Forget about Mr. Fantastic for a second..... we are talking about your behavior. You've an abusive husband who is a police officer that can't handle stress very well. Then you come and join a frigging site with your first name, air your dirty laundry right of the bat with your picture in your Avi, with your job title, age, & location in your profile. This is an internet, I don't know if you know this but any Moron with cable service can access this site or any other. You don't know if your abusive hubby enjoys cuckloding and potentially might drop by on this site & see his red hair wife getting hammered by big blk stud...hmmmm, let me see what is gonna go thru his mind?.
You said you work for security company, don't they teach basic logic at that company or do you work for friggin security comapny that is run by Tijuana police department, God knows they can't even protect their innocent citizen from drug dealers, just wondering...