This is what I probably should’ve said yesterday before things got out of hand… A BW loyalist is a BM who no matter what will always feel the need to apologize to BW for his attraction to WW or even "looking" at a WW. These same BW loyalists will tend to look down on other BM with hatred and contempt who freely choose to date WW. Many of these BW loyalists have never even dated a WW in their lives but have sometimes thought about it, however due to their ongoing fear of BW they will always feel some sense of obligation and the need to be controlled. The strange thing about these BW loyalists is that they will automatically morph into a mute church-mouse when encountered by a BW who is dating a WM causing these BW loyalists to tuck their tail between their legs because of it.
Doesn't matter to me. I don't see BW often (where I am anyway). A lot of the rhetoric against BM/WW occurs throughout the internet, but it doesn't matter because it's unlikely that we would see those kinds of people in real life.
I know this type of dude, but I would call them BW LOYALISTS.....I don't know what I'd call them but "loyalist" ain't it.
To be honest, I got over what they had to say when I was a teen. Also I have a small circle of friends so it also eliminates many of them from my circle. At this point I have heard so much unneeded crap in my life, I am not bothered by it.
It is funny you would post that poster. I went to see that movie as a teen and a BW loyalist I knew was in attendance. A few years before he tried to warn me of the dangers of dating white women.
I dont think the word loyalist applies to that definition. it elludes to that there is a war between blacks and whites. the way the phrase was used in the past does nt fit the definition anyway.
These type of dudes swear by their belief that BM should never date a WW. The irony is many of these brothas are sleeping with numerous BW or they on the DL. LOL
He is a blind black man who refuse to see the light and errors of his decision to stay in chains and bondage.
I think dudes like that aren't loyalists they're cowards. I'm not gonna front in hs I was totally the type of guy who dated nothing but white girls but always felt like I needed to hide my preference because I didn't want to deal with people saying shit to me. Ironically 90% of my friends who made fun of me for that shit now either date white women or have a kid by them. As adults we should do what we like and say fuck the haters. They don't pay our bills nor do they support us through our struggles.
I don't care what anyone thinks or have to say about me and my preference. As far as I'm concern BW and their BM lap dogs can kiss my ass.
I think these guys biggest problem is their own guilty conscience, which leads to a lot of projection and cognitive dissonance. Deep down inside, they are the biggest believers that White is right and Black is whack. If you were to give them a lie detector test or something like the Implicit Association Test, they would test as preferring White. Most BM at some point have been threatened, lectured, shamed, and scammed, that it is the ultimate no-no for a real BM to lust after any woman other than a BW. So these types need to find a way to "keep it real", while honoring their true desires, which is for WW. Men like these are the ones who are the most repulsed by BW and their looks, which is why they have to spend the extra time and effort trying to convince others otherwise, which leads to threads like the "hottest Black women" and the like on a website dedicated to BM and WW. Also it leads to them witchunting other BM with their diagnosis of "self-hate", which is merely a projection of their own vice. It's as if they are hoping that if they call it out in other BM first, that no one will notice it in them.
In my opinion, a BW loyalist is a simp ass nigga who has no balls and will be more than happy to humiliate himself and be a lapdog and a stooge. He'll apologize for even liking mixed/light-skinned women or try to downplay it (Think Norbit truly loving the beautiful Kate vs the ugly and loud Rasputia).
