What the f*** is wrong with you people?

SarahS said:
WHAT THE F#&$... LOOK TO SOME THE "MEN" ON HERE (AND I USE THAT TERM LOOSELY) CAN YOU F$#%ING STOP WITH THE PERSONAL INSULTS TOWARDS THE WOMEN? NONE OF THEM HAVE PERSONALLY ATTACKED YOUR APPEARANCE YET YOU FEEL THE NEED THAT TO THEM.

PEOPLE WONDER WHY WOMEN HAVE SELF ESTEEM ISSUES... 'CAUSE OF PEOPLE LIKE YOU GUYS WHO SEEM TO LOVE TO BRING WOMEN DOWN.

Don't you realise what saying things like that does?


Shaking my motherf$*%* damn head. This is sad.

/rant over. :smt091:smt091
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Tinkerbell said:
Bull Crap! I do get really tired of being told who I am attracted to by someone who cannot understand how beautiful his own color and skin is.

I am at the moment exclusively attracted to a black man. I am not dating anyone else, nor have I ever, I was married to a Hispanic man for years, and I have NEVER been attracted to white men, I would not prefer to marry one, I am not racist, my father is white, my brothers are white, I simply am not romantically attracted to them. It has nothing to do with racial issues.
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Wow, I seem to have touched a nerve. I do find it interesting that you state how unaware someone may be of how beautiful their color and skin are....yet you claim it has nothing to do with "racial issues". With skin color being a primary indicator of race, that would seem contradictory. Futhermore, your state of "at the moment" attraction would seem to add validity to my position.

I prefer to think of myself as a good person, who just happens to be black. Others may not feel that way, nor the people who are attracted to them. To conclude, I woul like to re-print my previous point, with an added emphasis that seems to be applicable in your previous matrimonial situation:


"...but suffice to say that white women, by and large, who date black men are also open to dating other races and would certainly prefer to marry within their own race if the right person/opportunity came along.
 
quato102 said:
Wow, I seem to have touched a nerve. I do find it interesting that you state how unaware someone may be of how beautiful their color and skin are....yet you claim it has nothing to do with "racial issues". With skin color being a primary indicator of race, that would seem contradictory. Futhermore, your state of "at the moment" attraction would seem to add validity to my position.

I prefer to think of myself as a good person, who just happens to be black. Others may not feel that way, nor the people who are attracted to them. To conclude, I woul like to re-print my previous point, with an added emphasis that seems to be applicable in your previous matrimonial situation:


"...but suffice to say that white women, by and large, who date black men are also open to dating other races and would certainly prefer to marry within their own race if the right person/opportunity came along.
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I can't speak for Tink but I personally take issue with the phrase of "prefer to marry within their own race".

In speaking for myself, I am more attracted to black men. I do think that it's important to be physically attracted to the man I end up with and I do happen to be more physically attracted to black men. For me, character is most important. I do realize that I have different dynamics in my life, which makes me think about all sorts of things that others may not think about too.

For me, it's not a "at the moment". I've been through good and bad relationships with black men. It's not about a fantasy or any of that. I've dealt with the day to day realities of all of it.

I can't speak for everyone but my thought would be, those of us who do actually prefer black men would prefer to marry a black man. Whatever that reason may be.
 
KnCA said:
I can't speak for Tink but I personally take issue with the phrase of "prefer to marry within their own race".

In speaking for myself, I am more attracted to black men. I do think that it's important to be physically attracted to the man I end up with and I do happen to be more physically attracted to black men. For me, character is most important. I do realize that I have different dynamics in my life, which makes me think about all sorts of things that others may not think about too.

For me, it's not a "at the moment". I've been through good and bad relationships with black men. It's not about a fantasy or any of that. I've dealt with the day to day realities of all of it.

I can't speak for everyone but my thought would be, those of us who do actually prefer black men would prefer to marry a black man. Whatever that reason may be.
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Good post K, that is exactly what I take issue with. I do not prefer to marry a white man, never have, I simply am not attracted to them. I have many friends who are white men, but that's all.
 
Tinkerbell said:
Good post K, that is exactly what I take issue with. I do not prefer to marry a white man, never have, I simply am not attracted to them. I have many friends who are white men, but that's all.
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To add a fact, we have minds of our own, Here in pittsburgh a lot
of white girls get called racist if they date only white guys or only black guys. And like it or not a person's personal preference is our own, god gave us a free mind for a reason, we think for ourselves, if it is for racist
reasons why a person doesn't outside or inside a race then unless they make it a public ISSUE!...(emphasis on the word issue.) then they are inviting reactions, other than that people are and have the god given right
to personally prefer and think what they want, same for those who are not racist, but prefers to date within their own race or outside their race.

It is 2008 and I just wish people will stop lying about their preferences now days, you hear it all the time, for instince I have a cousin
who says she is attracted to white guys, she'll date a white guy. The girl
goes to one of the predominantley white colleges here and turned down several of them, saying I don't find them attractive. "Thats because your not attracted to white guys, you think some are cute, but thinking and feeling are two different things."

That is why I give props to khloe kardashian, keri hilson, joanna shari, doutzen Kroes, Polow da don(record producer.) and others on voicing it without any hesitation and not much backlash to prove that it is 2008 and the only ones that are going to care are usually haters to begin with.
 
kenny_g said:
To add a fact, we have minds of our own, Here in pittsburgh a lot
of white girls get called racist if they date only white guys or only black guys. And like it or not a person's personal preference is our own, god gave us a free mind for a reason, we think for ourselves, if it is for racist
reasons why a person doesn't outside or inside a race then unless they make it a public ISSUE!...(emphasis on the word issue.) then they are inviting reactions, other than that people are and have the god given right
to personally prefer and think what they want, same for those who are not racist, but prefers to date within their own race or outside their race.

It is 2008 and I just wish people will stop lying about their preferences now days, you hear it all the time, for instince I have a cousin
who says she is attracted to white guys, she'll date a white guy. The girl
goes to one of the predominantley white colleges here and turned down several of them, saying I don't find them attractive. "Thats because your not attracted to white guys, you think some are cute, but thinking and feeling are two different things."

That is why I give props to khloe kardashian, keri hilson, joanna shari, doutzen Kroes, Polow da don(record producer.) and others on voicing it without any hesitation and not much backlash to prove that it is 2008 and the only ones that are going to care are usually haters to begin with.
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Uh, don't you mean 2009?
 
quato102 said:
Wow, I seem to have touched a nerve. I do find it interesting that you state how unaware someone may be of how beautiful their color and skin are....yet you claim it has nothing to do with "racial issues". With skin color being a primary indicator of race, that would seem contradictory. Futhermore, your state of "at the moment" attraction would seem to add validity to my position.

I prefer to think of myself as a good person, who just happens to be black. Others may not feel that way, nor the people who are attracted to them. To conclude, I woul like to re-print my previous point, with an added emphasis that seems to be applicable in your previous matrimonial situation:


"...but suffice to say that white women, by and large, who date black men are also open to dating other races and would certainly prefer to marry within their own race if the right person/opportunity came along.
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This isnt true for me. I have turned down more white wanna-be husbands than others. I have married twice and both times they were black americans. I never thought bout wanting a husband of any ethnicity, always just wanted a good man. :smt102
 
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