thank you kuno lol its easier when your typing paragraphs with 1 finger to ust type what u think the checker will catch but i forgot to correct them lol i knew i had not done something :-x
anyways here we go
You surely know WW! Interesting how you paint WW with such broad brush strokes. You got WW down to a science huh? You pegged us into various categories and since that's how YOU perceive WW, it has to be truth in gospel, right? I'm trying to follow your train of thought, other than a rant that's like a bad run on sentence without a point that's nothing more than stereotypical gibberish.
Not very broad. Plenty of categories, i left room for you to add a few too. But I feel the categories were dead on and even if you don't like them thats how I divided the WW who date BM not WW period. I can only go by their actions.
And I know White women, I know White boys, I know the White man, I live in Tennessee where it is more then 90 percent white I've known White people my whole life, I've been treated as a nigger, a human, a fellow white, a non-nigger, and I've gotten the "your one of the few of y'all i trust" speech more times then i can count. Don't get defensive because I have divided white women into several factions and with varying calibers of jungle fever.
Since when do WW have to be "checked"? Have we run a muck that we're on all some power trip? That we think we're Gods gift to BM or any man for that matter? Spare me the bullshit! Do you know a lot of WW? I mean besides the stupid racist bitches you've encountered or your friends' girlfriend? Dumb WW don't speak for me or any of my fellow posters here or women I know offline.
Obviously when you have a group of women who have options withen their own race and then a second race and then a third and so on there always leads to friction and kind of an imbalance. I don't blame the white woman for this. Whatever you are you should never be ashamed of yourself.
Even when their is not prejudice interracial dating is kinda hard because sticking to your own is somewhat the natural order or at least a default i guess. So when the White women come through our communities and pick up our men with ease that creates animosity. the work that the Black woman has to put in to getting her Black man and then trying to keep him on the strait path is automatically undermined.
Black women react because of hatred/racism, fear, jealousy, competitiveness territorialism, and the entire gambit.
Black men have this same issue because lots of White women like them, Latinos, a few Asians, a few Arabs. WW and BM may be the two groups with the highest rate of cross over appeal. It is a unique common ground.
Like I said before I believe and agree with you there are more BW hating on WW just to be haters then vice versa. But I also believe a sizable minority of WW just don't like BW for the reasons I stated in my first post.
I would like a discussion about the issue rather then you all to rule out its existence or blast the OP for being a mixed person which is irrelevant.
So now there are WW sucking up to Black folks? What is it that they're doing? Pacifying something? Fear of Black people? Please elaborate on these said WW who suck up. I see you loved stressing the sucking part. Another "Becky" giving head/brain joke?
Just an over appreciation of Black culture, a lot of trying to hard. I feel like the WW does fear the BW sometimes. Sometimes they seem intimidated or overwhelmed. Sometimes I'll ask a White girl about some Black girl and what she thinks about her and I feel shes afraid or reluctant to criticize the Black girl. The cattiness she extends to the White girls is muted. Why I am no instigator I am a bit attracted to the cattiness and feistiness.
It was a bad call to make that joke..
don't agree with being downright racist and disrespectful, but it's funny how you said you got those women mad. I wonder what negativity you've projected that you've gotten such a reaction from more than one woman. Could it be racial fairy tales? I'm not going to be naive and say that these women don't exist, cause they surely do, but I find it funny how you've attracted a plethora of them.
A plethora? Those are 3 girls.. I aint just been with 3 girls period.. I argue with these 2 white girls I absolutely loved and it never reached that point. The problem in my community is there are no deep interracial relations. Even if you do associate with other races at some point you always return to segregation. And then you have entire herds of individuals whos only exposure to Black people is through the rap they blast and the hip hop clothing they wear. A thin veil of camaraderie. Their need to be cool or hip is what brought them closer to the Black community and they hoped to maintain an image or persona. Thats probably why those White girls went all Jim Crow Jessica on me and I was kinda caught of guard by 2 of them.
