am sure the other party did not have any complaints. Hopefully, your show was longer than 45 seconds.
Me too....wait for it...here it comes....:smt078 and there it is. I'd get a divorce if I had to wait and then found out the person was horrible in bed. But then again, maybe if I had waited I wouldn't know what good sex is and it wouldn't have made a difference?
What I was trying to say :smt001. It feels like round here you have to prove or justify yourself to everyone. We're so judgemental and suspicious. It's like there are conditions. & LOL @ what you said about "joining souls", it makes me feel slightly nauseous also.
See that's exactly why we're supposed to wait until marriage ... so we think the husband is the best thing in the world and if you don't know any different it would keep you tied to his side for as long as you both shall live.
LMAO pass the bucket. My comment wasn't directed at you Sarah. That's exactly what I was trying to say, that it seems around here one has to justify their actions or thoughts to everyone. Yeah some people here are too suspicious and paranoid - LOL
I understood what u mean, SirNice, the self-esteem is just a part. U had sex with her anyways because inside of you, you know that the reasons why you shouldn't have sex (age and she is your first white girl) are silly, so you are subconsciously thinking about other excuses (her self-esteem). U 2 really like each other. She is white and not black.... who cares? Her mother loves you, so you don't even have to worry about that thing. She seems to be very into you. The age should be a problem for her, mostly, in my opinion, since it's you that are older. She is ok with that, though, so I highly suggest you to love each other without any reserves ^_^. It sounds more like your problem, dunno. Maybe you are only afraid to hurt her feelings, in case u want to leave her later, because sex makes every thing more difficult? Anyways, I just wish you good luck, and I'm a bit jelous of all this ppl in love!
