Trust me, as a black woman I understand about the stereotype stuff, but every IR is stereotyped for something that they don't like. But go on an IR for wm/bw and you don't see all the frustrations, and anger pitted about being in an IR relationship. On there it's lots of talk about having hot sex or finding a serious compatible mate, not with forums saying black aint shit or white women are not attractive. On here there's sex talk, but its also how bm/ww compare to this or that, and of course somebody got to put up some sob story about how racist everyone is to them because they are in an IR relationship:smt022

 

I changed my mind...I want some generic "hamburger helper". The winning lotto check comes friday, but for the other thing, you know where to go...

 

I'll take my doormat as on into the kitchen....

 

Newsflash... some of us WW can cook real well.

 

You know I was just going along with the joke...I know you should be able to since you're down south...

 

OHHHH HELL TO DA NAW!!! White women can't throw down like black women, nope, all about the soul food man!! Thanksgiving you going over Big Mama's House if you want some real eatin. But Martha Stewart got game

 

Cause they don't get or go through the same shit that we go through. Their coupling is more accepted than WW/BM.

It's not a sob story, it's reality. Speaking of reality, wheres your drop down make you weak at your knees man? Go ask "him" if he's ever dated a WW and let him tell you what a fairytale it was. Oh, you'll probably say that he's never been with a WW. He's been with you the whole time cause he's struggling.

 

You are right, we all think that way.

Blacgrl, I was so into having you contribute to this forum when you first came on board. But now its degraded into pot stirring/broad generalizations/thinly veiled racism posts from you. Too bad, you were off to a good start.

 

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LOL, funny how everyone equates Southern with good cooking, but I think that's fairly accurate. Some of my earliest memories are of being in the kitchen and gardens with my grandmother. She spent hours in the gardens and orchards and she was the best cook I've ever known. I asked her once why she liked gardening so much and she told me 'we're Southern ladies Li'l Bit, gardening, cooking, and taking care of folks is just what we do.'

 

Let's see, sweet, intelligent, worldly, sexy women who have a lot to offer. Yeah, it's horrible.

 

Where do you think soul food originated?

 

I love the hospitality.

 

Please. Show me a sista under the age of 50 who even goes near a kitchen who doesn't work at a restaurant. The only time I used to get good soul food is when somebody died and there was a dinner at the church.

 

Kind, funny, sexy, lovable men who have a lot to offer... seems it's a mutual attraction. :smt008

 

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Today's sistas are too career-minded to cook.

 

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Oh I'm fifth generation hospitable sugar.

LOL, that's too bad Karma.

 

Chuuuch. And cooking is too "submissive."

 

When brothaman comes home from working a 16+ hour job, he wants to come home to a hot meal...yet sistagirl asks him..."when you gon take me out to eat?".