I will admit I have and will continue to chubby chase

[Arwen]

Thanks for perpetuating the fat loving stereotype brothas.:-x

Sorry, we already had this discussion 234 yrs ago here. NEXT!

Sounds like you need better friends.

Black men are stereotyped as being thugs, gangstas, criminals, deadbeat babydaddies and convicts but if the topic is fat WW mfers want to get all indignant

Riiiiight.

:smt038

Maybe so, but i also don't like fat women coming up to me in the club because they think i like 'em. Just annoying.

Maybe some of them come up to you because they like you period? Do they always have to have low self esteem problems and go for the black man because of that?
Be sure that when I walk and talk to a black man at the club it ain't because I'm chubby but because I want him.

 

[Ol'Skool Classic]

Maybe so, but i also don't like fat women coming up to me in the club because they think i like 'em. Just annoying. Btw, those guys aren't my friends. I clearly said they we're coworkers and colleagues.

"Boo Hoo Hoo!! I hate fat women and it's all you other niggas fault that they come up and try to fuck with me. Boo Hoo Hoo!! sniff sniff"



So any other non fat women that you find unatrractive also who approaches you it's all these other niggas fault too, huh? Some of you goddamn young niggas today are just whiney as fuck and priority wise just ate the fuck up as all hell. Act and talk all tough but when you actually need to grab your balls and be about shit ya'll don't. :smt011

 

[Ymra]

Look you guys can say whatever you want. But it' the actions of some brothas that have the rest of us dealing with it. For example, a few weeks back i was out for drinks with some colleagues from work when a group of women came into the bar. One of my co-workers said something off hand that "They'd take the 3 skinny ones, and i could have the fat one cuz we know brothas love fat chicks." Of course everyone started laughing and he said he was just kidding but i wasn't amused at all. As usual black men are seen as loving the white man's cast off's and rejects. And when i see threads like this, i can't blame 'em for thinking that.

Its because they don't respect you.

None of my co-workers, even the infantry cats I hang with are going to pop off with some "you know how you black men are"

I SORT of know what are talking about I just think you spit it the wrong way. And you are new so these mutha fukkaz are getting ready to feed on your ass like roaches.

Save for a few these lemmings are going to start shitting on themselves to be the first to tell you how you are.

 

[Esoterik Dreadz]

Its because they don't respect you.

None of my co-workers, even the infantry cats I hang with are going to pop off with some "you know how you black men are"

I SORT of know what are talking about I just think you spit it the wrong way. And you are new so these mutha fukkaz are getting ready to feed on your ass like roaches.

Save for a few these lemmings are going to start shitting on themselves to be the first to tell you how you are.

Well fuck' em if they don't like my opinion. I an deal with it. But i also have the right to disagree with the OP's thoughts. I don't hate fat women. I've dated a size ten before but all the OP is doing is perpetuating a stereotype.

 

[Esoterik Dreadz]

Sorry, we already had this discussion 234 yrs ago here. NEXT!



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Maybe some of them come up to you because they like you period? Do they always have to have low self esteem problems and go for the black man because of that?
Be sure that when I walk and talk to a black man at the club it ain't because I'm chubby but because I want him.

So i can't share my opinion? Last time i checked this was a public forum. Secondly, people are only as shallow as their situation allows. I'm sure if you were 60 lbs lighter you probably wouldn't be fucking with black dudes. Same as white women who reach their 40's and suddenly realize they loved black men all along. If the white guys aren't hollering, guess the brothas will. Black men need some set of standards too. And this thread does nothing to help that.

No offense to you.

 

[FG]

I don't think you need to lose any weight Sweden; you look great. I'm not one of those bony women myself...I love & embrace my curves & you should feel the same about yours.

I agree, Sweden looks criminally good!!!!

 

[z]

As usual black men are seen as loving the white man's cast off's and rejects. And when i see threads like this, i can't blame 'em for thinking that.

Fat women need loving too, lol, come on bruh you're hard on them. I am not into big boned chicks but most I know as friend are cool as hell (maybe I will make an exception one of these days). Beauty is skin deep, so if the next brother is digging them, I aint mad at him. Let him do his thang. LoL

 

[fromrussiawithlove]

Maybe so, but i also don't like fat women coming up to me in the club because they think i like 'em. Just annoying. Btw, those guys aren't my friends. I clearly said they we're coworkers and colleagues.

