Feeling Guilty About Attraction to White Women?

LA said:
I'd say his thread gets views on 'shock value' alone.

Say, if there was an 'ugly women' thread', there would guaranteed be a lot of views simply because of the 'shock value' factor. I'm not saying BBW are ugly. I'm simply stating the type of reaction it will garner on average.
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That's proven inaccurate. My Butterface thread went dead.
 
LA said:
I'd say his thread gets views on 'shock value' alone.

Say, if there was an 'ugly women' thread', there would guaranteed be a lot of views simply because of the 'shock value' factor. I'm not saying BBW are ugly. I'm simply stating the type of reaction it will garner on average.
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damn

house of horrors style?

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pettyofficerj said:
posts like these lead me to believe that people (not you but the ones in question) aren't being exposed to decent black women. you can't argue with people that don't get out and experience life. If you work (or even just visit) at a hospital in a mixed city (like philly), you're going to see many black nurses, technicians, professionals, that are anything but the stereotype that loves to chase after tupac or some other guy with his pants hanging off his ass.

If you don't like BW, fine. Don't just sandbag them every time you get the chance, because contrary to popular belief, they don't sandbag us every chance they get. Stop watching movies and living your life through blogs and idiots on youtube, unplug your internet and go experience life for yourself.
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THIS!
 
Max Mosley said:
Im not even sure what the disagreement is cause im jumpin in late but this need not be forgotten...

What groups do most of the opposition of interracial relationships come from in this country? White men and black women.
Any negative comments I see toward black women stem more from a response to their prejudice & hypocrisy and less to do with pure vitriol.
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MrFantastic said:
Does keeping it real mean keeping the stereotypes too? My over all point is why do we allow the least(minority) of a group to be the poster child for all. We hate when Lil Wayne is used as the represenation of bm but turn right around and let classless hoodrats represent bw. Like I said before its unfair and inaccurate.
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One can only speak from their own experience or observation. Your first example involves an analyzation of a public figure in comparison to ALL black men in this country. You could walk down a mall outside of the hood and debunk that without trying.

The next involves black women and their opinions on black men and white women's relationships. You need to either have candid relationships with black women or sit and watch or read candid discussion between black women. I have or do both and its my opinion that theres an overwhelming amount of vitriol for bm/ww relationships coming from that direction.

Sure i could pretend I dont see it and chock it up to my inexperience but why? Im 33 years old and have seen enough of it to know its not my imagination. I hear it from family, I hear it from co-workers, I hear it on the street and i read it on any forum ive seen available for black women.

Does this mean I hate black women, no. Does it mean that I feel every black woman I talk to feels this way about bm/ww, no. it just means that if I run into a discussion about this very topic, im not gonna put my head in the sand just to be politically correct.

And again...This isnt a sweeping generalization, but rather my observations of MY experiences. My family has a few hoodrats but by and large its far from it. Out of all of my female family, id say roughly 30% have positive or indifferent views on BM/WW relationships. So you tell me. Should I have kept that to myself?
 
Max Mosley said:
You said all. Not me. Furthermore, this country has too long of a history to put our heads in the sand and pretend its been a melting pot of inclusion. That doesnt mean you harp on it daily but if we're having a real discussion, lets keep it real.

We all know the difference between discussing trends and making ignorant generalizations so lets not pretend we dont for the sake of winning an argument.
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I just re read this after Flame's remark. Fam you actually did use bw in the general sense and I wasn't pretending anything. Like PO said all they youtube watching and restricting ourselves to small areas limits our life experiences and leads us to drawing ignorant false conclusions. I could care less about winning an argument I just like talking about truth not assumptions.
 
MrFantastic said:
I just re read this after Flame's remark. Fam you actually did use bw in the general sense and I wasn't pretending anything. Like PO said all they youtube watching and restricting ourselves to small areas limits our life experiences and leads us to drawing ignorant false conclusions. I could care less about winning an argument I just like talking about truth not assumptions.
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Well, youre assuming that in order to have the opinion I do on this subject, i must have restricted myself.

