When you are with a white woman, you honestly care what a white guy thinks.
Man you are feeding right into them.
Lets see black men date fat white women, low class white women, she has daddy issues, she is doing it to get back at the white man, she is a liberal and feels sorry for the wrongs of the past, she thinks he is an accessory and its cool because of the Jewish media and the list can go on and on.
You would do very well my brotha to not care one iota what a white dude thinks, you should let that be his problem to rationalize in his own mind.
Ask yourself this why would a white guy feel compelled to talk about a fat white woman and black men, when they fully well know all kinds of white women date black men, just look around us in everyday life.
They do care when a black man is dating a white woman, or else they would never make such comments, they would not even think about it, but it comes into their minds because it affects them because of the nature of the relationship and history.
I don't talk about black women with white men and you know why I don't care about it, because it doesn't mater to me. I'm not checking for either one so I don't need to stress it or make lame commentaries.
There are black guys dating hot white women all over, so ask yourself this why do they focus on the "fat white woman" angle, because it is what they have left to be negative and off putting in behavior about.
Its easy fodder to appease their ego. I don't think one truly can undesrtand the idea of a white woman appreciating a black man over a white man in society, given the way black men are often stereotyped and what that means to an insecure white man. A white dude to your face will make those kind of subtle cheeky commentaries, if any at all, but nothing overt. They save that for behind closed doors and among themselves.
Keep doing you brotha and say fuck the ignorance.