A good reality show for IR is So You Think You Can Dance. Of course, the dancing partners (as far as we know) aren't really dating, but then neither are any of the people in reality tv. So, if you're just gonna watch people pretend to be attracted to each other, at least you can do it with people who are
good at it.
Plus there's dancing, so it's actually entertaining!
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