I don't believe this but some peoples messages seem to imply it. So let's get at the issue. Let's just cut to the chase! What do you think? Edit: Is it true?
hmmm, he still hasnt answered. "SOME WW are charming, while others are quite base and trashy. SOME black women have attitudes while other are so soft spoken and gentle.
I remember once long ago, when I visited this administrative office, here in my local town, and there were only black women working in it, and they were all hot! I kid you not. This is the truth... in fact, one of them was talking about how cute she thought I was, but didn't think I could hear her outside of the office room. :lol: None of these women seem to fit any of the stereotypes at all, and also, I have had a black woman whom I didn't know very well give a ride to a hospital once, when I wasn't feeling very well, and I met another one who worked in a clinic, who could speak 3 languages fluently, and talked openly about how 'the attitudes of most sistas are tearing down their own men', and so on, which is similar to what you may read from some of the brothas in here, but no way near as exaggerated by some men in this site. There are some black women who even work in libraries, along with grocery stores and banks, who are either really classy, or ghetto as sin :lol:, but still as sweet as sweet can be.
i know plenty of them too, back home in the south. i wouldnt mind one except they just dont date OREOs or black guys that dont march lock step with the masses--or very few of them do anyway.
Well, it's not cool to generalize, black women aren't ALL anything..but I will say that, I've dealt with a lot of rude black women. Seems like, especially when dealing with a black man, they don't treat us with as much respect as white men, primarily in professional situations. It's a power thing. they think they know us through and through, and they don't.
I hear ya seansean...I've been at the receiving end of many rude behaviors/comments from sistas. Too many to count.
again...another myth. Black women don't have the attitude game on lock. Yeah there are some grade A bitches who just happen to be black, but I've run across some bitchy women of ALL races.
...all rude/brusque/aggravated women of whatever background can stay away from me.. I like respect, peace & quiet.. maybe that's why i'm alone.. :?
And unfortunately not all women realize that. One girl I know (she can be very nasty) met a guy at the mall who happened to be younger. He was nice to her and wanted to get together, but she made so many comments about his age that he cancelled the date and never called back. Now she's mad... but when you're thirty and a twenty-one year old wants to take you out, I'd take it as a compliment... and also by the age of thirty a person should learn how to talk to people.
I hear ya seansean...I've been at the receiving end of many rude behaviors/comments from sistas. Too many to count. I've had this happen as well. For some reason, some of the "sistas" take out their frustrations out on certain BM.
The problem with discussing these stereotypes is... If theres any truth to them, you'd be hard pressed to get people to admit it.
I would like to suggest a thorough reading of this forum to show that this is definitely a myth. Not all the ww here are charming and lots of us have attitude, lol.
