I will admit I have and will continue to chubby chase

andrae09 said:
I have a question that's really been bothering me and I need to know why is everything in relation to this topic. Why are you a "real" woman if you're a size 12 or above and being thin is seen as annorexic. For example one of my last gfs was 5'5 and about 130 maybe 140 and wore a size 6. She was perfectly height weight proportionate. Wouldn't she be more of a barometer of what's "real"
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'Real' is an illusion IMO. Everyone is real, period. Weight has nothing to do with who you are as a woman, or a man. The most beautiful woman I know inside and out is a size 4, and she gets shit all the time for being too thin. It seems to me that people hate on what they aren't, or what they wish they were. If you're content with yourself you don't hate on anyone, and you don't care who hates on you, you just pity them for their stupidity.

If you are the sort of person who feels the need to assign labels like 'real' to people, you will have your own definition of what 'real' means to you. That definition will mean nothing to anyone else as there is no one universal definition for 'real'.
 
lipstick said:
iggy obviously missed LL cool j curling the women on the view with ease...he started with elizabeth...then joy and sure enough he swept sherri shepherd right off her feet:smt016
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I saw that one. LL looked kind of scared when she ran up on him. he handled it like a pro but you saw the trepidation in his face.
 
andrae09 said:
I have a question that's really been bothering me and I need to know why is everything in relation to this topic. Why are you a "real" woman if you're a size 12 or above and being thin is seen as annorexic. For example one of my last gfs was 5'5 and about 130 maybe 140 and wore a size 6. She was perfectly height weight proportionate. Wouldn't she be more of a barometer of what's "real"
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perhaps a new thread with your question would be appropriate so we can continue to look at beautiful women here:heart:
 
lipstick said:
i thought he handled it like a man...so impressed with him that day on the show:heart:
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yeah. the book he is pushing is pretty good to read as a motivational book. the first 5-6 chapters are about spiritual , mental and emotional development. I enjoyed it.

he seems like a very well rounded man and a good family man. he seems very evolved and spiritual.
 
Espy said:
'Real' is an illusion IMO. Everyone is real, period. Weight has nothing to do with who you are as a woman, or a man. The most beautiful woman I know inside and out is a size 4, and she gets shit all the time for being too thin. It seems to me that people hate on what they aren't, or what they wish they were. If you're content with yourself you don't hate on anyone, and you don't care who hates on you, you just pity them for their stupidity.

If you are the sort of person who feels the need to assign labels like 'real' to people, you will have your own definition of what 'real' means to you. That definition will mean nothing to anyone else as there is no one universal definition for 'real'.
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By real I meant the litmus for average. I should have clarified my bad.
 
andrae09 said:
By real I meant the litmus for average. I should have clarified my bad.
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Ah, you know that was probably obvious to everyone but me Andrae. I've had a bad migraine for 2 days and they tend to make me really literal, so I miss the nuances. I'm also easily distracted, so it's a wonder I make it through a post and actually remember what my point was.

On the subject of average, generally that's also subject to individual interpretation. I realize that average is quantifiable in terms of numbers, but most people who use the term average have no idea what the actual numbers or statistics on a given subject are, rather they base that off of their personal beliefs or whatever they use as their personal barometer for average. In fact as you pointed out in another thread I think, obesity is on the rise and some say it's reached epidemic proportions in the US, therefore it might be accurate to state that the average American is over their ideal body weight. If that were the case then overweight would be the average. And I use the term ideal body weight because that's how obesity is typically calculated, despite that I personally feel that's inaccurate.

Anyway, someone please post some more beautiful, curvaceous women to get the thread back on track.
 
andrae09 said:
I have a question that's really been bothering me and I need to know why is everything in relation to this topic. Why are you a "real" woman if you're a size 12 or above and being thin is seen as annorexic. For example one of my last gfs was 5'5 and about 130 maybe 140 and wore a size 6. She was perfectly height weight proportionate. Wouldn't she be more of a barometer of what's "real"
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How dare you question this!!!!

Why dont you go have sex with a blow up doll!!!!

