Feeling Guilty About Attraction to White Women?

MrFantastic said:
Point made I guess but I do know a lot of American born Nergo women who aren't like that but maybe it has more to do with socio economics I guess.
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Another point I'll make is that you'll NEVER EVER see any other women on 20/20 or Nightline making an ass of themselves because they can't get a man at age 45 (due to choosing Pookie or Ray Ray over your intelligent brotha).
 
GQ Brotha said:
I'm just a stickler for personal responsibility, we all make choices in life and should be accountable for that. I'm from a West Indian culture that focused on education, improving yourself and showing respect for others.

We were driven hard educationally to achieve excellence in one's studies. When I came to America at 12 I was stunned at the way the inner city school system was, kids pushing teachers down the stairs, cursing out loud, concerned about the latest Air Jordan's on their feet. It was a culture shock for me to see that kind of behavior.

Education seemed like the last thing on the mind of these junior high and then high school kids.

All of that just rubbed me a certain way because of how I was raised.

I believe there is a right and wrong way of doing things and cannot stand disrespectful individuals.
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This post I can agree with.
 
SmoothDaddy101 said:
Another point I'll make is that you'll NEVER EVER see any other women on 20/20 or Nightline making an ass of themselves because they can't get a man at age 45 (due to choosing Pookie or Ray Ray over your intelligent brotha).
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Truthfully I think that has more to do with 20/20 and Nightline painting that shitty picture. They choose women who make poor choices and want to bitch. The older I get the more I see that humans are just humans anything that tries differentiate us based on superficial things like ethnicity is pure propoganda.
In the end I'm just searching for fairness and truth and painting bw monolitically is inaccurate and just not fair. The same way doing it to bm is inaccurate and unfair.
 
TastyAcidMilk said:
ive seen and heard about this, i have no idea how that works
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I'm not the only one that's experienced this..not by a long shot.

Larry Elders had a talk show about BM/WW...it's on youtube...the main sister ranting and raving the hardest...was married to a white dude.

His reaction to her was CLASSIC..
 
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MrFantastic said:
I have to play devils advocate on this one. Part of it probably comes from never feeling appreciated or beautiful coupled with so many of our men going to prison or dying young and when the few "good" ones go for non black women that has to sting. It has to come across as a complete rejection to everything they are especially in a culture where we covet everything opposite of them. Long silky hair light eyes and slimmer bodies, a person can't help feel rejected everywhere. Society says they are desired so much so the "good" bm want anything that looks opposite of them.

I know most bm date and marry bw but more often than not the picture of a successful happy loving bm usually comes with a sexy ww.
It won't change what I like but I can see both sides.
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Let the devil be his own advocate.

BM grow up in a society that sees WM as the best looking men.

Not only that..

We have to listen to our own women claim "WM make prettier babies"

Yet..

You don't see us crying over celebs or everyday BW with WM.

Your points are pointless.


A non-BW has to LOOK AROUND before she can say a BM is good looking...because she KNOWS there might be somebody within earshot that will stomp her ass on the spot.

A BW doesn't have to look around to praise a non-BM.
 
flaminghetero said:
Let the devil be his own advocate.

BM grow up in a society that sees WM as the best looking men.

Not only that..

We have to listen to our own women claim "WM make prettier babies"

Yet..

You don't see us crying over celebs or everyday BW with WM.

Your points are pointless.


A non-BW has to LOOK AROUND before she can say a BM is good looking...because she KNOWS there might be somebody within earshot that will stomp her ass on the spot.

A BW doesn't have to look around to praise a non-BM.
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Now your points are pure conjecture fam. I do agree that bw fawn over mixed babies like nobody's business. And as far as non bw praising bm it happens often but they're usually celebrities.
 
flaminghetero said:
I'm not the only one that's experienced this..not by a long shot.

Larry Elders had a talk show about BM/WW...it's on youtube...the main sister ranting and raving the hardest...was married to a white dude.

His reaction to her was CLASSIC..
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was that the black woman with glasses who said she wouldnt want her son to be with a white woman? she also had a black woman next to her? if so i have seen that before, its classic hypocrisy
 
cyn1988 said:
Additionally, Flaming, it might not have been your intent but it seems like you're angry that (supposedly) black women aren't submissive to black men. Real men do not need a submissive woman or have a need to feel superior. More power to them if black women won't submit to you, but this white woman wouldn't either, and plenty other besides.
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Go read the comments about BM/WW relationships coming from black women EVERY DAY on any black blog like hater site and Media takeout and your sympathy will magically disappear.
 
Max Mosley said:
Go read the comments about BM/WW relationships coming from black women EVERY DAY on any black blog like hater site and Media takeout and your sympathy will magically disappear.
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i read a topic on that website someone made about this very website and forum, its was full of lies etc, the comments were your typical crap aswell
 
Fuck everybody....I don't give a shit about, Tarrell, Becky, Ismarelda, Ming Lin, or Helga...I only care bout those old green dudes printed on $$
 
MrFantastic said:
I have to play devils advocate on this one. Part of it probably comes from never feeling appreciated or beautiful coupled with so many of our men going to prison or dying young and when the few "good" ones go for non black women that has to sting. It has to come across as a complete rejection to everything they are especially in a culture where we covet everything opposite of them. Long silky hair light eyes and slimmer bodies, a person can't help feel rejected everywhere. Society says they are desired so much so the "good" bm want anything that looks opposite of them.

I know most bm date and marry bw but more often than not the picture of a successful happy loving bm usually comes with a sexy ww.
It won't change what I like but I can see both sides.
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Boo hoo hoo. You act like black men live in world of kittens and rainbows.
 
MrFantastic said:
Damn nice broad brush SD lol.
Question is this every bw or the sample group constantly shoved down our throats through media because not one woman in my family nor the majority of bw I grew up with act like this fam. Sorry just my personal experience.
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Then where is your beautiful black girlfriend? Oh wait, you like white chicks.

Most BM don't need the media to validate what we know about BW, we've lived it.
 
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