Sorry guys again, I jumped the gun. Well let me come on out on the front and say that I am not a white woman, I am biracial...may father was a black man (passed away two years ago due to cancer) and my mother is from Argentina. Actually, I identify more with my black side because my Mother's ppl I rarely see, but I have always been around my aunts, uncles, cousins on my Farther's side. Anyways, mother hasn't been doing to well since my father passed as she is sick due to her kidney failing (diabetes). Out of all my siblings, I am the primary care taker, and while I don't have a problem attracting men, I just can't seem to find the time to commit between caring for my mom, and work. I thought maybe a dating site may be a good start to find someone I may be compatible with. I kind of feel a little guilty of doing this, like I am forcing myself to be in a relationship instead of the traditional way. Does that make sense??