Oh yeah, friends first is a good idea, but it led to a lot of frustration cause neither of us had the balls to make the first move for a long time. lol It was getting to the point where I was just gonna say "hey, if you only like me as a friend we gotta stop hanging out, cause I like you waaay more than that..."...but I didn't wanna ruin the friendship, cause he's crazy fun to be around, so I kept quiet. But eventually he brought it up, thank god.
It was all a damn misunderstanding on my part anyhow. I didn't notice the signs, and I was convinced he wasn't interested in girls like me...he told me, when I mentioned that, that he'd thought he didn't even have a chance with a girl like me. It was so sweet...made me blush like crazy! lol
And I know how you feel...girl, that's like where I used to live! Only guys around for miles were rednecks, and the vast majority of them were either ugly, had nothing going for them, had zero aspirations, no intelligence, or all of the above. All the good ones are generally married by age 18 there. lol The rest? They move off and go to college far, far away.
...and there are no black guys period. That kinda sucks, too. lol
