Darling, What's your problem then? You don't deal with us - your last line attests to it....so what's with the fretting. *Funny thing, I was just reading 13 different types of Brothas written by a sista and I thought of you on this one... #7. MR. I`M A RIGHTEOUS BLACK MAN Advantages a. Will teach you about black history b. Revolutionary c. Inspiring & gives to you spiritually &emotionally d. Wants a wife and family Disadvantages a. Breaks up with you for a white girl :smt061 b. Mo money-doesn`t have a job c.Doesn`t own a nice suit, always wearing camouflage and sweats d. In the end, you find out he is just a trifling, con motha*bleep*
I remember that list or at least something similar. Can you post the whole thing? LOL @ the White girl one
I don't get it. Why would you HATE being attracted to someone just because they're a certain race? Do you feel guilty or something? That's unhealthy in my opinion.
I agree, but I assume it's cause of societal pressure (maybe in their inner circle = family/friends and the like) OR they hate that they're attracted to a different race cause they feel it's plain wrong and believe in solely monoracial relationships. Then again, for some of these dudes who have this ignorant, negative, purely sexual and disrespectful skewed view of White women, they could go on and stay with their own race.
Or they aren't really attracted to WW in the first place and just want to pull out the ever popular 'WW are freaks in the bedroom and down for anything, which is why BM are attracted to them in the first place' stereotype in some misguided and pathetic attempt to make WW wonder if that's how all BM really view them. It's old, it's tired, and it never works.
I have a gut feeling many BM aren't serious about WW at all. Some only see it as a fetish or a phase. Most of them won't have the balls to ask a WW for marriage or serious relationship because they don't want to piss off Mammy or Big 'Ma or every female relative.
AMEN! They can go on with that wet dog, bologna smelling, stringy haired, only good for sucking dick (Becky), mutant albino, no backbone having, gold-digging, non-cooking ass shit with them too....
I said this in another thread, some do see WW like that. They want to fuck WW cause they think we're easy and only good for sucking dick. They'll fuck a White chick, but marry a Sista.
Sadly I know a few men who view WW like that, they are attracted to them, but wouldn't be caught dead in public with one. I feel sorry for anyone who feels like they have to seek only what is socially acceptable in their circle... to me if people are trying to tell me how to live my life and who to associate with, it's time for a new circle. I also feel for any WW who gets involved with someone like that because knowing your man was ashamed to be involved with you would be really disheartening and hurtful.
:smt038:smt038:smt038:smt038 Wait, we're mutant albinos? Do any special powers come with that... other than the obvious ability to temporarily blind people by flashing our bare legs?
Hahahahahaha! Well you know it's pretty much pale from head to toe with me, so plenty of weapons to choose from.