The first girl that threatened to lynch me and my friend I can not recall why we fought. I think one day I called her on her shadiness and confronted her abut things others had said and it went from there. She said she was pregnant I said I never banged her she lost all her composure from there and reminded me just where she came from in Tennessee..
The one that was pregnant by a Mexican now, she got online one day i think we were arguing over her being a smart ass or something and we just started sparring and she dropped the n bomb. I have that yahoo fight archived.
The third and worst incident was the younger gal. we werent an item but shed talk to me for hours everyday. and shed tell me to drive up there to meet her atthe mall and I'd say I wanna to come to her hoise and she'd say her grandma would have a fit so i said whatever. I call her one day and her friend answers and says shes in the basement hooking up and shes been down there for 2 hours. I question her, she fronts, then admits it, then tries to quote laws to defend it then i show her loop holes then she makes up a new defense then i say how is he getting in your then, she gets angry and it escalates from there for a week or two. she txts "go pick yo cotton" i have my other friend (ironically a wigger-type from a far more racially polarized county) call her up. They argue. She calls me, I refused to answer and she leaves some voice saying "just like a fucking nigger to not pick up the phone" and some other shit. She sounded just like one of those girls from Laguna Beach/the Hills. It was insane. I have that recorded on my computer still.
What example were you using with Halle vs. Mariah? Looking more White? Being darker in complexion? Both Biracial, yes like the OP. I wonder if the OP ever sees her mother as one of us?
My point thee was even if she is mixed, unless we know what she looks like, youall can't go ham on her because shes not a WW. If she looks like a WW perhaps she has the right to imply she is a WW? I don't know..
And again the outrage I refer to is you all making a big deal of her turning out to be mixed. Is it invalid now? The girl who said she was pregnant, she went over to my friend, my friend is the one who has the white girlfriend from the ghetto who tries to act Black and loves Black men only but hates Black women.
She will admit it too. This is hilarious because my friend's mom is a Black women from the old school that donttake nothing and is outspoken. Shes also not a fan of White women..
I am not offended or out to get WW who hate BW I am just trying to understand about them.
Do you think that maybe the WW who express hate for BW are merely just defending themselves? Again, there are some WW who have insecurity issues and feel the need to bash BW, just like the same goes for BW who bash WW
Ofcourse. But not always. I understand why anyone defends themselves from any attack. Thats natural knowledge. What I dont understand is how some WW can hate a BW when her BM was raised by one or may have sisters or a grandma. Its a truncated racism and that is something i wish to understand. the WW hates BW but her BM wouldn't be in the world to be with her without a BW. I want to see how a quasi-racist uses their logic to reconcile that dilemma or awkward dynamic.
Its like when a parent will tell their kid that the bully bullies them because he hates himself. Thats not always true. You pointing to insecurity is the simple answer and theres more to it then that. We need answers not you dismissing something with lame Dr. Phil-isms.. We need a discussion with real explanations. if you dont know WW or you arenta WW with these views why are youeven in this thread? I didn't generalize, you just said I did so you'd have an excuse to fire "back" on me..
Again, like others have said before me, I don't know exactly what you're trying to get at with your first post, but it's clear as day that you have either an agenda or animosity towards WW.
i dont have an agenda, i am blunt, outspoken, opinionated, and not concerned with popularity. I ask what i want to know or what others are too afraid to admit they want to know.
I have no animosity towards WW. I was born Black and I shall remain Black and my early upbringing and mistreatment by Whites affirmed that. I have a Jack Johnson mentality really.
But even though i am unapologetic about my Blacks and don't mind displaying it and infuriating and egging on the rednecks and skin heads I want my girl to be white. I don't want a wigger type of girl. I don't care what you think or anyone else, as a woman in an IR you should applaud that. White women are my world, all i have ever wanted is white women, all hat will ever mke me happy is a white woman, all i am attracted to (mostly) is white women. if there were no white girls my world wouldn't spin at all. I just want a white girl that is simply white..
