White women stealing black men on film

Look at what this topic's about. Karma made a good point. I exaggerated that point in comical point of view (though it does happen in real life). You won't get any political correctness from me either.
 
pettyofficerj said:
keepin it real is goin to get you murc'd up in here
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Brothas who are into WW are so discouraged by those around him from an early age for all the above stated reasons. Because of this, so may are passive and afraid. Afraid they may offend. So they play it safe and punk out. We've been so conditioned and molded to be weak when it comes to IR that it's just pathetic. I'm just making a stand like the other intelligent bros on here.

There's only so much that we can take. BW bash us all the time. This is a legit problem. Jamal makes his point, Karma made his point, I'm adding my $0.02. This stuff happens. People don't like to hear the truth. I wish FlamingH could contribute. I'm done. Maybe I shoud remaine passive...
Another weak BM who doesn't speak his opinion. As Jamal stated, "another toadie".


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JamalSpunky said:
But here's the truth: the bitter attitude that so many black women have for BM/WW relationships is nothing short of racism. Of course many folks will deny that. Black folks don't think they can be truly racist and they think black women are less capable of racism than anyone. But we know that's not the truth. It needs to be called what it is. I don't want to hear any nonsense about black women being justifiably concerned over black men and white women because the numbers show that in the end black men and women date and marry within their race more so than any other racial/ethnic group in America. Less tha 10% of black men go outside the race. So let the Asians worry about this instead. I've written this before and I've also written that black women are far more likley to lose potential black male mates to prison than they are to non-black women. Again the numbers bear this out.
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Someone finally tells it like it is,everyone is equally capable of prejudice, tolerance towards reversed racism is not only wrong but dangerous too.
 
fly girl said:
Jesus Christ, could you be any more offensive and degrading?
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He's just telling it like it is.

That scenario gets played-out at Black family reuinions ALL THE TIME.

If anything he was being nice.

The sisters with the white guys NEVER get any hate..that's reserved for BM/WW.
 
This is one of those very interesting topics.

There seems to be a type of irrational fear behind much of the criticism of bm/ww relationships by black women. Back in high school I knew black/japanese mix girl who openly told me once that "white girls have a big advantage in getting black men because they are prettier and there are so many more of them". I was shocked that she even would say something like that.

I went to a mostly white university and had both white male and female friends and black male friends. There was a clear effort by black females to ex-communicate black males who dated white women. I dated a mixed race girl whose dad was black and whose mom was white and she was raised by a adoptive white family in an all white community. As soon as she got to college and began hanging out with black women she adopted the same attitude. She had previously dated mostly white men, and thought that was perfectly okay, but as soon as she saw a black male with a white women she would start complaining and getting negative. There was some deep seeded fear working with her. When white guys dated black women, most of the black males that I knew had no problem with it, or if they did not particularly like it, they did not make a big deal about it...I think because their disapproval was not based on fear. When fear gets involved the negative reaction is always sooo much more intense. Black male white female relationships seem to create much more fear in people (mostly on the part of white males and black females) whereas other types of interracial couples do not. When white males date black or asian women they are often seen as being "open minded" and tolerant. Black men and white women are not prisoners of this fear and do not seem so prone to the racism that it causes.
 
csbean said:
I just watched T.D. Jake's film Not Easily Broken. I was ready to settle down for a romantic film about two people who are working on their marriage, when they had to throw a wrench in the plot. The husband in the film, played by Morris Chestnut, has a litte dalliance with a ww.

Maybe it's always been like this, but what the hell is with black films and the "ww stealing your man!" story line?! I'm not saying it doesn't happen in real life, but it seems like it is becoming (or has been) a trend in film. This plotline is not always in the writing of bw but of bm, too. What's going on with that?

I tutor a 14 year old black girl who lives with her single mother. She told me Thursday she was excited because her mother and her girlfriends are taking her to see Obsessed this weekend. The girl wants to see it because she loves Beyonce, but all I could think was that she was going to leave the theater brainwashed thinking that white women can't be trusted around black men.

Am I just being paranoid?
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That might highly depend on the types of black women she hangs around. I stumbled upon this racist blog post that says that Obsession is the black version of Birth of a Nation. I don't think the films are comparable, but he does make a halfway decent point. As he says, "The message here is that white women are out to 'steal' black men, as black women always claims, and will go to extreme length to do so. White women, the blond, blue-eyed, skinny white bitches are a threat to the black family and the real cause of its destruction...It’s not that Laquisha is a whore who can’t keep track of her many 'baby daddies'. It’s that the white bitch stole her man. Black women are victims."
 
Gunman said:
There seems to be a type of irrational fear behind much of the criticism of bm/ww relationships by black women. Back in high school I knew black/japanese mix girl who openly told me once that "white girls have a big advantage in getting black men because they are prettier and there are so many more of them". I was shocked that she even would say something like that.
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Okay, now I've heard things along these lines from black girls before. I've heard them say that "he only goes for those pretty, light-skinned girls." Do many black women feel that white women are prettier? Some black men would agree that white women are prettier, and some wouldn't. And, of course, white women are the standard for beauty in the US.
 
I really do not have anything else to add to this thread, so i'll just add this: 40% of Asian women are dating/married to white men and the world has not come to an end, so i say live and let live.
 
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