Some people just aren't attracted to them and choose not to. Plain and simple. Just as some black women would never date a white man because he doesn't appeal to them.
Ewww!!!! That Frito chit look so disgusting, told you white chics can't cook worth a damn!!! The proof is in the chilli chit bwahahaha!!!:smt003
Thank you Pink. Exactly! My first kiss, date, boyfriend, sexual partner have all been Black. Hopefully my husband to be will too.
Apparently something must have happen to you in your childhood, how can you not date not one person in your own race, NOT ONE! smells like bullshit:neutral:
huh? just becauze someone likes something like that doesnt mean they can not cook - what kind of conclusion is that? That doesnt even make a little sense.. Also, its not white peoples food, its Texas food and the last time I checked, black people live there too - AND eat that "chit". So if you, my dearfriend, go to a drive through - should I pass the judgement on YOU that YOU can not cook? FAIL. btw, good chili takes not only time but skills. You just pour it over Fritos. I have cooked since I was 7 and can cook pretty much anything .. and I cook everything from scratch.
Your welcome! Mine have all been white, but I was never attracted to them. Just trying to please everyone else before I made myself happy. Which is wrong on MY part. I missed out on some great oppurtunities just to make everyone else smile, while I never smiled myself. But not anymore! :smt050
You know family pressure is really hard. Once you get older, you could give two shits. I'm glad to hear you're aiming for happiness for yourself. I read your posts so I understand, but the more independent you become, the less you'll care what "they" have to say.
Sweetheart, you have no idea about my childhood. It's definitally not one to brag about but it damn sure ain't any of your bussiness. All but two of my ex's are white. My nephew who is white has NEVER dated a white girl. I know that for a fact. The only bullshit going on around here is the pile you are standing in.
NOw this makes more sense I can understand that, but I never heard of anyone who have NEVER dated someone in there own race, that's really fucked up
Thanks. It is hard, but I am my own person now. I don't have the need to live up to the family name anymore, well, because that is all it is. A name. Maybe someday some wonderful man will change it so I can say "What family name? I have his, so I don't know what your talking about." Eh, one can only dream lol.
Oh look, my daddy is calling. "Time to muck out them horse-stalls, mama needs fertilizer for her garden."
I am. And I won't search for him like my hopeful romantic butt wants. He wants me bad enough, he'll find me. If you happen to pass him by though, just tell him look out behind the barn, near the pile of manure.
You are right all this bullshit y'all throwing just doesn't add up, it's kind of weird, how can a person NEVER date a single person in their own race, that sounds like something bomb you mentally dating white men. I understand about having preferences but I'll be damn if y'all ain't stuck on color, we might be white, black, green or whatever, BUT individualism still exist, you just can't go putting everyone in the same category because of their color. You want ppl to be understanding and not be prejudiced against you being in an IR, but how you chose to be in one is actually an act of prejudice in itself:neutral: