sexual femininity in a BW, the same as is almost always apparent in.
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Its because alot of white guys dont find black women attractive.
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I think White men are attracted to Black women it's just that 1) they assume Black women aren't attracted to them and wouldn't date them and/or 2) they can't relate to them (music, culture, interests etc.). Of course, many White men do date Black women and openly admit that they would.

If they do,its always some light skinned black/biracial woman (beyonce,halle berry etc etc)
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I once read an interesting article online about Eurocentric standards of beauty when it comes to Black women, I don't know how much truth there is to it. The article stated that both Black men and White men have Eurocentric standards of beauty when judging Black women but these standards are expressed differently. White men like Black women who are thin, have a non-ghetto personality and whose features aren't too 'ethnic' but they care less about skin color. Black men prefer Black women who are thick and curvy, have urban attitudes/mentalities but they also prefer BW who are light skinned.

Alot of black women dont find white men attractive also,so they dont even bother dating out
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Again, I think a lot of it has to do with not being able to relate to them, assuming that they wouldn't be interested in them and loyalty to their own people. I don't see why BW/WM relationships are any less 'sexy' than BM/WW relationships are (or BM-BW/WM-WW relationships, for that matter). Aren't most interracial love stories in Hollywood about White men and Black women (ie. the Bodyguard)? I don't see why Black men are considered more 'masculine' than White men and I've never thought that BW were less 'feminine' than WW are.
 
[Again, I think a lot of it has to do with not being able to relate to them, assuming that they wouldn't be interested in them and loyalty to their own people. I don't see why BW/WM relationships are any less 'sexy' than BM/WW relationships are (or BM-BW/WM-WW relationships, for that matter). Aren't most interracial love stories in Hollywood about White men and Black women (ie. the Bodyguard)? I don't see why Black men are considered more 'masculine' than White men and I've never thought that BW were less 'feminine' than WW are.[/quote]



I don't know how many times I gotta say it..

Just because you don't see WM/BW out in public doesn't mean they aren't fucking like 9000.

WM/BW do the vast majority of their fucking at work or on campus.


WM don't have to take a sister anywere to get the pannies..BW would never admit it..but that's the cold-ass TRUTH.

They run when you say that to them...that's what I use to stop them from talking shit about BM/WW

BM aren't supposed to know shit like that.




They can say what they want about WW...at LEAST they don't lay-up with Brothers that are ashamed to take them out in public.

You go' have to take a WW somewhere...anywhere...you can't sneak her thru the backdoor on a dark night and expect to get her in the sack...that shit ain't likely to happen.

BM don't have it like that.

But WM do..
 
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