What type of man do you think I am? You're kinda of new to the forum and even the people that have been seeing me post over the last couple of weeks don't have any idea about what type of man I am. They think they know but they don't know shit forreal. I know whatever say is probably going to be negative but go right ahead and tell me what you think.
well lets ask this why BM love WW
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Bliss
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I don't know WHAT to think. That's the point. I don't have anything negative for you...I just joined the other day and am feeling out the forum, learning...I didn't even realize you haven't been here that long, so I don't know anything about you except what Ive read so far. You were the first man to befriend me and you have been very nice to me. I think you're an interesting kat, in the way you take charge of your opinions, that's all. You're def not boring to read. I do love how much you love WW and say so.
Forgive me ma for assuming that you were going to have something negative to say to me. Understand that I got a lot of haters on this site. You random bitch ass niggas coming at me out of nowhere talking shit. But I don't feed into them. I usually ignore them and their feminine ways. Anyway, you are one of our many lovely ladies we have on this forum. When you come here I want you to feel at home. I want to hear your thoughts and opinion so me and the rest of the people can get to know you. You shouldn't expect nothing but the utmost love and respect from me.
The reason I got so annoyed earlier is because anywhere I go online to discuss this topic I always got to read derogatory comments from bitter black women and angry racist white men about why black men love white women. Then I'm forced to defense myself, my black brothers, and the white goddesses that us niggas I love so much. I never get a chance to tell the ladies whats in my heart and what I think about them. I'm forced to argue with a bunch ignorant ass mutherfuckas and tired of it.
As far as I'm concern I've heard everything that jealous ass black women and white men have to say about BM/WW couples. I'm not interested in anything either group has to say about BM/WW or any other issue. All I want to do is give white women the praise that many of you deserve without somebody trying to judge me. I absolutely love and adore white women and I don't feel I have to anyone any explanations or apologizes for my preference.
Ms. J
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I wish to respectfully ask you, please don't say these things. I do understand what this thread is about, but I also feel the need to ask about your Mom, Grandmother, cousins, sisters and/or future daughter. Black women are beautiful people and I personally know & work with many lovely black women. I guess also what I feel the need to say is: please teach your son to love all women - you may, some day, have a beautiful daughter-in-law with gorgeous dark skin. I most sincerely mean no disrespect for you or your opinion, please, will you think on these things?
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I didn't take your post as being disrespectful at all. As far as black women are concern I made up my mind about them a long time ago and my opinion will not change. I didn't come here to talk about black women. I came here to socialize and discuss issues that concern bm/ww couples. It's crazy that this thread suppose to be about what black men love about white women and yet black women is dominating this thread. SMH I'm just let it go because it seems like no one wants to stick to the topic.
Bliss
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Jenny, I hope you don't mind me interjecting my OPINION, but I think what you wrote is a bit unfair. I don't get why people bring mothers, fathers and siblings up as retorts. Let me ask you - I'm assuming your parents and siblings are white? So if a Racist KKK member rudely spouted why he thinks you shouldn't be together with a black man, would you like him for it? Would you be expected to? No.
Now what if someone came down on you about your family being white and you shouldn't speak ill of whites? The point is, Trey isn't referring to LOVELY Black women, OR his momma or sisters...just as you aren't when you speak ill of racist white men. He clearly tells us...
"I don't give a fuck about what black women or anyone else thinks our unions!!!
The reason I got so annoyed earlier is because anywhere I go online to discuss this topic I always got to read derogatory comments from bitter black women and angry racist white men about why black men love white women.
As far as I'm concern I've heard everything that jealous ass black women and white men have to say about BM/WW couples".
See the difference? I won't EVER defend a racist white man or woman who hates on IR, as I wont a racist Black man or woman who hates on IR, and I think it's unfair to single Trey out by expecting him to defend their rude behavior JUST BECAUSE he's Black, when you haven't expected it of White people who have his sentiment about bitter racist Whites.
Finally, if Trey's son brings home a Black woman, you can best believe she won't be a racist because he'll have been raised to seek out LOVELY women, no matter her color.
The Dark King
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To be fair Jenny is right he did say he made his mind up about black women. Making a sweeping generalization but whatever like he said this is about why we like white women.
I'll end the thread with this. We like ww just because we do. No ever has to explain to the world why they like who they like so why should our relationships be any different.
Bookworm616
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Exactly!!
Bliss
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To be fair, he also explained why? Did you not see that, or do you just like to generalize yourself? By your token the very essence of this site is a huge generalization. Does it speak for all WW and BM? Nah.
I think any intelligent adult would decipher that when people here write Black or White, Women or Men - FOLLOWED BY AN EXPLANATION, it's not meant to denounce or speak for the entire race, culture or sex. I personally preface mine to say "some", or "racist" or "many", because I don't feel bothered having to explain what I just explained to you- like yesterday when you attempted to single me out when I said I stopped defending BW who didn't DEFEND me. You just ignored the context of the point, or my prior prefaces, which I had to then break down for you.
If I say, "I hate it when men...." PULEASE know I'm not talking about EVERY MAN, or my daddy or my brother or cousins. If I was, I would say so. Fair enough?!
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I do believe we can talk about why we love ww without downing bw or other women of color. If you search the site I have always stated that I would date other women of color and dedicated a thread to it by the name of something to the sort of "Im an equal opportunity lover"....
the point of this thread was to just talk about the love BM have for WW and why we do as individuals..no need to put down another race but at the same time BM can discuss (on another thread if they like to do so) their disagreements about black women. just because you are upset at a person does not mean you hate them
the point of this thread was to just talk about the love BM have for WW and why we do as individuals..no need to put down another race but at the same time BM can discuss (on another thread if they like to do so) their disagreements about black women. just because you are upset at a person does not mean you hate them
The Dark King
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Nothing against you personally. Just doing the same horeshit people did to me when I first got here. It gets tiresome I know.
if you were shitted on when you first got here why do someone else that way if you did not enjoy it. that is not nice.
The Dark King
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I was just making a point GL. No disrespect intended.
OH OK.
Bliss
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The Dark King
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Touche lol
Bliss
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Thank you, baby!
flaminghetero
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First of all don't tell me to calm down.
Who the fuck do you think you are dude????????
Bliss
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You know, I read your exit thread last night. I didn't realize how emotional people can get over this place. I'm hoping to stay level-headed and calm, as I am by nature. Even so, I think can still take your shit, Andrae. I'm a 16 rounds gal. :smt062
(Ok, maybe 15, I know when to throw in the towel for a man.)
The Dark King
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Hey any girl who can spar with me gets an automatic win in my book. I get that you guys are females but the hypersensativity I see from both the guys and girls is for the birds. It takes away from the fun and let's be real this is an internet forum. There's no need to bug out. In case I didn't say it before welcome to the party. You said you came to the states and I was wondering from where?