I say to you that youre entitled to your opinion on this subject but you have no idea of the extent of my experiences.
 
MrFantastic said:
Does keeping it real mean keeping the stereotypes too? My over all point is why do we allow the least(minority) of a group to be the poster child for all. We hate when Lil Wayne is used as the represenation of bm but turn right around and let classless hoodrats represent bw. Like I said before its unfair and inaccurate.
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Thats where youre wrong. My intention isnt to establish a negative representation of black women. But rather to point out what i feel is still an issue. You might be taking a collection of opinions from several people on bw and arguing them all with me.
 
MrFantastic said:
I just re read this after Flame's remark. Fam you actually did use bw in the general sense and I wasn't pretending anything. Like PO said all they youtube watching and restricting ourselves to small areas limits our life experiences and leads us to drawing ignorant false conclusions. I could care less about winning an argument I just like talking about truth not assumptions.
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You should read post #331...that's what you should do.
 
pettyofficerj said:
posts like these lead me to believe that people (not you but the ones in question) aren't being exposed to decent black women. you can't argue with people that don't get out and experience life. If you work (or even just visit) at a hospital in a mixed city (like philly), you're going to see many black nurses, technicians, professionals, that are anything but the stereotype that loves to chase after tupac or some other guy with his pants hanging off his ass.

If you don't like BW, fine. Don't just sandbag them every time you get the chance, because contrary to popular belief, they don't sandbag us every chance they get. Stop watching movies and living your life through blogs and idiots on youtube, unplug your internet and go experience life for yourself.
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Not sure if im one of the ones in question or not?
 
Max Mosley said:
Thats where youre wrong. My intention isnt to establish a negative representation of black women. But rather to point out what i feel is still an issue. You might be taking a collection of opinions from several people on bw and arguing them all with me.
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Fair enough fam. It wasn't my intent to do that but I can see how its coming across like that. My bad.
 
flaminghetero said:
You should read post #331...that's what you should do.
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I just did and in fairness I get the pov. I'm not blind or stupid fam, I see the same bullshit but I know such amazing beautiful bw. They make joke about "Drae and his white girls" but its never with animosity or ill will. I guess I see the negatives but won't let it make a lasting impression because I know what its really about.
 
MrFantastic said:
Fair enough fam. It wasn't my intent to do that but I can see how its coming across like that. My bad.
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No prob. :cool:

The argument im trying to make is... just because one points out an observation they've experienced....the fact that its a negative observation doesnt mean they have an overall negative opinion on that group of people. But I can damn well see how that could be assumed because people make ignorant generalization every day. Sometimes on this forum :)

Some of my aunts have the same opinion I do on this subject and the last thing I feel is 'they dont like black women'.
 
Max Mosley said:
No prob. :cool:

The argument im trying to make is... just because one points out an observation they've experienced....the fact that its a negative observation doesnt mean they have an overall negative opinion on that group of people. But I can damn well see how that could be assumed because people make ignorant generalization every day. Sometimes on this forum :)

Some of my aunts have the same opinion I do on this subject and the last thing I feel is 'they dont like black women'.
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Btw for all the kiddies this how grown up disagree and resolve a misunderstanding.
I'm just saying.... :-D
 
Max Mosley said:
No prob. :cool:

The argument im trying to make is... just because one points out an observation they've experienced....the fact that its a negative observation doesnt mean they have an overall negative opinion on that group of people. But I can damn well see how that could be assumed because people make ignorant generalization every day. Sometimes on this forum :)

Some of my aunts have the same opinion I do on this subject and the last thing I feel is 'they dont like black women'.
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100% true, would of thought alot of people would know this
 
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Max Mosley said:
We all know the difference between discussing trends and making ignorant generalizations so lets not pretend we dont for the sake of winning an argument.
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This right here needs to be quoted and copied @ pasted into pretty much every argument that's ever been had on the forum.
 
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