same here...Wesley Snipes is dark-skinned....youngbuc here hardly resembles that btw i love the 'Superbad' quote, lol
If you look like tyson beckford you're gunna get chicks. If you look like borris kojoe you're gunna get chicks. The Jigga mans light skin (he is) but women would rather be with denzel. What I'm tryna say is light skin and dark skin will never be "out" or "in". It just depends on how you look (features, clothing, swag etc)
As far as mainstream media I always though brown to dark skin dudes got the most love. So when weren't we in style? Not that it matters because if you're in shape with the some dough ladies will love you.
always in style with me...and i choose to ignore the in shape & dough comment because i want to feel the love...!!! :smt054
i think every woman on this board made it clear that size didn't matter i just look at em like 'oh really now?'
listen pecs...thought we cleared up your 'problem' in an earlier thread...and yet i'm still talking to you (mainly cause of the inability to teabag me)
I'll just let you insert the standard Espy exception clause here, cause you hit 3 things that don't mean diddly to me.
I guess you dont know the answer to this until u had a huge penis drilling U and completely dont know what they are doing. LOL. Snooze fest at best. Size does not make up for techinque by any means.
Don't front like it doesn't matter thought. If a dude with a four incher was drilling away you wouldn't feel anything at all
I have never fronted about that - there was a thread about that, that I posted in. Saying just eaxctly this. Does size matter? To a degree absolutely!! No doubt.... but I take a man w an average penis that knows what he is doing any day over a large one that dont. Techique trumps size any day. I acctually broke up with a dude that was exceptionally large - btw - he was white!!! Because of the inability to do certain positions because it was painful.. and he was a driller.. I felt like I was in the Alaskan oilfiends. BUT!.....As Im more about the connection before getting down and dirty - IF I have a huge emotional turn-on towards you and you get me.. I more than willing to over look any lacking in the pants department. btw, any driller, small or large is a let down. I once dated a dude that was pretty lacking in size, BUT - MAN - dude knew how to compensate for that. So, there ARE ways. If its really really tiny - you really have to work it to make me wanna continue -this dude did. If we love you, we will make you feel comfortable about your size any way we can. I have only come across one that I was wondering what the hell he was gonna do with that - and he was black!!!! I didnt give him the chance to prove what he could do with it - so yes, there is a limit I guess. Funny thing is he called himself mandingo and had prepped w Magnum condoms.... Im still getting a chucke over that.
This is only important to the people who value skin color. I am light skinned but am a mix of more than just black and white. I can also tell you that the term "tar baby" is applied to black people, from other black people. Do research on the topic and you will find that this issue exists, but is not widely spoken of in public. I think some simply think the lighter you are, the easier you have it, which in some cases is true. But do not worry, light skinned males have to endure white women staring at them for some ungodly amount of time, the listen to them guess what race they think you are. "Hmmm, Brazilian, Greek, Italian. You look black and something else."
I remember growing up when skin complexions were in style. It was sad, but that was the reality. I think like you said, NOW, it's about being attractive regardless of whatever tone you are. Amen my Sista! LOL @ Alaskan oil fiends
I used to get picked on when I was younger for being dark. I am by far the darkest in my family, Its some crazy gene that dropped from a few generations back I think. I got the name calling real bad when I lived in Africa. I would be called midnight,complexion..etc. I was a little kid then, and it used to make me cry. When I moved to the UK, the taking the piss out of my complexion stopped. They instead took the piss out of my hair;they kept on playing with it like it was toy. I am comfortable in my darkness now.:-D
women forgot the basic purpose of sex. We're supposed to nut (which feels gooder than a motha) and you're supposed to get pregnant (ie lay there until that seed pops). you're not supposed to have orgasms or any such thing (if you do, who cares.....), because it has no place in the cycle of life end of story
Look at this shit...lol I don't know of many women who "lay there" for the sole purpose of getting preggo and not getting hers as well.