The so-called nice guy is the supreme player. They have a different approach which is a little more sophisticated in getting what they want. They prey on the naive with kindness. Unfortunately too many women fall for it until it's too late. I guess one learns from their mistakes to get wise. I guess that is why sooooo many women see through the nice guy.
I always love it when people call me arrogant. It cracks me up. Why shouldn't I be arrogant. I'm inlove with me lol
I think many times different characteristics are confused. nice/wimpy shy/introverted arrogant/confident Some good, while others that are similar can be a turnoff. I don't find nice a turnoff but wimpy is out.
Exactly but some people that shit takes forever to figure out. One of the things that I use to hear girls talk about in hs was finding a pretty thug. Dumbest thing I ever heard of in my life.
For the most part, everything you said is accurate. Wolf in sheep's clothing lol...Thats what its all about now.
Heres a kicker: If you researched narcissistic(and sociopath) behavior in men, it states the following:::::::::men exhibiting these behaviors initially come across as the nicest-charismatic-most charming- ducklings in the pond. Wrapping around you like a warm jacket in winter making you accustomed to the feeling. After your body has become dependent on it, a transformation occurs. In other words, this jacket turns into a winding snake-anaconda that squeezes the life out of you. It squeezes until blood explodes through your nostrils and all that is left is a dried up, fruitless, depressed entity psychologically enslaved from her true essence. But heres another kicker: Women love feeling psychologically enslaved and told what to do. Provided the fact that the narcissistic individual "studied his game", he can suck the life out of a woman and still have her crawling back for more (and more) because the feeling of depression becomes a feeling of affection she cant live without. And his aggravation becomes the only passion in her life.
Exactly. That usually meant pretty ass dudes who hung out on the block with their wave cap while they did push ups and admired each other's kicks. Just plain gay.
Kinda like that one episode of "The Boondocks" when they was on that homies over hoes-type shit. It's fucked up how the prison mentality creeped it's way onto the streets like it did.
Hey guys BW call bad boys thug behavior , macks or players. Hey fellas guess what WW and BW are the same....is that funny. Like I stated before what the woman been saying you can be a good guy but doesnt mean be a cupcaker, a simp and a trick
Yep, this is something I try to tell many young men. I cannot tell you how many men, black men in particular, who are educated, polite, physically fit, and have nice jobs who have no confidence with women whatsoever.
It's because too many young black men buy into the idea if you're not the stereotypical black lady's man you aren't going to be desirable.
Yup nobody wants to be called that. I'd rather be called an asshole than a nice guy any day of the week.
