Im still relatively new compared to ALOT of people on here. How has the forum changed for you since you've been on here (anybody can answer but Id really like to here from the members who've been here a while)?
i've been here for over a year and i can honestly say that i think there's more e-beefs, women bashing (money hungry etc.) and just a general lack of respect for people...that's just my opinion.
There's been drama of some sort around here for as long as I can remember. Quite a few really good posters have left, but it's the nature of a web forum. It's the internet, there will always be a clash of personalities.
I was going to say this but I wrote a massive paragraph and you summed it up nicely. There was always beef and women bashing. I agree about some of the oldies that have gone too, I miss them. I wonder what they're up to these days.
I really don't like the woman bashing comment. If you know its not you why are you giving it any thought. When women on here talk about dudes I'm aware its men in their lives not me personally. I don't get why its so difficult for some of the women to see it that way. I've personally said a few times that the gold digging thing was something I've experienced with girls in NY not everywhere.
come on now...if we did a poll round here, it would come out that you say the gold digging comment more than a few times
That's not bashing Tarshi that shit is sociological fact. Women are attracted to men with money. They seek comfort and security and more than likely want a guy to pay for it ie gold diggers. You act like I made it up. When the women on here complain about how guys are fucked up and just want sex or don't call or whatever other bs you guys like to complain about I don't chime in and call it man bashing. You're venting and that's perfectly ok but don't make it sound like I'm the only person who ever does that. Beat it.
you and another gentleman on this forum are guilty of stating this "sociological fact" more often than the women here who complain about guys are fucked up & just want sex etc....i think you need to fess up on that one fella. and what's with the michael jackson beat it at the end...???
Worse, I guess, but there's still a bunch of cool people on the site, so shit ain't bad enough for me to stop posting.
I have been here for a long time and it has gotten worse. I don't know where some of these people come from with this kind of drama but they bring on to the boards. It just makes me happy I don't live by them. Most of them are newbies and quite a few are jaded. I'm not talking about you kushton.
You guys had fucked up attitudes long before I ever heard of this forum. You old members need to take a look at all of the cliques, civil wars, and alliances you've built - so that this forum won't be a fucking waste of time for new people walking into your shit...