Soulthinker
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That's in Vegas POJ.
WORST Cities for IR Dating
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pettyofficerj
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it's not that deep...
really
but if you want to break down posts, go right ahead..
you just may not get too many responses from me
really
but if you want to break down posts, go right ahead..
you just may not get too many responses from me
Bookworm616
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capricornone87 said:
Can't we all just get along? :roll:
suprchic73
New Member
Bookworm616 said:
for real... :shock: :roll: :shock:
capricornone87 said:
No. Being a darker shade of brown, muscular, and having facial hair does not make a man more black, but it more than likely will slow your chances of winning the U.S Presidential Election. We all know that type of look intimidates a lot of white people. When you tell a white person to picture a black man, you will probably get that description also. So no it doesn't make a person "more" black, but it sure does to a lot of white people.
If Terry Crews were better spoken than Obama or even more qualified, you know damn well there is no chance in hell he could still even consider running for the presidency.
(I'm sure we've all heard these type of statements before on this site to know that they don't mean ALL white people. So hopefully I don't need to qualify the blanket-type sound of it)
Most folks here tend to know where your coming from, so it's easy to be a little lax when making these comments. You'll notice that people here aren't really looking to debate. Petty ain't really calling into question Barack's "blackness"....right Petty?
donsboy
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i lived in Louisville Ky and met a tons of beautiful white women there. i never had any problems in Alabama either. My wife and I had been married about 6 months when we moved to Al. and never got a funny look or anything in northern Al. We just moved back to Va which is the IR capital of the country. Theres more IR couples in Charlottesville than anyplace Ive ever seen. Tons of single ladies in Tulsa if a brother is looking and I'm talking about country bars. My wife made me go line dancing in a couple places in Tulsa there are some honies in T town and they love black men out there. So maybe you guys are just looking in the wrong places.
Actually, The OC isn't THAT bad, at least the women look better. But even still its very stereotypical and I am not willing to open up that can of worms.
The worst would be any town with a population under 100,000 and more than a hundred miles from a major international airport. Having said that, I know there are Moldavians in the Deep South working for the summer, don't ask how I know these things -
PeyBackTime8818, I used to live in Macon, GA before moving to Atlanta and I have to say that if Macon is one of the worst places in America for IR dating, then a brother doesn't have much to worry about in America. I don't know what part of Macon you visited, but I don't see how you could not have seen one black person there, especially considering the fact that Macon's population is about 62% black!
http://www.answers.com/topic/macon-georgia
I went to Macon for Thanksgiving and I'm looking forward to going there to see my parents on Christmas. I love Macon, but I live in Atlanta because there are more financial opportunities here. Macon is small but there are white girls at Wesleyan College (an all girls school) and Mercer University there that are into black men. If you visit the Macon Mall, which is a nice-sized mall for a town of Macon's stature, you will see just as many IR couples there as you see in Atlanta. I actually think it's easier to meet ww there than in Atlanta. Atlanta has a tendency to be segregated and phony.
Now I'm not saying that Macon is the ideal place for IR dating, but it's certainly not as bad as you make it out to be. However, with you coming from New York, which is one of the most diverse places in the world, Macon must have been a extreme culture shock for you. Most of the people I've met there are friendly, so if they treated you differently, it must have been more because you were a Yankee than the fact that you are a bm. A northern accent really stands out in Macon, even though there are a many New Yorkers living in Atlanta.
My brother, who has been living in Brooklyn, New York for the past decade, brought his then-girlfriend to Macon one Christmas holiday and she loved it down there. She was originally from Barbados and she said that Macon reminded here of home because there were so many trees near houses and people said hello to her as she walked down the street. Before they broke up, she was thinking about moving to Georgia because she liked her visit to Macon so much.
I doubt that I will ever move back there, though; if anything I want to move to a city that's larger and not as superficial as Atlanta. And that leads me to my nomination for a bad city for IR dating: Atlanta. Yes, there is a lot of it going on here, but believe me, there are plenty of wm and bw who absolutely detest it. Anytime many of them see a bm just sharing conversations with a ww, eyes begin to roll, faces turn steaming red, and some will try to butt in on your conversation in an attempt to disrupt it. The ATL is very segregated as close to 70% of the city's population is black, but when you factor in the suburban population, metro Atlanta has a majority white population. And even though Atlanta is only an average-sized major city, it has one of the worst traffic congestion problems in the USA. But still, many of the suburbanites don't want mass transit to extend to the suburbs because they say that mass transit brings the criminal element out there. So even though there is a lot of IR sex going on, there is an underlying current of racial disapproval here.
Peace.
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how is columbus ga as far as IR dating
Michelle1975
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I agree about being careful dating in the South...
Raul Sinclair
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Might be NY lol
Jaybee in WWBM
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I think we have to be careful not to deter anyone unnecessarily here. Apparently, my own city is statistically the worst in the UK for IR sex, but that may simply be the fact that every community has tons of men and women to choose from.
None of which should be a permanent barrier. If you want a WW/BM, you just need to ask a little more insistently, a little more opportunistically, and make yourself a little more appealing.
None of which should be a permanent barrier. If you want a WW/BM, you just need to ask a little more insistently, a little more opportunistically, and make yourself a little more appealing.
REALONGBRO
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chicago, ill really bad too
Soulthinker
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Jaybee,I just saw a number of homeboys with attractive WW. They have it made here in London. This city has a very long history in IR. Had you seen that exhibition at the Imperial War Museum about Blacks in the military? I saw some photos of IR. Maybe in some areas in London but not all. I 've seen more homeboys with white women than drunken ladettes.
Jaybee in WWBM
Banned
How big a number was it? Just kidding mate, we've got a city of almost 8 million, inevitably you will see IR couples. I was talking about the prevalence of IR sex, not couples holding hands.
British girls don't get sloshed until Friday/Saturday nights, but when they do, they're a pretty ugly sight. A lot of them will tank up with a bottle of Chardonnay before they've even applied their lipstick, after which it's off to down 10 shots of Vodka Amaretto mixes in 15 minutes flat. Ask any nightclub manager whose door charges under £5 for 'ladies', his cleaning staff spend more time cleaning puke around the latrine edges than cleaning the whole gents toilet.
But also, a lot of British women do have self-respect and a sense of honour. It's a question of class, like everyone else, a lot of girls have it, and a lot of them don't. It's the latter group the Police have to haul off the sidestreets - literally - on every Friday night in every english city, who get the most publicity.
I would agree with that - British Women do seem to be getting worse and giving the rest of us a bad rep! (We're not all like that!)
Jaybee in WWBM
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Why do you reckon they are getting worse? I used to put it down to having more money and misusing it, but that's not it. Women have had disposable income and gone into pubs/clubs on their own for decades. Sort of reminds me of teenage mums having babies as a substitute for the love they didn't get as kids themselves. Just because they want to be loved by someone. I know a lot of young women are looking to booze as a substitute for something, but what, I just don't know.
I like to think of myself as a smart bloke, but I admit, that one's got me stumped.
I have no idea why some women do this, you see young kids on the streets drinking to destruction.. maybe they are so unhappy that this is their only form of release? I don't know, but I hate seeing these young women out drinking so much, they don't know what they are doing and normally end up going home with some random.
By the way, what part of London are you from? I don't mean to take the thread too off topic, but there is no PM or other messaging service on here??