I am addicted to WW - how do I get (gently) weaned off this "addiction"?

goodlove said:
this is the very reason I hated school....books with more than one paragraph. what the f*** do you have to say in the 300 pages that you cant say in one paragraph
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LMAO.
U crack me uuuuup:-D
Books w one paragraph??
That would be a shopping list.
 
No such thing as being addicted to White women, that's like saying ones addicted to sunlight, water and fresh air.
 
Anten7 said:
:smt058 Back at you!

You see, the truth just sounds different. It's one thing to have had sex with a woman, it's quite another thing entirely when you have given your time, feelings, and resources into trying to make something meaningful.

I learned a lot from my ex-fiance. I had never been involved with a woman who demanded my attention. She told me that "I wasn't asleep, and that I was wide awake and aware." We had conversations about it - you know? Like, a lot of people that you encounter throughout the course of your life are not fully aware. You could be talking to them, but you can see how they are not fully capable of focusing upon a single moment. She discovered that I was, and she told me she "wanted to start a life with me."

We would talk all the time about how it is in a corporate setting when you have to be "on" - meaning, that you have to be wide-awake.

To quote Akuma from Street Fighter Alpha - The Movie:

"a true warrior enters the arena with ALL his powers at the ready..."

I didn't appreciate her as an amazing gift that I was blessed to be with. She wasn't a piece of meat. She was a person that I could have built a life with. She taught me a lot. We endured a lot of ugly stares and comments together. We broke up earlier this year because I screwed up. I've learned a lot.
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Oh I missed this post....All I can say is I am truly happy that you wised up- albeit too late for your ex, but for the next woman (if you don't already have one), she better look out! And pinch herself!
 
xoxo said:
No such thing as being addicted to White women, that's like saying ones addicted to sunlight, water and fresh air.
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Such gems emanate form the men here. My goodness! Even if you are just being chivalrous, WW are sooo bleassed that BBM< (beautiful Black men) love WW.
 
andrae09 said:
Can't I imagine both of you at the same time lol
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Sure! Just remember, she's a Mod round hea!, and she gets first dibs in your sorrid imagination, cause I 'aint steppin on her toes(aka shoe with a 4 inch spike!) no siree!


ps: Did I just help you out there with your little storyline?? ;)
 
Kunoichi said:
Sure! Just remember, she's a Mod round hea!, and she gets first dibs in your sorrid imagination, cause I 'aint steppin on her toes(aka shoe with a 4 inch spike!) no siree!


ps: Did I just help you out there with your little storyline?? ;)
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Espy always gets first dibs with me but I'm always open to the idea the more the merrier lol.
And yes you did.
 
andrae09 said:
Espy always gets first dibs with me but I'm always open to the idea the more the merrier lol.
And yes you did.
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huh...??? no...!!! since when...??? total shock...!!! how have i missed this...??? you've managed to keep that quiet....!!!! :p
 
Tarshibear said:
lol....i'm no second prize fella...!!!! and i don't care what pecs has told you...that light isn't red...!!!! :p
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I swear second always gets a bad rep. It doesn't have to mean sloppy it can just mean dessert baby girl. Seriously who doesn't like a little dessert from time to time.
 
andrae09 said:
I swear second always gets a bad rep. It doesn't have to mean sloppy it can just mean dessert baby girl. Seriously who doesn't like a little dessert from time to time.
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i don't have that sweet-tooth i guess, and i prefer to always be numero uno babycakes
 
Tarshibear said:
lol....i'm no second prize fella...!!!! and i don't care what pecs has told you...that light isn't red...!!!! :p
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andrae09 said:
I swear second always gets a bad rep. It doesn't have to mean sloppy it can just mean dessert baby girl. Seriously who doesn't like a little dessert from time to time.
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Yeah, I always wonder what's better - the girl who get's the dinner but then dropped off,
or the booty call who gets the call after and a good dicking from a night of sexual build up.
Hmmmm....I guess it depends on who's he's thinking of when he's dicking...( did I just give my answer away?)
 
Kunoichi said:
Yeah, I always wonder what's better - the girl who get's the dinner but then dropped off,
or the booty call who gets the call after and a good dicking from a night of sexual build up.
Hmmmm....I guess it depends on who's he's thinking of when he's dicking...( did I just give my answer away?)
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Kind of but who cares as long as the night involves creame of some sort :-)
 
I wish I could stop being attracted to White women as well, I hate it with a passion. I'm not attracted to most White women (and not any of the ones I see in real life) but the women I do have romantic feelings for, the ones I see on internet message boards or in television shows/movies/porn videos, are usually White, sometimes neither Black or White and rarely ever Black. Most of the White people I come across are rude, obnoxious and lack empathy (cognitive and affective), at least for me. So is/do everyone else but most people where I live are White. I honestly can't stand dealing with them, I lose my personality when I'm around them. I don't know if it's the contrast in skin color and the fact that they're so alien to me, or living in a White area and being interested in issues that, stereotypically, appeal mostly to White people (ie. philosophy) or the fact that most of the tv shows/movies I watch have White protagonists but, for whatever reasons, I find attractive White women with compassionate, kind personalities to be very desirable. It's depressing because I consider myself to be pro-African unity (although you can be a pan-Africanist and identify with non-Africans) and I hate to be just another stereotypical BM who's head over heels for White women, especially considering how often I'm mistreated and disrespected by these people. I've been talking to this White girl online for years now and my feelings for her are even stronger then when I first developed a crush on her. She is my favorite human being in the world and I don't even know what her voice sounds like.

In my teen years, I wasn't even remotely attracted to them, save for the very odd exception. What the hell happened to me? I was rarely attracted to light skinned Black women back then, let alone White women. Now, when I see a beautiful Black woman, I want to put her on a pedestal and not touch her because I'm so proud of myself for being seriously attracted to one again. I think Black women are as physically attractive as White women are but the thought of being intimate with someone who's so different from me is endearing, so it's easier for me to have romantic feelings for White women. One thing is for sure, I will never act on these feelings in real life.

*off topic* - to look at someone in a hyper-sexual context is not the same thing as viewing them as a sexual object. To objectify someone is to disregard their feelings/self-interests and use them as an instrument for your own benefit. Unless you're raping these women or tricking them into having sex with you, you aren't 'objectifying' them. The very nature of sexual/romantic attraction is self-gratifying.
 
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