Yes, I have been secretly attracted to a board member and it was even without seeing a picture of her. Just from reading a few of her posts, I guess I was seduced by the sophistication of her writings and I just imagined her to be very lady like in person. When I finally got a chance to see her picture, I wasn't disapointed at all
Actually many women on this board are very pretty and some are stunners (like my homegirl Amazonka)... even though haters like to say that the women black men date are "bottom of the barrel" and what not. They should see our picture thread.
Yes, Amazon is very krasIvaya. But regarding my crush, it wasn't even based on the physical part, just some words written on various subjects did the trick. It was odd. It seems like I was seduced by the flawless grammar, careful sentences structures, the overall intellect. I get very turned on when a woman is cultured and expresses herself elegantly, and turned off when she's totally uncultured and limited. So it was more like a crush based on a "beautiful mind" than a pretty face or nice body.
It's nice to know that there are men like you out there... who do notice and appreciate refinement, still... men who are turned on by elegance in a world that is sinking deeper and deeper into vulgarity.
To me, there's nothing more appealing than etiquette and a very cultured woman. There was an Italian girl that came to work with us about two months ago, she was fluent in four languages, well-travelled and could talk about all kind of subject(including football) with a wide body of knowledge. Every conversation with her stimulating. I liked her immediately. Too bad she was married and only stayed for a month or so... Comme on dit, la classe fait la difference
just check his post archives...you will figure it out...all the crushes are right here in the threads...if you pay attention most give themselves away...:smt115
Now here's a person full of sagacity. Though it might be difficult to figure out by just checking my post archives, it's true that I gave away many clues and the crushes are right here in the threads and give themselves away. My original post has enough hints to help anyone guessing who it is. Yes you can, DI. There are plenty of hints in my first and second post. I am sincere enough to admit I had a crush on that person, but I will never say outright who it, I would feel to silly and embarrassed, so you're going to have to play "detectives" here. You can start by asking yourself question: Who fit the profile? WHo strikes you as very cultured and intelligent girls on this board? And then you proceed by elimination, just like detectives do and you will have the "usual suspects"
As intelligent as she is, she has probably figured it out by now Sorry, ThickShawaty, not telling. Conduct your own investigation
lol, will I let you know correctly? Hmmm, maybe. But I am one of those brothers that easily blush , so...