I'm not gonna attack you about this, dude. So you don't like big girls. Plenty of girls who don't like big men either, but seriously why are you so bothered about people approaching you, complimenting you and thinking you're good looking? All you have to say is 'sorry I'm not interested' regardless of whether they're a size 2 or 20. And you also mention the stereotype of fat white women... do only fat white women chat you up? Do fat black/hispanic/asian women never do it?

I personally don't get why people complain about people chatting them up, even if they don't consider them to be attractive. Be complimeted that someone thinks you're cute. If you don't like them, why bust in with the stereotype bullshit? Just take it as a compliment, shrug it off and move onto the next one.

 

[Ymra]

In the future please stand with your legs open...

...thank you in advance.:smt050


Here is something I don't get. Ok.....first off Sweden is a big girl...she is....and she's fine as hell too. But why is there is knee jerk reaction to pretend that big woman isn't what she is?

BIG

Sweden said it herself, and CLEARLY she wears herself well. CLEARLY she's comfortable. I'm starting to ramble but what is the issue in just saying what is true?

Did I make my point in all that gibberish or did anyone get what I was trying to say?

 

[Tamstrong]

Thanks for perpetuating the fat loving stereotype brothas.:-x

*sigh*

Id rather perpetuate a stereotype than be a weak man whos afraid of what the next man thinks.

:smt023

Sounds like you need better friends.

Black men are stereotyped as being thugs, gangstas, criminals, deadbeat babydaddies and convicts but if the topic is fat WW mfers want to get all indignant

Riiiiight.

:smt038:smt038:smt038

Sorry, we already had this discussion 234 yrs ago here. NEXT!



:smt038


Maybe some of them come up to you because they like you period? Do they always have to have low self esteem problems and go for the black man because of that?
Be sure that when I walk and talk to a black man at the club it ain't because I'm chubby but because I want him.

Very well said, Arwen (aka TS) except for the chubby part because you ain't "chubby".

I'm sure if you were 60 lbs lighter you probably wouldn't be fucking with black dudes. Same as white women who reach their 40's and suddenly realize they loved black men all along. If the white guys aren't hollering, guess the brothas will.

Bullshit.

 

[Tamstrong]

I'm not gonna attack you about this, dude. So you don't like big girls. Plenty of girls who don't like big men either, but seriously why are you so bothered about people approaching you, complimenting you and thinking you're good looking? All you have to say is 'sorry I'm not interested' regardless of whether they're a size 2 or 20. And you also mention the stereotype of fat white women... do only fat white women chat you up? Do fat black/hispanic/asian women never do it?

I personally don't get why people complain about people chatting them up, even if they don't consider them to be attractive. Be complimeted that someone thinks you're cute. If you don't like them, why bust in with the stereotype bullshit? Just take it as a compliment, shrug it off and move onto the next one.

Great post, Russia. Although some folks don't get it, most people understand that when someone pays them a compliment, the appropriate response is "Thank you."

 

[Esoterik Dreadz]

*sigh*



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Very well said, Arwen (aka TS) except for the chubby part because you ain't "chubby".


Bullshit.

Whatever.

 

[FG]

So i can't share my opinion? Last time i checked this was a public forum. Secondly, people are only as shallow as their situation allows. I'm sure if you were 60 lbs lighter you probably wouldn't be fucking with black dudes. Same as white women who reach their 40's and suddenly realize they loved black men all along. If the white guys aren't hollering, guess the brothas will. Black men need some set of standards too. And this thread does nothing to help that.

No offense to you.

Sooo... You are pissed at a stereotype towards bm, and dont see that you are guilty of the same crime? You just stereotyped ww right there.....

 

[Frederick]

So i can't share my opinion? Last time i checked this was a public forum. Secondly, people are only as shallow as their situation allows. I'm sure if you were 60 lbs lighter you probably wouldn't be fucking with black dudes. Same as white women who reach their 40's and suddenly realize they loved black men all along. If the white guys aren't hollering, guess the brothas will. Black men need some set of standards too. And this thread does nothing to help that.

No offense to you.

Watch out brotha. They gonna come at your head now. People don't like to hear the truth around here.

 

[4north1side2]

So i can't share my opinion? Last time i checked this was a public forum. Secondly, people are only as shallow as their situation allows. I'm sure if you were 60 lbs lighter you probably wouldn't be fucking with black dudes. Same as white women who reach their 40's and suddenly realize they loved black men all along. If the white guys aren't hollering, guess the brothas will. Black men need some set of standards too. And this thread does nothing to help that.

No offense to you.

