I've heard about this scenario with some brothas. There are some dudes so paranoid about being labelled a "sellout" for being with a white woman that they start acting retarded when they see a black woman in the vicinity.
I knew some of those guys in my past as well. More than I can count. I lost respect for them. Granted, IR wasn't as accepted before as it is now (BM/WW). Let me take back the word accepted, but it wasn't as umm, popular or out in the open shall we say as it is today. They could have really liked us too, but that fear and not wanting to hear it from Sistas, outweighed everything else. Nothing like a dude who can take you out in public without any trepidation....
Please don't associate pussy ass bitches like those dudes with real man like myself. When I started dating IR it wasn't hardly any BM/WW couples around here. I use to stroll through the heart of the projects with my girl and I wasn't trippin off of these fuckin haters. I have always been proud of my preference for white women. I never really cared how other people viewed me or any of my girlfriends. I will admit I have ran into more than a couple of hating ass white men and black women. However, that never discourage me from showing public affection to the woman that I'm with.
you ladies want a 'real' man here you go... when that mothafucka punches you in the jaw for not having his meal ready, dont come back here crying:smt005
We were at this Mexican place (at the bar) in Venice and a reggae band was playing - at the same time as some celebration party w all black women were coming in, I think it was a birthday party.... we were grooving to the music and once the bw appeared, he started to step away from me and got all weird. He stepped away and I stepped closer and he stepped away.. and so on... I actually was amused once I caught on... He had the audacity to ask for another date.... no such thing was going to happen....