(just kidding):)
I was thinking the exact same thing but of course I was lambasted with responses that I am "gay" if I dont like fat chicks and I must prefer blowup dolls cause I dont find women like Rosanne Barr attractive.:confused:

And lippy, I am not as strong as LL Cool J lol. Curling fat chicks is something I am not interested in. I dont want to pull my back.;)
 
Espy said:
Nothing wrong with what you like LS, everyone is entitled to like what they like. Iggy works at provoking people, and sadly he/she's successful often. I think no one should take any response to Iggy to heart as it's only directed at Iggy and is generally in response to some nasty thing he/she said. That's why I put it on ignore, that significantly cuts down on the clutter in the threads.
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Yep, because some folks like yourself disagree with me on certain things, I MUST be a troll only looking to get a rise out of people. Yep, thats it.:roll:
 
Iggy said:
Yep, because some folks like yourself disagree with me on certain things, I MUST be a troll only looking to get a rise out of people. Yep, thats it.:roll:
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I personally like a lot of what you have to say its logical but you come across too offensively at times and that's what makes people on here think you're a troll.
There's an old saying "You can be correct without being right"
 
andrae09 said:
I personally like a lot of what you have to say its logical but you come across too offensively at times and that's what makes people on here think you're a troll.
There's an old saying "You can be correct without being right"
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Fair enough. From now on I will suck up to the veternan posters and shower them with compliments:smt023

But serioulsy, all joking aside, I have been pretty damn civil since joining this forum. I have been called an "idiot", "troll", "fag" and a slew of other names but I dont think I have been too offensive from my standpoint. Oh well, I guess I will tone it down from here on out though. Wouldnt want to upset any of the folks on here living comfortablly in their PC bubble.;)
 
Iggy said:
Fair enough. From now on I will suck up to the veternan posters and shower them with compliments:smt023

But serioulsy, all joking aside, I have been pretty damn civil since joining this forum. I have been called an "idiot", "troll", "fag" and a slew of other names but I dont think I have been too offensive from my standpoint. Oh well, I guess I will tone it down from here on out though. Wouldnt want to upset any of the folks on here living comfortablly in their PC bubble.;)
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Never said you had to suck up. God knows I don't and never will. I'm quick to bump heads with people but it doesn't have to be insulting or disrespectful. That's all I'm saying. And truthfully I agree some people do come at you harsh but keep on posting because your perspective is valuable. If it weren't for posters like you and myself every thread would be an ass kissing fest of some sort. So keep doing you fam. Before anyone comments, I said posters LIKE him and myself. Indicating others have good posts too.
 
andrae09 said:
Never said you had to suck up. God knows I don't and never will. I'm quick to bump heads with people but it doesn't have to be insulting or disrespectful. That's all I'm saying. And truthfully I agree some people do come at you harsh but keep on posting because your perspective is valuable. If it weren't for posters like you and myself every thread would be an ass kissing fest of some sort. So keep doing you fam. Before anyone comments, I said posters LIKE him and myself. Indicating others have good posts too.
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:butthead: :smt058 which cheek would you like me to plant my kiss on...??? :p
 
Iggy said:
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definitley true andrae. I will be more aware of how I post from now on.
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if you are not offensive...WHO is putting the tags at the bottom of these threads? that alone should get your ass put in the internet holding cell :smt102 just saying since you are trying to act like you said nothing to deserve the comments you received
 
Okay I did miss the point a lot but some women seem to be defending thicker/bigger/curvier women by putting down women who aren't. Not saying everyone but there are a couple. Personally I love women of all shapes, it's their choice to be what size they want and guys should be allowed to be with a woman of any size without being dissed.

Andrea, you made a good point with the "real women" thing, that has been debated quite a bit and it really irks me. I'm not petite, skinny or anything but to say you're not a true woman if you aren't over 150 is ridiculous and offensive. I'm pretty average at 5'5" and 125lbs so I'm kinda bang in the middle.

BTW: I'm in no way agreeing with what Iggy has said, honestly I don't even read his posts anyway. He seems rather foul though. I get that it's frustrating with him dissing bigger women and some are taking it personal but don't put down others to make yourself better. It's not fair :/ and as stupid as Iggy is it's silly to accuse someone of being gay for having a preference.

People like what they like, different strokes and all that. I mean most of us have felt persecuted at some point for our choice of mates I'm sure so I'm not sure why we're judging people tbh.

This post is a big mess but I'm sure you'll get what I mean... I hope :D
 
lipstick said:
if you are not offensive...WHO is putting the tags at the bottom of these threads? that alone should get your ass put in the internet holding cell :smt102 just saying since you are trying to act like you said nothing to deserve the comments you received
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Definitely didnt put those tags at the bottom of this thread. I just now noticed them. Thats not something I would do (plus I wouldnt even know how to do it). Isnt there a way the mods can check who made those?:confused:

And I do sorta understand how some of you have taken offense to me. I am pretty opinionated and dont shy away from voicing it.
 
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