Does hard to get still apply in online dating ???

fexo said:
I know you don't think men are the only ones w/issues.. just about all of the women I've met on there have SERIOUS issues .. we're even talking 'meds' issues... I'm running away from it all...
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I don't have any experience meeting women on online dating sites, LOL, but from what I've heard, men run into a lot of whack job women on online dating sites, too. There are a lot of humdingers on online dating sites: men AND women.

I've pretty much given up hope of finding a good guy online. 2 of the 3 guys I'm talking to right now, I first met in person. I just don't have a lot of opportunities to meet people in "real-life", though, which is why I originally tried the online dating thing.
 
1. I don't e-date.

2. I never got the playing hard to get thing. Either you're into him or your not. I'm kinda boring like that.

So yeah, basically I can't help you at all. :smt001
 
DJ Fukalya said:
just move on. Most of the time it's because they aren't attracted to you OR your game was wack. It's usually the latter.
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The VC below may help him. In general guys need to be very careful about how they respond to ads women post online. many books, blogs etc were written about the subject. I would say people who date online have high standards and 6 out of 10 are not the best looking people. Face to face is always better.



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Tarshibear said:
1 guess where you're concerned pecs, it would only be from the neck to the belly though right...???
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:p

im serious tho.....

some people act like you can't get to see how a person really looks, because of the internet. Webcams pretty much nullify that train of thought. If you two are feeling each other, i'm pretty sure spending chump change on a cam is worth it. Both parties can see what they're getting, and avoid being misled. If she doesn't want to cam or acts shady when it comes to making sure you know who she is, that should raise some redflags. I understand some people may not be comfortable with camming, but if you dont want to talk on the phone, or share photos with you displaying something I sent you, you're out.
 
Dmacho said:
If a man messages a woman and gets no reply, should he just move on, or should he send one or two more messages ?
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2x and then keep it moving. they have no excuse. I usually say 3 to 4 times for phone calls.

women just like to have a convo with other women saying " Oh gurl look at this fool hear. he be bugging me but i keep ignoring him"

they just like having u calling them to boost their egos
 
I've been online dating lately and all I can say is most women will say no but for the ones who respond if they like you you don't have to do much just don't mess it up by doing dumb shit.
 
andrae09 said:
I've been online dating lately and all I can say is most women will say no but for the ones who respond if they like you you don't have to do much just don't mess it up by doing dumb shit.
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LOL. there is an article about how to mack online. I will post it in the trading mack notes...getting booty points. I dont want to hijack this thread
 
Dmacho said:
If a man messages a woman and gets no reply, should he just move on, or should he send one or two more messages ?
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It's actually pretty simple on most of those sites because you can see when their last log-in was or if the message was read or not. If the message was read and they don't reply then you should probably move on.
 
If I were you I wouldn't hit her back even if she hit me back. She left you hanging so basically she's saying that you she'll get back to you on her time. I'm not chasing no woman and I don't care how fine she is.
 
I am currently on a dating site & was completely overwhelmed with the amount of messages the first few days. I don't know if men get alot of responses or not like that but I've heard most women do. So don't think they are ignoring on purpose.
 
MsChris said:
I am currently on a dating site & was completely overwhelmed with the amount of messages the first few days. I don't know if men get alot of responses or not like that but I've heard most women do. So don't think they are ignoring on purpose.
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i wouldnt think so. if a woman creates an ad WITH a pretty photo....she's going to get attention out the ass....

that's just how the world is
 
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