You know you done fucked up right? :smt018

 

[Ymra]

Sooo... You are pissed at a stereotype towards bm, and dont see that you are guilty of the same crime? You just stereotyped ww right there.....

Well see its ok to stereotype so long as you are not stereotyping the ones you are complaining about being stereotyped.

Just like its not ok to judge, unless you are judging the one who is judging then...well...hell...that's ok.

I just made myself dizzy at the hypocritical hypocrisy of it all.

What I want to know is if over half of the population is over weight.........and black women have the height perecentage of over weight women...

...but a black only goes with a white woman cuz she's big and can't get a white man

...what about the black men that date big black women? They can't get a white man either?

....oh I'm confusing myself again.

 

[Esoterik Dreadz]

Well see its ok to stereotype so long as you are not stereotyping the ones you are complaining about being stereotyped.

Just like its not ok to judge, unless you are judging the one who is judging then...well...hell...that's ok.

I just made myself dizzy at the hypocritical hypocrisy of it all.

What I want to know is if over half of the population is over weight.........and black women have the height perecentage of over weight women...

...but a black only goes with a white woman cuz she's big and can't get a white man

...what about the black men that date big black women? They can't get a white man either?

....oh I'm confusing myself again.

All i'm asking for is brothas to raise their standards. I'm sorry if i'm hurting the feelings of plus sized women here on the boards but notice when you see white guys with black women they date the cream of the crop. Alot of black guys mentality is "if it has white flesh thats good enough for me" FUCK THAT SHIT. Raise your standards. And stop chasing after these heffers. A girl like Sweden is fine looking (although she looked her best in that first pic in the yellow) but dating some nasty obese chick is just wrong. Just saying.

 

[Kushton Slater]

All i'm asking for is brothas to raise their standards. I'm sorry if i'm hurting the feelings of plus sized women here on the boards but notice when you see white guys with black women they date the cream of the crop. Alot of black guys mentally is "if it has white flesh thats good enough for me" FUCK THAT SHIT. Raise your standards. And stop chasing after these heffers. A girl like Sweden is fine looking (although she looked her best in that first pic in the yellow) but dating some nasty obese chick is just wrong. Just saying.

I know what you're talking about, when I see white guys with black girls they tend to date higher end black girls. When I see black men with white girls, they tend to date lower end white girls (white trash).

 

[Esoterik Dreadz]

I know what you're talking about, when I see white guys with black girls they tend to date higher end black girls. When I see black men with white girls, they tend to date lower end white girls (white trash).

Thank you, brotha! Thats all i'm saying. I used to date this white girl from my old job at American Express who was this banging banging blonde from california. She looked like a young Heather Locklear. We went out on a couple dates at restaurants and clubs and every white man would be staring daggers and brothas would be giving me dap at the bar going "Thats how you do it, son!" Thats the type of game a brotha should be showing. Not rolling into the club with Lisa Lampanelli. You feel me?

If that makes me wrong, lock me up. But i know you guys feel me, you jsut too chicken to hurt feelings in here.

 

[GQ Brotha]

Look you guys can say whatever you want. But it' the actions of some brothas that have the rest of us dealing with it. For example, a few weeks back i was out for drinks with some colleagues from work when a group of women came into the bar. One of my co-workers said something off hand that "They'd take the 3 skinny ones, and i could have the fat one cuz we know brothas love fat chicks." Of course everyone started laughing and he said he was just kidding but i wasn't amused at all. As usual black men are seen as loving the white man's cast off's and rejects. And when i see threads like this, i can't blame 'em for thinking that.

Find some new friends and do you. If you walked in with a skinny white woman, those white men would still talk shit under their breath.

Absolutely, this is what some brothas don't grasp, some white dudes can't help themselves but run their mouth when they see a black man with a white woman.

Let us say a lot of black men go out with fat white women, why do some white guys still get so upset about Interracial relationships.

They do because it goes beyond the physical it goes to their core as a body blow to their ego. If it wasn't significant to them they would keep their mouth closed, but it still chafes at them because its the very idea of Black Man/White Woman.

Whatever kind of woman you like as a MAN, you go for that and do your thing. I'm not checking for who the next man is with, it doesn't impact me.

If you know you don't date fat white women then why stress what some "so called friends" have to say. As Max pointed out if you had walked in with the skinniest white girl on your arm, they would still utter rubbish.

The last person that can be given any credibility to speak when it comes to black men/ white women interracial relationships is white men, they are not exactly reliable sources at dealing altruistically with black men, white women relationships. I think history speaks to that.