Do Black Men Respect White Women

[Bug]

I want to thank the original poster for her courage to start this thread. There are many black men who respect women, however, there are many who do not and that group is responsible for the bad reputation that black men have the world over as poor husbands and deadbeat fathers. The truth hurts and so does denial. Until the cycle stops in which young black males have fathers in their lives to teach them to respect women in general we will always have generations well into the future of boys/men who do not respect women. My father once told me and my brothers that "a man is not a real man if he does not respect women. How can he be respected in turn".

I feel that statement profoundly, my ex Husband is a terrible Father was a terrible Husband too, no respect for decent family life at all, but I do want to say that there are many men who aren't like that, I've met them and I'm with one right now, he's a good guy, I think when we are continually being dissapointed in our love life we have to look to ourselves and adjust our behaviour to attract the right sort of man.
We can't just blame it on a whole host of men with bad attitudes, if we are being taken advantage of we have to accept that we to some extent are allowing it to happen.

 

[archangel]

I think when we are continually being dissapointed in our love life we have to look to ourselves and adjust our behaviour to attract the right sort of man.
We can't just blame it on a whole host of men with bad attitudes, if we are being taken advantage of we have to accept that we to some extent are allowing it to happen.

These words should be framed and given to every woman. lol Then switch the man and men with woman and women and given to men. To often, people don't understand those words.

 

[Inner Beauty]

I feel that statement profoundly, my ex Husband is a terrible Father was a terrible Husband too, no respect for decent family life at all, but I do want to say that there are many men who aren't like that, I've met them and I'm with one right now, he's a good guy, I think when we are continually being dissapointed in our love life we have to look to ourselves and adjust our behaviour to attract the right sort of man.
We can't just blame it on a whole host of men with bad attitudes, if we are being taken advantage of we have to accept that we to some extent are allowing it to happen.

Amen to that!