In terms of personality, I'm turned off by judgemental and arrogant women. I don't like women who are rude, cruel or uncaring. In terms of physical appearance, I'm turned off by bad skin and ugly legs, overweight women, women with sagging breasts etc. Basically, I like women who are cheerful and compassionate and appear as though they are physically healthy. I don't judge women who don't fit all of my criteria for an ideal partner as I wouldn't want anyone to judge me for having traits or characteristics that they don't find attractive. This is strictly a matter of romantic/sexual appeal.
Co-sign Also,guys that feel the need to show all the time how much smarter,cooler then most ppl they are.Arrogance.Egocentrism.Mental inflexibility.Extremism.
Women without a sense of humor is a real turn off same with women who don't know what's going on with the fairly current news, I mean she doesn't have to watch CNN every night just needs to have idea of what's going on.
I like to believe I can find a women attractive in both a pair of jeans and sweats , but one thing that has ever gotten me more than anything else is when an ex-girlfriend of mine NEVER spruced herself up for me. I went to take her out to an italian resturant once, it wasn't too elaborate but it was a nice place that she knew well in advanced we were going to. I had recently bought a new shirt and thought I would wear it, wasn't anything fancy but I had her in mind when I wore it, thought she would like it. Long story short, she is wearing a baggy college shirt with one of those athletic basketball book bag over her shoulder with her hair pulled so far and hard it looked like her eyeballs were gonna' pop out of her skull. It wasn't necessarily what she was wearing, it was the fact that I took time to think about looking good for her and she apparently didnt even think twice about looking good for me. Guess there is a reason why we aren't together anymore! lol
That sucks! I assume she was very comfortable with you and was probably like fuck it, he likes me for me. Unfortunately, she overlooked what you did.
This was bad of her how can you go to a restaurant like this ...no need to be dress great but she could easy done with something simple a pair of nice jeans and a simple top and some nice shoes thats the most easy simple and always nice if you dont wanna dress too much even if other people dress good around you you will not end up end looking bad ..also a nice way to look good and be sure you not over dress or little if you go somewhere that you not sure... I am not always dress nice i used to be everyday even when i was in the house now i do wear more simple clothes in the house but what you said thats something i will not wear even when i am alone.
LOL! There are exceptions to every rule Tarshi, and we all know you are exceptional, and sarcasm is part of what make you who you are sweetie. It's just one of the many, many reasons we all luv you. :smt045
lol...very true. dropping the kids off at school this morning i ended up in a flood of tears because i was getting a little sympathy and tea. just hopeless
High pitched voices. Bad grammar in chat, email or when speaking. Gum chewers. High heel shoes. Sloppy dressers. Overly revealing dressers. Tattoos. Smokers (though lately, this stance hasn't been firm) Women who play with their hair.
again, i'm striking out with the men...!!! note to self...no more flashing my tits, being sarcastic or playing with my hair...obvious reasons why i'm still single (besides the fact that i want to be of course)
tarshi...lippy is striking out as well...i'm a gum chewing, high heel wearing, play with my hair, tattoo on my ass woman...but you know, chi has offered to give kissing lessons over in the gay for a day thread and i just might have to take her up on that class:grin:
lol...but you've got yourself a hunk-o-spunk...!!! i'd take her up on that offer in a heartbeat lippy...!!! i think bi 101 with miss chi would be quite the fun education
